Choyamba. "Ngongole yokwatirana." Anthu ochepa amaganiza za mawuwa, omwe anthu amayembekezera kugonana. Koma kodi angatchedwe kuti ndi udindo? Kugonana kwa banja kumalimbitsa mgwirizano pakati pa okwatirana, ndipo osati kuwalimbikitsa. Kukhala nthawi yochuluka ndi kugonana. Yatsani kandulo makandulo onunkhira, kugula mkaka wam'mimba, sungani ma strawberries mu kirimu woukwapulidwa kapena chokoleti chosungunuka ndi kubweretsa kwa wokondedwayo pamsana. Kawirikawiri zinthu zoterezi zimathandiza kuti akhalebe pachibwenzi. Yesetsani kutembenuka usiku uliwonse mutagona pabedi limodzi ndi munthu wokondedwa, osati kumangoyendayenda tsiku ndi tsiku, koma paholide ina ndi chibwenzi. Yesetsani kuyesera, ndi kuvomereza kwa onse awiri, mwinamwake imatchedwa kugwiriridwa. Sungani moyo wa kugonana. Nthawi zambiri zinthu zoterezi zimathandiza kuti akhalebe pachibwenzi.
Yachiwiri. Mulimonsemo simukuyerekezera moyo wanu ndi moyo wa ena. Mukayamba kufanizitsa banja lanu ndi mabanja ena, mumangoganizira ubwino womwe mumapereka, kumbukirani kuti m'banja lililonse mulibe kuphatikizapo, komanso kuipa, chifukwa pali mavuto omwewo, ndi zina zambiri. Sikuti onse okwatirana amayamba kumvetsetsa kupezeka kwa alendo kapena kunja, amamwetulira mwachidwi, ngati wina wachita kapena wopusa, ndipo pakubwera kunyumba chinyengo chimayamba. Ndipo ena ochokera khungu akukwera kuti awonetse dziko lonse kuti ali ndi banja labwino bwanji. Kumbukirani, banja lirilonse, ndi munthu wotani ndipo sayenera kukhala wolingana ndi wina aliyense.
Chachitatu. Mbali yamalonda ya ukwati. Ngati munthu adzalandira pang'ono - izi sizikondweretsa wina aliyense, koma ngati sakuyesa kupeza ndalama, ndizovuta kwambiri. Mwamuna yemwe amayesera kuchita chinachake, kukwaniritsa, kugonjetsa, nthawizonse amakwaniritsa zomwe akufuna, ndipo mkazi amadziwa bwino kuti nthawi zonse zinthu sizikuyenda bwino, akhoza kuthyola zofooka za wokondedwa. Koma ngati izi zimachitika chaka ndi chaka, munthu amasankha ku zolephereka, zolephera, ndiye izi zimakhala vuto lomwe limayika ubale wovuta kwambiri. Udindo wa amayi pa nkhaniyi ndiwulimbikitse munthu amene ali m'chikondi, kuti adziwe zomwe ayenera kuchita, ndi chifukwa chake ayenera kupeza zambiri. Ndi zophweka kwambiri kuchita izi. Zokwanira kusonyeza kulemekeza ndi kuleza mtima pa mbali yanu, chitani bwino wokondedwa wanu, powona izi, adzayesetsa kuti apindule kwambiri.
Chachinayi. Egoism yasokoneza maukwati osachepera zana, ndipo onse ndi okondana komanso achikondi. Munthu akadziyika yekha pakati pa moyo wake, amachititsa manyazi anthu onse omwe amamuzungulira. Vuto lalikulu lazaka za m'ma 2000 ndi kudzikonda. Anthu saganizira kwambiri za ena ndipo amapita pamitu yawo kuti apeze zomwe akufuna. Koma mu moyo wa banja izo sizigwira ntchito. Banja liyenera kukhala banja ndipo ngati mwalowa m'banja, musiye kudzikonda, yesetsani kukhala ndi moyo kwa ena, koma musadziteteze nokha, zonse zili bwino.
Chachisanu . Zinsinsi. Atangokwera zizindikiro za kusakhulupirika ndipo banjalo limasiya kudalira bwenzi, izi zimakhala vuto lomwe liyenera kuchitidwa mwamsanga. Mabodza sanayambe atumikirapo kuti apindule ndi munthu, kawirikawiri bodza limangowononga chirichonse chozungulira. Ngati mukubisa chinachake kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wanu, posachedwa adzapeza izi mofanana ndi izi ndi chiyanjano chanu chikhoza kukhala choipitsitsa. Ziribe kanthu zomwe iwe wachita, uyenera kumuuza wokondedwa wako ndipo ngati iye amakukonda kwenikweni, ndiye chirichonse chidzakhululukira ndi kumvetsa.