Mukuyamba kukonda anyamata - osati anyamata a gulu lofanana, koma ophunzira okalamba, amuna enieni. Ndipo tsopano mukuwoneka wokongola, wanzeru, wokoma mtima, koma mulibenso chibwenzi. Ndipo atsikanawo, omwe amawoneka kuti sali abwino kuposa inu, amathawa madzulo kuti akakomane ndi anyamata awo, kukuponyani nokha ndi mafilimu omwe mumagwiritsa ntchito TV kapena nyimbo yochititsa chidwi yomwe imakhala pamutu. Mukuganiza kuti: "Ndili ndi zaka 18 ndipo ndinalibe mnyamata, ndingachite chiyani ndi izi?"
Choyamba, musadzipusitse nokha. Pa zaka 18, atsikana ambiri amasewera mahomoni, chifukwa chakuti mukuwanyengerera zonse. Kusokonezeka kulikonse kochepa kungawoneke ngati masoka aakulu, kuona kulikonse kwa mnyamata wabwino yemwe mungatenge pofuna kusonyeza chikondi chake chachinsinsi, ndi ndemanga yosafunika ya makolo kuti alowetse moyo wanu wodziimira nokha, ndipo mumayamba kuvutika maganizo: "Ndili ndi zaka 18 ndipo sindinakhale ndi chibwenzi ... mwinamwake chinachake chalakwika ndi ine . " Ndipo ngati mukukhala osasamala, zikuwonekera m'maso mwanu, momwe mumalankhulira, zochita zanu. Anyamata ngati asungwana osavuta, omwe mungathe kukambirana nawo mosangalala, ndipo ndani mwa iwo sangatenge mavuto awo. Kwa atsikana okondwa otero, anyamata amadzikoka okha.
Chachiwiri, musayang'ane ndi kupeza munthu. Mawu akuti "Yemwe akufunafuna - omwe angapeze" ndi oyenerera pamene mukuyang'ana kachiwiri, mwachitsanzo, wachiwiri, koma osati pokhudzana ndi chifundo chenicheni (chikondi?) Pamene muyamba kutenthedwa ndi moto woyipa pamaso pa kampaniyo anyamata okongola, ndipo munabereka aliyense kuti awone ngati ali woyenera inu, anyamata akuwopa ndi kuthawa ngati akalulu ochokera kwa mkango. Khalani bwino kuti mukhale ndi dziko lanu lamkati, werengani mabuku, muzichita yoga, muzichita nawo masewero a masewera, mukulankhula nokha, ndipo mutha kulandira, kuphatikiza pa zokondweretsa zanu, momwe mtsikana wanu wokondedwa alili, osati mwana wovuta, pali munthu wokondweretsa kwa inu, ndipo ngakhale ndi zosangalatsa zofanana.
Musakhale nkhanza. Zedi, muli ndi thumba lonse la makhalidwe abwino omwe mudali nawo, komanso makolo anu ndi aphunzitsi anu. Koma asiyeni mnyamatayo kuti adziwe makhalidwe anuwa, ndipo musadzitamande pa msonkhano woyamba. Mnyamata angangoganiza kuti mwina sali woyenera mkazi wanzeru ngati inu, kapena adzasankha kuti simunzeru konse, kotero, wamba wamba, ndipo mwinamwake sudzawonekeranso pang'onopang'ono.
Ng'ombe zachilengedwe. "Aliyense ali nazo, koma sindikutero." Pa zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri, ndizolembera bwino pensulo ya sukulu, pa 10 - chidole chenicheni cha Barbie, pa 14 - makompyuta, ndipo patapita kanthawi: "Ndili ndi zaka 18 ndipo sindinakhale naye pachibwenzi - ndi tsoka ..." Inu mumamvetsa zomwe ndikutanthauza.
Musathamangitse zinthu. Lankhulani za diresi yoyera ndi galasi yokongoletsedwa ndi maluwa, ambiri omwe mumakonda, koma ndi abwenzi, osati ndi chibwenzi. Pa gawo loyambirira la chiyanjano, mawu omwewo angamuwopsyeze munthuyo (inde, ndiye kuti theka lathu lamphamvu laumunthu ndi amantha chabe), angoganiza kuti akufuna kumuzunza, kumukakamiza kuti akwatirane, ndiye kuti asudzulane, ndipo kwa zaka zambiri amuchotse kunja, wosauka , alimony. Ndi momwe mungakhalire osakhulupirika m'maso mwake, ndikungoyang'ana mokweza.
Ngati muli ndi mwayi wokhala ndi udindo wapamwamba wa mnyamata wanu, muyenera kudziwa za iye momwe mungathere. Mwamwayi, tsopano pali malo ambiri ochezera a pa Intaneti, malinga ndi kuchuluka kwa chidziwitso chokhudza munthu wina wofanana ndi database ya CIA. Mutha kuona zofuna zake, zokondweretsa, chirichonse! Ndipo pa nthawi yoyamba, mwadzidzidzi mumakhala kuti mumagwirizana kwambiri!
Zosangalatsa. Kugonana. Nthawi zonse ndi pansi pake palibe kuyesera kupeza mnyamata mwa kugona naye! Mudzapeza nokha mbiri ya mtsikana wonyengerera, kuziyika mofatsa, ndikunyalanyaza kunyada kwanu. Ndipo ngakhale, ngati Mulungu sakuletsa, inu mukuchitabe izi, ndipo ngakhale "kuthandizana" koteroko kumachitika kangapo, musaiwale kuti simuli mtsikana kwa iye, popeza sakukulemekezani, ndipo samusamala, komatu amakhutiritsa Zofuna zathupi. Komanso, mnzanuyo angangoyamba kukomana ndi msungwana wina, ndipo iwe udzakhala pamsana wosweka ndi mtima wosweka ndi chinachake chodetsedwa ndi mbiri.
Ndi bwino kukhala ndekha kuposa wina aliyense. Kapena ndi munthu yemwe simukumuona. Sabata, mwinamwake awiri a inu mungadziyerekezere kuti muli ndi chidwi ndi gulu la munthu uyu. Ndiyeno? Mwinamwake mwamuna ndi wabwino, koma palibe ziphuphu. Chimodzimodzinso, kupatukana posachedwa kapena mtsogolo, kokha nthawi ino simungapunthwitse munthu wabwino pa chirichonse. Ndipo tanena kale kuti ndinu wanzeru, ndipo ngakhale simudzakhumudwitsa ntchentche, osati za munthu wotsutsa.
Chikondi chimangofulumira pamene simukuyembekezera. Ndipo zimachitika. Ngakhale ndi ine zinachitika. Zikuwoneka kuti mwagwirizanitsa kale, kuti mulipo imodzi, ndipo palibe nthawi ya chikondi, ndi chirichonse mu bizinesi, kenaka, ndipo mumakumana nawo kwinakampani, mu dipatimenti ya opangira mano ndi maburashi, chikondi chanu cha moyo. Ndipo kwa miyezi itatu mumakwatirana.
Mukudziwa, ali ndi zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu, simukuyenera kumva maonekedwe a moyo kamodzi kokha, komanso kudziwotcha nokha. Mulimonsemo, ino ndiyo nthawi yomwe mumapeza zochitika za moyo, kuphunzira kuchokera ku zolakwitsa, zomwe mumakumana nazo komanso zovuta, chikondi, chisoni, kuseka, kudziyang'ana nokha. Izi ndi zaka zowoneka bwino kwambiri m'moyo wanu wonse, pamene, mobwerezabwereza, simukukakamizidwa kwa wina aliyense, kupatula makolo, pamene mumakhala nokha, pamene mungathe kuchita zozizwitsa, ndikuzikonza pamapepala. Khala nthawi ino mosavuta komanso mopepuka, osadandaula za zinthu zazing'ono, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, samalirani kuti pali chinachake choyenera kukumbukira.