Momwe mungabwezere munthu yemwe adakugwiritsani ntchito

Pamene ubale wathu watsopano umangokhala womangidwa bwino, sitidziwa kuti ungathe kufota msanga bwanji. Zikuwoneka kuti rozariyi ikukula m'mitima yanu, idzaphuka kwamuyaya, palibe chomwe chingasokoneze kukongola, mgwirizano ndi bata. Komabe, moyo ndi chinthu chovuta komanso chophweka, ndipo ndani akudziwa zodabwitsa zomwe zidakonzedweratu posachedwapa? Ndipo tsopano tikufika pa mphindi yosangalatsa - wokondedwa wanu theka akuti kuphuka kwa rozari kukuchoka. Ndipo samayesa kufotokoza chifukwa chake, sakufuna kumvetsera zokhuza zanu. Ndiyeno, pamene chikondi chaphuka dzulo, kukwiya kopanda mphamvu ndi kukhwima kumabadwa, ine ndikufuna kubwezera pa mnyamata yemwe anakuponya iwe, yemwe sanayamikire malingaliro ako.

Chifukwa pa zochitika zoterezo sichitha kutenga nawo mbali pokonza ndondomeko yobwezera - apa mpira umangowonongeka ndi mkwiyo ndi kupweteka, zomwe, monga mukudziwa, ndi alangizi oipa. Choncho, poyamba pomwe, yesetsani kuyembekezera nthawi, pomwe zilakolako zomwe zikugwedezeka mkati mwanu sizidzatha ndipo sizidzakupatsani ufulu ku malingaliro ndi nzeru. Ndipo ngakhale simunayambe kuganiza kubwezera, ndiye kuti ndi nthawi yeniyeni yodziwira momwe mungabwezera munthu amene adakugwetsani.

Kubwezera munthu amene anakusiya?

Kotero, choyamba ganizirani chifukwa chake anakusiyani? Ndani ali ndi mlandu pa izi? Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zambiri za izi. Ndipo ena mwa iwo eni akukakamiza dongosolo la momwe angadandaulire kwambiri, kubwezera munthuyo chifukwa chovulazidwa.

Tiye tinene kuti mwathyola chifukwa simukumukonda. Chabwino, ndondomeko ya momwe mfumukazi imatembenukira ku Cinderella pambuyo pa pakati pa usiku imadziwika kwa aliyense.

Kumayambiriro kwa chiyanjano, timakhala nthawi yambiri kusanachitike tsikulo pagalasi kusiyana ndi tsiku lomwelo. Timasankha zoyenera kwambiri kukonzekera, tiyang'ane mosamala pa cilium iliyonse, ndi chisangalalo timagwiritsa ntchito pensulo ya milomo. Ndife osayenerera, zovala zathu zimaganiziridwa molondola. Msuti waifupi wovumbulutsa chithunzithunzi cha miyendo yaitali, chovala chokongoletsera chapamwamba pachifuwa chomwe sichimakondweretsa mnzako wokha, koma amuna onse omwe akudutsa. Timawuluka pa tizilombo tating'onoting'onoting'ono ngati kuti ndizowonjezera mapazi athu. Ife ... mwachidziwikire, ndife abwino, ndife auzimu, tsitsi laikidwa ndi tsitsi kumutu, ndipo mawonekedwewa amapangidwa ndi fungo labwino kwambiri la mizimu.

Nchiyani chikuchitika ndiye? Bastille, yomwe inali mtima wake, adatengedwa, zida zankhondo zinali zobisika, mtenderewo unkalamulira pa doko. Choyamba, sitimapaka pang'onopang'ono tisanapite kunja - bwanji? Iye, kwenikweni, ankakuveketsani inu m'mawa, ogona ndi osapangidwira. Ndipo iye sanawope konse kuwoneka koopsa uku. Ndiye bwanji mumathera maola ambiri mukugwiritsa ntchito maonekedwe ngati akuyamikira kukongola kwanu?

Pambuyo pake, timapepuka pang'onopang'ono ku nsapato zapamwamba ndi nsapato zoyenda bwino, m'malo mwa msuti wofiira amabwera pamatumba - bwino, ndi chiyani? Chinthu chachikulu chimene chikukugwirirani, ndipo sakuwoneka ngati akuganiza. Simukugulanso zovala zamkati m'masitolo - pambuyo pake, adziwona kale zida zanu zonse mu chipolopolo cha chic, ndipo zithumwa zimamukonda kwambiri kuposa zomwe akuvala.

Ndipo ngati kale, ola lisanafike, mudakonza dongosolo mu nyumbayi ndikudziika nokha, tsopano mukhoza kukhala waulesi ndikukumana naye atavala tsitsi, ndikupita ku chipinda chomwe chisokonezeko, chifukwa mulibe nthawi ndi chirichonse kuti mupirire nazo.

Uwu ndiye unyolo umene unachititsa kuti musiye? Kenaka mubwezerereni chibwenzi choyamba chifukwa chakuti anasiya inu mosadziletsa, n'zosavuta! Tiyenera kubwereranso: pitani ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, yambani kudya bwino, yongolani tsitsi labwino, bwererani kumapiri ndi masiketi ndi kuyamba kuyendetsa anyamata pafupi! Koposa zonse - pamaso pa yemwe yemwe adakuponya. Ichi chidzakhala chilango chake chabwino.

Kodi mungabwezere bwanji chibwenzi?

Pezani nokha wolemekezeka yemwe angakupatseni mulu wa maluwa ndikuyendetsa galimoto yachilendo yachilendo - ndipo munthu amene akuponya adzangothamanga ndi mpeni wanjala, ndikuyang'ana wina akutenga.

Ngati mukufuna, mukhoza kuchepetsa ulamuliro wa bwenzi lanu lakale pamaso pa abwenzi ake-amakhulupirira ine, amayamikira izi. Mmodzi mwa mphekesera mwachinsinsi wokhudzana ndi yemwe wakuferedwa kwenikweni ndiye amene wakuponyera iwe, adzawononga mwamsanga mbiri yake, mwinamwake ngakhale adzayenera kupirira mkwiyo womwewo monga iwe chifukwa cha kuchoka kwake, pamene theka la anzake akuchoka kwa iye.

Koma ichi, kuvomereza, si njira yowona mtima komanso yokondweretsa. Zidzakhala zofanana ndi atsikana okha omwe akufuna kupondereza matope a munthu wakale. Ngakhale kuti, chifukwa chake chokhumba chotero sichiri chowonekera bwino. Mulimonsemo, sanakunamizeni ndipo sadasinthe, koma adachoka moona mtima, pozindikira kuti simunali pabanja.

Mukhoza kubwezera kwa mnyamata ndi njira ina yotsutsana: mwachitsanzo, kuti asokoneze katundu wake. Komabe, ngati mutagwidwa - zidzakulangidwa. Koma atsikana ambiri samaima pa chilango cha chilango - mkwiyo wosasunthika umatseketsa maso awo, ndipo atakwiya akhoza ngakhale kumenya matayala a galimoto wakale, kapena kukweza msomali pamsewu wamtambo ndi mawu osasangalatsa.

Izi zimachitika kuti mnyamatayo anakuponyera iwe, kenako anabwera kudzalapa ndikuyankhula za momwe angakhalire popanda iwe. Ngati mutasankha kuti simudzabwezera chilichonse - ndiye mutha kusewera pa izo, ndipo mutembenuza chirichonse kukhala chingwe chobwezera. Dziyerekezere kuti mum'khululukire ndikumubwezera, ndikuponyera mwamphamvu kwambiri kuposa iyeyo. Koma njira iyi si yoyenera kwa atsikana omwe angakonde kubwezeretsa mgwirizano wapitawo. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuyenera kukhala tcheru komanso kuti musakhalenso wotayika komanso wokhumudwitsidwa.

Imodzi mwa njira zopweteka komanso zopweteka kwambiri kubwezera chibwenzi choyambirira ndizolepheretsa kukula kwa ubale wake watsopano. Zoona, njirayi imakulepheretsani inu moyo waumwini, popeza zidzatenga nthawi yaitali kuti muone zomwe gulu lakale lidachita. Cholinga chanu ndi kungovulaza atsikana ena. Momwe mungachitire - mumasankha zochitika. Chinthu chachikulu - malingaliro olemera.

Mukhoza kudziyesa kuti ndinu mkazi wake, ndikumuponyera pakati pa cafe, ndikumuyitana mnzanu watsopano "mbuye"! Iye sangalekerere chonyoza chotero ndipo amusiya, akuzisiya nokha kuti mutha kuthetsa "mavuto ake a m'banja." Zoona, muyenera kukhala wokonzeka kuti mnyamatayo akwiya kwambiri. Pano muyenera kusonkhanitsa chifuniro chonse ndikukwera bwino, ndikumwetulira pamaso panu, ndikudziwitsa ena kuti simunamvere mkazi amene akuyenera kumumvera chisoni, koma wopambana weniweni!

Koma ndikufunabe kuti ndisasewere masewera awa. Popeza palibe tanthauzo mwa iwo. Simungabweretse munthu uyu, simudzamumenya kwambiri, ndipo posachedwa mudzatopa ndi kumenyana - ndipo mudzakhalabe kumbali yotsalira. Kotero kodi si bwino kusiya zinthu zakale, kuzichotseratu ndikukonzekera moyo watsopano wodala, umene mulibe malo ochitira chinyengo ndi mabodza?