Akazi ena safuna kubereka ku Russia. Zonsezi zikuchitika chifukwa chakuti ku Russia chithandizo chamankhwala chikuipiraipira kuposa kunja. Pa mutu uwu pali maganizo osiyana, mulimonsemo, mkazi ali ndi ufulu wosankha komwe angabereke.
Mimba ndi kubala kunja
Kubereka kumayiko kudzagula zambiri, ndipo mtengo wamtengo wapatali kuyambira 10,000 mpaka 30,000 madola. Mayi wamtsogolo akuyenera kulemba mgwirizano ndi kliniki yachilendo. Pamapeto pa mgwirizano muyenera kuonetsetsa katemera wa mwana wakhanda, kuthekera kwa opaleshoni, kubadwa, kulandira chithandizo ndi zamankhwala, zoyesayesa zomwe zimayenera kuchitidwa kwa amayi oyembekezera. Kusiyanitsa kukhalapo kwa mayi kuchipatala.
Kuphatikiza pa ndalama za kubadwa, muyenera kulingalira mtengo wa kuyenda kwa ndege, mtengo wa galimoto, yomwe imapereka amayi oyembekezera kupita ku malo okhala, kubereka, ndalama zosinthira, mankhwala ogulitsira ku hoteloyo asanafike ndi pambuyo pobereka. Mabomba ambiri amatha kutenga amayi apakati kwa milungu yoposa 36 ya mimba. Akufunikiranso kupeza visa. Ngati pali chilakolako, mukhoza kupita kuchipatala chosankhidwa ndi inu pasadakhale, chifukwa ndi bwino kukhala ndi visa yambiri. Makanki ambiri amalimbikitsa kuti abwere kuchipatala osachepera masiku 21 asanakhazikitsidwe tsiku lomaliza.
Mukhoza, mothandizidwa ndi bungwe loyendayenda, kupanga mgwirizano wa kubereka kwadzidzidzi, akudzipereka pazinthu zoterezi. Ndiye kuyesetsa konse kukonzekera, mapepala oyenerera adzatengedwa ndi oimira a bungwe loyendayenda. Mwana wobadwa amafunika kulembedwa ku boma la Russia, popanda zomwe sizidzatheka kubwerera ku Russia ndi mwanayo.
Mu kliniki iliyonse pali chiwembu, kwinakwake amapanga anesthesia, kwinakwake ku chipatala amapanga kubadwa kwachibadwidwe pambuyo pagawidwe ka khungu, kwinakwake iwo akufuna kuti azibereka moyenera. Utumiki womwewo ukhoza kupezeka kuzipatala za ku Russia. Musanasankhe kachipatala iliyonse, muyenera kufunsa za msinkhu wa chithandizo chamankhwala, khalani ndi chidwi pa ndemanga za izo, phunzirani za msinkhu wa chitonthozo.
Chofunika kwambiri, kuti amayi athu amasankha kubereka kwina kulikonse, ndi thandizo lovomerezeka lovomerezeka, ma ward abwino, odziwa zachipatala, zipangizo zamakono, zamakono. Ngati mkazi akuganiza kuti adzabadwira kunja, m'pofunika kukhazikitsa mgwirizano wa mautumiki, mitundu yonse ya zibwenzi ziyenera kulamulidwa mmenemo.
Nthaŵi zambiri anthu athu akufuna ku France, Switzerland, Germany ndi Austria. Malinga ndi mitengo, dziko la Switzerland limaonedwa kuti ndilo mtengo wake kwambiri, lotsatiridwa ndi France ndi Germany, pambuyo pake ndi Austria.
Pa mwezi wachisanu ndi umodzi wa mimba, muyenera kuyang'anira, mukhoza kuchita kunyumba, koma ngati pali vuto pa nthawi yobereka, ndibwino kuti mupeze kafukufuku mu chipatala chosankhidwa. Pokonzekera kubala, muyenera kufika pafupi masiku 21 musanafike kukonzekera, mutenganso kafukufuku omwe akuphatikizapo ultrasound, laboratory, maphunziro a zachipatala. Pa pempho lanu mungathe kuikidwa m'chipinda chapadera, ku hotelo kapena kuika kuchipatala. Mlungu uliwonse mzamba adzabwera kudzawona ntchito zofunikira za chiberekero ndi fetus.
Malingana ndi mtengo, chipinda chimodzi kapena ziwiri zidzaperekedwa ndi zothandiza. Mwana akhoza kukhala ndi mwamuna kapena wachibale wina. Mukhoza kubala monga momwe mumakonda, zonsezi zikutchulidwa. Mwanayo amamatira ku chifuwa, kuyeza kulemera kwake, kutalika kwake. Mu chipinda chobwerako mumatha maola 4 muli ndi mwana, mudzayang'anitsidwa ndi madokotala.
Atabereka, mkazi amasungidwa kwa masiku asanu ndi limodzi. Mwanayo adzakhala ndi inu mu ward. Ngati zonse ziri bwino, mutasamukira ku nyumba kapena hotelo, komwe mungakhalepo kwa masabata ena atatu. Nthawi yonseyi namwino adzabwera kwa inu, ndipo neonatologist adzabwera kwa mwanayo.
Ndikofunika kudziwa kuti kubereka kwina sikupereka ubwino kwa mwana wanu, kukumbukira kokha ndiko kuti iye anabadwira ku mzinda wakunja kudzalembedwa pa kalata yobadwa.