Kodi mungasankhe bwanji mphatso kwa okondedwa anu? Ndilo funso lomwe limazunza akazi padziko lonse lapansi. Inde, wina akhoza kupereka mphatso ya banal - mafuta onunkhira, koma sizingatheke kuti izi zidzasonyeza malingaliro anu ndi malingaliro onse omwe anawonetsa theka lachiwiri. Ngakhale, kukoma ndi mtundu wa anzanu sizomwe, ndipo mwinamwake wokondedwa wanu amafunikira khungu lamaphunziro.
Ndipo ngati mwawapatsa kale kansalu kangapo? Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani? Kodi mungasankhe bwanji mphatso yabwino kwa okondedwa anu? Tiyeni tiyese kupanga dongosolo laling'ono, chojambula, chomwe tikuyembekeza, chingathandize kuthetsa vuto la kusankha mphatso.
1. Lyubit - sakonda. Muyenera kudziwa mosapita m'mbali kuti gawo lanu lachiwiri limakondwera ndi chiyani, ndipo chimamuchotsa bwanji. Tiyerekeze kuti sangathe kuimirira buluu kapena phokoso, amakonda jazz, ndipo sangathe kuimirira. Zonsezi m'tsogolomu zidzakuthandizani kusankha mphatso yabwino. Kotero kunena, kuti chirichonse chinali chowoneka pang'ono, ndipo panalibe pomarochki. Ngakhale mphatsoyo ili yabwino, simukuyenera kuisunga mu bokosi lofiirira.
2. Wachikondi. Ngati mnyamata wanu ndi mtundu wa musi-pusi, amamukonda mukamamutcha kuti mphaka ndikumupatsa mayina apamwamba kwambiri tsiku ndi tsiku, mwa mawu, ngati ali wachikondi, ndiye kuti mumudabwa ndi zokongola, zachikondi mphatso.
Titha kupereka chitsanzo. Tengani botolo la pulasitiki, liti 1.5 malita, osati kuchokera kwa mowa (mukufunikira zonse kuti mupange mpweya wapadera). Lolani ilo likhale loyera ndipo liri ndi dongosolo lokongola pa ilo.
Mosamala mosadula gawo lakumtunda. Mkati mwa botolo, ikani duwa, tsanulirani ndi madzi. Tsopano ikani botolo la madzi ndi duwa mofatsa mufiriji. Inde, inde, inali mufiriji! Nawa mphatso ndi okonzeka. Ndi nthawi yopereka kwa okondedwa ake, nenani, ndi mawu akuti: "Ndine wokongola ngati izi zanyamuka, ndisanakumane nanu sindingathe kusungunula chisanu ichi. Inu munasweka mu moyo wanga, ndipo zonse zinasintha. Tsopano madzi oyandikana ndi duwa akusungunuka - kotero ndimasungunuka ndi kulira kwachisomo kuchokera pa chikondi chachikulu kwa inu. Kitty, ndimakukondani. "
Amene sakonda nsomba zonsezi, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito njira yachiwiri - kuti mubwere ndi mphatso yochita. Tiyerekeze kuti akusowa bokosi, chikwama, thumba latsopano, jekeseni, magolovesi, zotsitsimutsa galimoto! Sankhani zambiri, chinthu chachikulu choti mupeze. Ndipotu, chikondichi chimasungunuka panopa, syusyu-musu, ndipo dokotala akuganiza pazochitika zonse ndi ubongo wake! Choncho musaphonye, ndi bwino kukonzekera mphatso zingapo!
3. Mthunzi wa mphatso mu mawu enieni ndi ophiphiritsa a mawu. M'lingaliro lenileni - ndilo lowala, lokondwa, lofuula kapena losavuta, bokosi loperekedwa mu beige.
Mthunzi mwachifanizo ndi iwe. Mukamangokhalira kukonda mwamuna wanu, mphatso yake imamuwoneka bwino. Sankhani chovala chodabwitsa kwambiri, kuvala chovala cha kalulu - ndi mchira ndi makutu ozizira. Kusokonezeka pazovala zopanda pake - mutonthoze nokha kuti mwagwiritsira ntchito bajeti ya banja sizowopsa, chifukwa chotsuka zovala ndi gawo la kukonzekera mphatso kwa wokondedwa. Ngati mumakonda masewera ochita masewero, mutha kusintha ndikuvala zovala za Little Red Riding Hood kapena namwino. Icho ndi banal, koma chimagwira ntchito!
Monga mukuonera, tikufunikira kungoganiza chabe. Nthawi zina, mukhoza kupulumutsa zambiri pa mphatso kwa wokondedwa wanu pakuphika nokha. Ichi ndi chigawo chochepa chabe cha chisokonezo, musaganize molakwika! Koma zowona kuti mutha kugula mphatso nokha!
4. Timapereka mphatso. Pali njira zambiri, komanso. Mungathe kuchita izi pamodzi ndi achibale anu ndi abwenzi kapena nokha. Pano tikhoza kupereka uphungu umodzi wokha: Njira yoperekera mphatso imadalira nthawi zambiri pazochitikazo, ndipo, ndithudi, pamalingaliro.
Mphatso kwa munthu wokondedwa ndi sitepe yofunikira yomwe imayenera kutengedwa nthawi ndi nthawi, koma zomwe timayiwala kawirikawiri amai. Tiyeni tadabwe theka lachiwiri nthawi zambiri!