Ndipo ku Germany, dziko lomwe lili ndi makampani opanga mafilimu akuluakulu, pa phwando kwa wogonana. Mu chikhalidwe chathu, zolaula zakhala zidole zachiwerewere. Kodi mukufuna zosiyanasiyana? Onani zolaula. Kodi mukufuna chinachake chikuletsedwa? Onani zolaula. Kodi mudakhumudwa pamodzi? Onani zolaula. Kodi ndinu nokha? Chabwino, ndiye nokha mukudziwa zomwe mungachite. Chisangalalo chokhazikika - ziri ngati chakudya chophweka, chomwe, kudutsa masitepe ambiri a chimbudzi, shuga yosirira imalowa m'magazi athu. Ndipo chitani pa thupi mofanana. Ndi zophweka kuti muzolowere zomwe zimabwera mofulumira komanso mawonekedwe okonzedwa bwino. Palibe zopinga, palibe kukayikira. Nthawi zonse mukhoza kuwongolera ndi kupotoza mmbuyo, kutsogolo kapena kusinthanitsa. Kodi ndi zachilendo ngati munthu amayendera malo olaula tsiku lililonse kapena ayi?
Amene amakonda zolaula
Ubongo waumunthu ndi wodala komanso wonyenga, ngati chinachake chikhoza kupindula mwa njira yophweka ndi yopulumutsa mphamvu, iye adzafuna izo zokha. Ndipo zolaula zimapulumutsa maganizo, nzeru, chuma cha munthu ndi ... kuchedwa. Pamene kudalira kwakukulu kwachitika kale, malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana amayamba pang'onopang'ono, poyamba poyamba mosadziwika, kusintha. Zowonjezereka, izi zimakhala chifukwa cha kuchepa kwa "chithunzi cha mphotho" ya chiwalo cha maimbidwe, zovuta za ubongo zomwe zimagwira ntchito pakukhazikitsa maganizo, zolinga ndi zowonongeka kuti zikhazikike. Izi ndizo, gawo ili la ubongo ndilo momwe timayendera dziko lapansi. Kumbali imodzi, kufesa pa zokopa zokhazokha zamaganizo (kugonana kolimbikitsa kugonana), timasiya kusangalala), kufikira tsiku, kuyang'ana mwachikondi kwa wokondedwa kapena kugwira ntchito yovuta. Koma, tikukhala ovuta kwambiri: tikusowa zosangalatsa zambiri. Koma ubongo umakonzedwa motere: kukondweretsa nthawi zonse kwa receptors kumapangitsa kuti tizimva. Ndipo momwe munthu amawonera pa zolaula ndikumangirira kwakukulu kwa malo osangalatsa. Ndipo sizingatheke kubwereza mmoyo weniweni: wowonayo adzakhala ndi nthawi yayifupi, osakwatirana, ndipo yekhayo amene sangathe kumaliza makumi anayi angathe popanda kusokoneza ndipo, mwachiwonekere, sakufuna kuika mpira mwa iyemwini.
Kusokonezedwa kuchokera ku intaneti
Amuna ambiri (komanso kugonana ndi vuto lachiwerewere ndilo vuto lalikulu chabe la kugonana), omwe ali ndi chizolowezi choonera zolaula, samangozindikira zomwe zikuwachitikira. Kawirikawiri amamvetsetsa: iwo amayamba ulendo wovuta kwambiri pochita zinthu zolimbitsa thupi, pamene mavuto ndi kukonzekera akuyamba. Pano pali zolemba zambiri za Richard Gray, wodwala amene anachitidwa zolaula ku Rehabilitation Center ku Colorado. Pambuyo pa miyezi yambiri "kudziletsa," Richard adayang'ananso zojambula zingapo: "Mafilimu achitatu ndi achinayi ali ofanana ndi achiwiri: palibe aliyense mwa iwo omwe alibe chidwi ndi zomwe akuchita, aliyense ali ndi nkhope zovuta, zovuta. Chachinai, pamene zonse zimatengedwa mwatcheru, zingakhale zoopsa monga ine kale, koma tsopano zikukumbutsanso za zophikira, kumene wophika amadula nyama. Kugonana kunalibe kochepa ndizochita. Vuto lachisanu ndilo ndilo lokha limene ndinayang'ana kuyambira pachiyambi mpaka kumapeto: mnyamatayu anali kuwombera chibwenzi chake (ine sindikuyembekeza kuti sindidzakwatirana ndi mkazi wanga) panthawi yogonana. Anatsutsana ndi kufufuza mwatsatanetsatane, anapempha kuti asamuke kamera kumbali ndi kuti asayandikire kwambiri ndi ziwalo zake, koma anaumiriza. Kawirikawiri, izi ndi zachiwawa. Mfundo yakuti chirichonse chinachitidwa motsutsana ndi chifuniro cha mtsikanayo chinandichititsa mantha. Koma zowonjezereka - chifukwa chakuti ndinkakonda kuonera mafilimu nthawi zambiri ndikuzikonda! "Yuri Prokopenko amakhulupirira kuti anthu oonera zolaula amayesa maudindo omwe sali awo - ndipo lingaliro lachizoloŵezi limasintha. Ndipotu, zolaula siziwonetsedwa kawirikawiri, chifukwa chakuti kuyang'ana kugonana wamba pakati pa anthu awiri wamba ndi kosangalatsa. Choncho, nthawi zonse kusintha kwa chiwerengero ndi chiwerengero cha kugonana kwa anthu omwe ali nawo, pali chiwawa, maulendo amodzi ndi okonzeka komanso opanda chikhalidwe. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Norman Doyd akuti anthu ogula zolaula sangathe kusangalala popanda zithunzi zomwe zimawatsogolera. Sizodziwika kuti ma tsamba a zolaula ali odzaza ndi mapiritsi a Viagra, omwe poyamba ankafunira amuna a msinkhu. Masiku ano, anyamata achichepere omwe amadzikonda kwambiri ndi zolaula amakhala ndi vuto lopweteka la erectile. Komabe, vuto silili mu mbolo, koma pamutu, "anatero Doyge. Mwamwayi, iwo athetsedweratu miyezi ingapo pambuyo pa kutha kwa zolaula mwakhama komanso kukonzekera mosamala pamachitidwe a mkazi wokondeka ndi wachikondi. "
Muthandizi wa Nyumba
Inde, kuti athetse vutoli lokha, kutaya disks ndi kuchotsa ma kakompyuta kuchokera kumakompyuta kumalo owonetsa, munthu sangathe. Pamene akumvetsetsa kwambiri akukumana ndi mnzanu, mofulumira adzayamba kukondwera ndi kugonana kwachibadwa. Komabe, molingana ndi anthu ogonana, "khala pafupi ndi kuwona awiriwo," ngati magazini ambiri amalangiza, ndi bwino ngati msungwanayo akukhudzidwa ndi zomwe zikuchitika pawindo. Kupyolera mu mphamvu yakuchita izi sizothandiza. Ndipo chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukumbukira: mwachibadwa chirichonse chomwe chimapangitsa kuti zonse zikhale zosangalatsa. Kwa wina, kugonana kwa abambo ndikofunikira, kwa ena - osati. Komanso panthawi ya chiyambi, nthawi ya kugonana. Mwa njira, ngati muwonerera zolaula osati chifukwa cha malo, koma zosiyana ndi chidwi - izi ndizovuta kwambiri kuti zisakhale zachizolowezi.