Ntchito yodzipangira payekha, kugwirizana kwa mkati, kuyesetsa kukhala wangwiro ayenera kukhala mfundo ya moyo kwa munthu aliyense. Amuna omwe amamvetsetsa ukwati monga gulu la kulenga ndikugwirira ntchito limodzi m'njira yoyenera adzapambana kusiyana ndi awo omwe, chifukwa cha kusungulumwa, adziphatikizira zomwe akufuna.
Ambiri timadziwa kuti okondedwa amasintha biochemistry ya thupi lawo. Chikondi chimadzaza moyo ndipo chimasintha umunthu wa munthu, chimadzaza ndi gay, ndipo munthu wachikondi amayamba kuona dziko lapansi mu magalasi pinki. Chikondi chimabweretsa anthu ambiri, maanja amaganiza kuti adzakhala pamodzi. Koma gasi yodzala ndichisangalalo ikuphulika ndipo potsirizira pake imadutsa mu kuzindikira, ndipo matsenga akumverera akungowonongeka. Peyala imodzi pa milioni ikhoza kukhala ndi chiyanjano ndi chikondi.
Momwe mungayambire kukhala pamodzi
Izi zimachitika kuti maanja omwe amakhudzidwa ndi malingalirowa anayamba kukhala pamodzi, koma posachedwa amadzuka ndipo sangathe kudziwana. Othandizana nawo adapeza kuti adalodzedwa, adamwetsedwa ndi kunyengedwa, kotero iwo sanazindikire nkhope yeniyeni pamene adapeza choonadi. Ndipo maubwenzi amtunduwu m'mabwenzi amenewa, monga lamulo, sangathe kuwonekera. Pali zokhumudwitsa, zosakhutira, ndipo izi zimaipitsa mkhalidwewo. Amzake amawona kusintha kwa magawo awo, ndipo samamva kanthu mkati mwawo okha. Kuti mukhale ndi ubale muyenera kulemekeza malingaliro a mnzako.
Pali zinsinsi za momwe mungasunge mabwenzi abwino muwiri. Musamane mnzanuyo komanso ufulu wanu kuti muwone. Koma izi sizikusowa kutenga nawo mbali, chifukwa malingaliro anu okhudza mnzanuyo ayenera kukhala okhudzana ndi zenizeni. Tangoganizani za tsogolo lanu ndi mnzanu, momwe mungakhalire pamodzi, pamodzi kuthetsa mavuto a m'banja, momwe mungakhalire ana. Ndi bwino kuvomereza pa chirichonse pasadakhale, muyenera kuphunzira bwino theka lanu, maganizo ake pa dziko lapansi. Mvetserani maganizo a achibale ake ndi abwenzi ake.
Ngati pali mkangano ndi mikangano, yesetsani kubwereza zomwe interlocutor wanu adanena za inu, musanayambe izi mutchule mawu akuti "ngati ndamvetsa bwino". Mwinamwake inu simunamvetsetse bwino kapena, chinachake simunachimvepo. Ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu pamene, pa mkangano, abwenzi, osamvetsera mapeto, ayambe kuponyana wina ndi mzake ndikuyamba kutemberera. Musathamangire kuyankha zabodza ndi kutsutsa, muyenera kukhala mkazi wanzeru ndi wanzeru. Musakhale wokhumudwa ngati pali vuto mu ubale wanu, chifukwa zonsezi ndizokhalitsa. Ndiyeno mu ubale wanu ndi wokondedwa, chikondi ndi kumvetsetsa kumabwerera.
Malangizo:
Dziko lathu ndi sukulu, choncho nkofunikira kuyesetsa, kuti tisayime pa zotsatira zomwe tapeza komanso nthawi zonse kuti tizisintha. Ngati mudzakhala, muphunzire nthawi zonse, ndipo muzichita izi m'moyo wanu wonse, ndiye kuti mudzaphunzira chinachake chatsopano, ndipo izi zidzakuthandizani kuthetsa mavuto ambiri. Munthu si wangwiro, koma nthawi zonse, amayesetsa, kutero
Tikudziwa momwe mungayambire kukhala ndi wokondedwa wanu. Simukusowa kufunafuna ungwiro kuchokera kwa mnzanu, chifukwa ndi munthu ngati inu, ndipo ali ndi ufulu wochita zolakwitsa. Mutha kungoyambira theka lanu kupita ku ungwiro.