Momwe mungayambire moyo watsopano mutatha kugawana ndi mnyamata

Atsikana - kupanga zofooka ndi zoopsya, mosasamala kanthu za momwe amalankhulira za mphamvu zawo ndi chitsulo chawo, kukana zoopsya ndi mavuto. Koma ngakhale maloto okhudzidwa kwambiri achikazi a kupeza malo okhala mu moyo wake kumbuyo kwa mapewa amphamvu. Ambiri "mapewa" oterewa amapezeka pa njira yathu ya moyo. Ena a iwo ali othandiza komanso okonzeka kutiteteza ndi kutitchinjiriza ku mavuto. Koma sikuti nthawi zonse timathera nthawi ndikumvetsetsa kuti ndi munthu amene timamufuna. Ena sali okonzekera kubwezera mapewa awo chifukwa cha zowawa za chiwonongeko chanu, chifukwa iwo eni okha saganizira kupuma pa mapewa a makolo awo. Ndipo zimakhala bwino kuti mutha kukondwera ndi kukhutira mokwanira mutchepetse mutu wanu wolemala ndi wolimba mwamuna wamphongo, koma mmalo mwakumverera kuthandizidwa, muzimva momwe chitetezo chanu chimakulepheretserani, kunena chinachake chomwe muli - "Osati peyala." Kusiyanitsa nthawi zonse kuli kovuta. Nkhani yakuti "Mmene mungayambitsire kukhalanso watsopano mutatha kugawanikana ndi mnyamata" idzakuthandizani kuti mupirire nokha ndi mkwiyo wanu wokwiya.

Mwawerenga buku la Chikondi kwa nthawi yayitali pamaso pa wina ndi mzake, mukukondwera nthawi iliyonse yomwe mumakhala pamodzi. Inu munasonkhanitsa zochitika zanu zonse mwazing'ono, mukuwopa kuti mukusowa chinachake, kutaya, mukuiwala. Kotero zithunzi zokongoletsedwa mosamala ndi zithunzi, ndikulota kuti muwawonetsere ana awo momveka bwino komanso posachedwa. Inu munagwirana manja ndipo simunasowe mawu amodzi - kukoma mtima kwenikweni kunadutsa mu mitsempha yanu, kutulutsa ndi kutumiza kuchokera pamtima kupita ku wina. Zinkawoneka kuti dzikoli linapangidwira kwa inu nokha, palibe kanthu ndipo palibe amene adzaswa, sichidzathyola. Munali kuwala kwambiri ndi dzuŵa, ngakhale pamtambo wamtambo wambiri, pamene chilengedwe chinali kutsanulira mvula yake ikuwomba kunja kwawindo, ndipo mitengo inali kugwedeza masamba. Mudapeza chithumwa chapadera ngakhale mvula imvi: Pambuyo pake, adakupatsani inu chitonthozo ndi kutentha, pamene inu, mutakulungidwa mu bulangeti awiri, mukuyang'ana ngati chinyezi chimafika pa galasi zake zonyansa. Inu munatha kukhala nokha pakati pa gulu, osati kuti muwone anthu odutsa, osayang'ana magalimoto, koma kuti muzisangalala kuti muli ndi wina ndi mzake. Koma bingu linagunda. Chinachake chinalakwika - ndipo dziko linatembenuzidwa. Iye, okondedwa ndi wokondedwa kwambiri, akung'ung'uza chinachake mumakutu anu, amanong'oneza mofulumira ndi mofulumira, kuopa kutaya mawu onse ofunika. Ndipo iwe, wozoloŵera kuti wong'onong'onong'ono amakuuza nthawi zonse za chikondi, sungakhulupirire makutu ako ndipo uzindikira kuti dziko lako lakhala lakhumi chopanda kanthu. Ndipo pakhomo litamenyedwa kumbuyo kwake, mutsekeredwa pang'onopang'ono pansi pa khoma, mutuluke phukusi la ndudu, penyani dzanja logwedeza ndi kudzifunsa nokha: "Ndipo ndimatani? Momwe mungayambitsire moyo watsopano mutatha kugawanika ndi mnyamata yemwe ndimakonda kwambiri kuposa moyo? Kodi moyo wanga unali wotani? " Kugwetsa misonzi, iwe udzakhala nthawi yayitali kukhala chete, kumvetsera kwa mtima wako, zomwe zikhala zikugunda mosalekeza ndi pang'onopang'ono ...

Gwirizanani: zowawa bwino. Pangakhale zopanda pake, koma panali zina, zosafunika kwenikweni. Ndipo funso lokhalo limene limakhudza mitsempha: "Momwe mungayambitsire moyo watsopano? Ndipo kodi ndi bwino kukhala ndi moyo wochuluka? ". Koma tiyenera kukumbukira kuti mutatha kupatukana, ngakhale ndi munthu wokondedwa kwambiri moyo suli kutha, lolani inu tsopano ndi izo zikuwoneka mosiyana. Mukuyenera kudzikweza nokha, kupukuta misonzi ndi kuthamangira kunkhondo.

Ndiponsotu, kodi gehena sizitani, mwinamwake muli ndi mwayi wobwezera amene adachoka? Mwinamwake ubale wanu unasweka, osati chifukwa chikondi chinadutsa, osati chifukwa iye adapeza wina. Mwinamwake chifukwa chake chiri mu ubale wanu, mwinamwake ngakhale mwa inu nokha. Ngakhale chikondi champhamvu chimaperekedwa ku ziyeso, zomwe nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti zikhale ndi moyo. Tiyenera kukhala okonzekera izi. Ndipo mabanja ena sangathe kuchita izi - choncho, kupatula kupatukana, safika. Ndiye taganizirani: kodi zonse zinali zodekha ndi zofatsa mu ubale wanu? Kapena, mwinamwake mwakhala mukukangana ndi zopweteka zomwe zimawononga khungu losasuntha la chikondi chanu? Ndipo, ngati mutayesetsa kukonza chirichonse ndikupeza zotsutsana, mungathe kubwereranso ku imodzi imodzi?

Koma izi sizimachitika kawirikawiri - mwatsoka, nthawi zambiri, chikondi chimasiya iwe kwamuyaya, kutseka chitseko kumbuyo kwako. Ndiyeno zikuwonekera kwa inu kuti mawu anu onse ndi zochita zanu ziri zopanda phindu, ndipo moyo watha. Koma asonkhanitsidwe! Pamene mukupuma, mukhoza kukonza chinachake. Tonsefe ndife osula zida za tsogolo lathu ndipo chimwemwe chathu chiri m'manja mwathu. Mukungoyenera kukumbukira malingaliro okhumudwa ndikuchotsani kumalo osokonezeka.

Kukuthandizani mu izi mukhoza, mwachitsanzo, ntchito yomwe mumaikonda. Kodi muli ndi chizoloŵezi? Gwiritsani ntchito mosamala, pumulani, pitirizani, kondwerani zomwe mukuchita. Sinthani mtundu wa ntchito - kuti palibe chomwe chimakukumbutsani za moyo wakale. Tsanulirani moyo wanu ndi mitundu pa nsalu, kumeta ululu wanu ndi ulusi wachikuda, kusewera nkhani ya chikondi chanu pa chida chanu chimene mumawakonda - ndipo mtima udzasintha pang'onopang'ono ndipo udzasinthidwa.

Ngati chilichonse chikukukumbutsani, yesetsani kusintha mwachidule. Ngati muli ndi anzanu abwino mumzinda wina - zodabwitsa! Pezani ngati angakuthandizeni kwa mwezi ndi theka? Pakati pa anthu omwe muli nawo muli zophweka komanso zosangalatsa, mudzatulutsa maluwa ndi mitundu yonse ndikuyamba kukumbukira zomwe simunayambe kale. Inde, pobwerera kunyumba, zochitika ndi zolakalaka zidzatsitsimutsa pa inu, koma izi ndizosapeweka - zimayambitsa mtima wanu. Kungowonjezeratu, kusangalala ndi zabwino zonse zomwe zinali, komanso osakhumudwa ndi zoipa. Pang'onopang'ono, kukumbukira kumachoka panyumba panu - ndipo mutha kupuma mwaulere m'maboma anu.

Mukudziŵa mwambi uwu: "Mphindi amachotsedwa ndi mphete"? Mawu olondola kwambiri, makamaka mkhalidwe wathu. Yesetsani kugonana ndi mnyamata wokongola, pitani ku cafe ndi mnyamata, mumusiye pang'ono pruadarit kwa inu. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti iye sagonjetsa ntchito zake ndipo sichikuchititsani kufuna chilakolako chothawa kuchoka ku izi. Komabe, mndandanda wa khalidwe la chibwenzi chatsopano makamaka zimadalira khalidwe lanu komanso momwe mumamulolera. Musaganize kuti anthu onse ndi onyenga, mwinamwake pali munthu woyenera ndi wodalirika pamaso panu tsopano, tsono kumwetulira kwambiri ndikusangalala ndi zomwe mukuzifuna. Izi ndi zofunikanso kuti munthu adzilemekeze, zomwe zimakhala zochepa kwambiri pambuyo polekana kwambiri ndi mnyamata wokondedwa. Ndiponsotu, timayamba kuganiza: ndi chiyani chomwe chiri cholakwika ndi ife ndipo n'chifukwa chiyani anasiya? Ndipo timapeza zolakwitsa zambiri, timawapha ndi mutu wathu wowala ndipo timaganiza kuti ndi zinthu zotere tidzakhala osangalala m'moyo. Ndipo zopanda phindu - kukhazikitsa moyo wosapindulitsa waumoyo kudzasintha kukhala cholephera kwambiri.

Kuthetsa kupatukana ndi munthu amene timamupembedza komanso kukonda zambiri kuposa moyo wathu ndi kovuta kwambiri, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti moyo wanu pano ukuika mfundo yaikulu ya mafuta. Kumbukirani, ndizongowonjezera chiganizo chatsopano, tisiyeni izo zichitike - ndiyeno simudzawona zizindikiro zolembera moyo wanu wonse. Pambuyo pake, ndani amene amadziwa, mwadzidzidzi, mawa mudzakumana ndi chikondi chenicheni, chomwe chidzakubweretsani chimwemwe?