Ubale wodzala ndi chikondi, malingana ndi amuna amakono, samafunikira kwenikweni akazi amakono. Ndilemba zinthu zomwe amayi ambiri sakonda. Akazi okha ndi omwe amachititsa kuti amuna amakono aziona kuti kukondana ndi kosafunikira, kotopetsa komanso kotsala kwambiri. Izi ndizo chifukwa chakuti amayi ambiri amakono akhala akufikila mosavuta. Inde, pokomana ndi mkazi woterowo ndikuzindikiranso kuti akufunikira kugonjetsedwa, munthu wamakono angapezeko mosavuta kupeza, omwe sayenera kusamalira, kupereka maluwa, kulemba ndakatulo. Zili zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri, koma amayi ambiri, makamaka atsikana aang'ono, tsopano ali ndi chikole chokoleti ndi duwa, kapena choipitsitsa - botolo la vodka, ndipo nthawi yomweyo amagwera kwa mnyamata ali pabedi. Ndipo anyamata opusa amenewo ali kwambiri, kwambiri. Choncho, ndi chiwerengero chachikulu cha atsikana omwe amapezeka mosavuta pafupi ndi mwamuna, ndi waulesi kwambiri kuti asamalire mkazi wosafikika, pamene azungulira "zosavuta." Akazi, pezani zogwirizana. Ngati sitidali ovomerezeka kwambiri kwa amuna, ndiye kuti adzakhala ndi chikoka kutigonjetsa ife.
Ngakhale, sizinthu zonse zomvetsa chisoni. Chikondi chiri m'dziko lathu lamakono, ndipo pali amuna okondana kwambiri, koma sali ochuluka kwambiri. Chimodzimodzinso, chikondi pakati pa amuna amasiku ano, chimagwirizana kwambiri ndi kugonana. Mwamuna adzayamikira chakudya chamakono ndi nyali ndipo amamukumbukira kokha ngati zonse zitha kugonana. Izi ziyenera kukumbukiridwa nthawi zonse ndipo musamayembekezere munthu kuti azisangalala ndi nyenyezi zakuthambo, ngati mutapanga chikondi pansi pa nyenyezi izi. Malingana ndi amuna, ndi mthunzi wa chiwerewere, wokonda zachiwerewere umene umapangitsa kuti chibwenzi chichitike. Pafupi munthu aliyense adzaona kuti kugonana monga kugonana m'mphepete mwa nyanja kapena mtsinje, kugonana ndi chinthu chovuta kwambiri, mwachitsanzo, mu elevator, pagombe, paki. Izi ziyenera kukumbukiridwa nthawi zonse, chifukwa amayi awa ndi maonekedwe osabisa, ndipo kwa mwamuna chikondi cha chochitikacho sichingatheke popanda kugonana.
Ngati mwamuna wanu sali wokondana, muyenera kumukakamiza kuti musamamukondere. Mukhoza kuyamba nokha ndikukonzekera chakudya chamakono pogwiritsa ntchito nyali kapena kuyenda pamtunda wa nyanja ya usiku, kapena picnic pakati pa munda wa tirigu, ndikumaliza izi ndi kugonana kosangalatsa. Ndiye mungathe kumuuza mwamuna wanu kuti mutha kukondwera ngati atayamba kukuchitirani zodabwitsa, amapatsa maluwa nthawi zambiri, madzulo okondana. Chifukwa cha chikondi chilichonse, ngakhale kuti sichinali chopambana komanso chapadera, mwamuna ayenera kulimbikitsidwa, kutamandidwa ndi kumukumbutsa za momwe zimakhalira zokondweretsa inu ndikusangalatseni. Mwamuna amene amakukondani adzafuna kukukondweretsani inu, ngati momwe mungathere, ngati mukuwona kuti ndi kofunikira kwa inu, ndi kuti zochita zake zachikondi zimakhudza kwambiri ubale wanu.
Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti amuna samvetsa mfundo zonse, ndiye kuti mumayenera kuuza wokondedwa wanu mwamsanga kuti popanda chikondi simungathe, kuti popanda iye ubale wanu umasangalatsa, ndipo mwachikondi, chikondi chanu ndi chofunika kwambiri. Munthu woteroyo ayenera kufotokozera momwe angasonyezere chikondi, muuzeni zonse zomwe mukufuna kuti iye akuchitireni. Ndiuzeni mwatsatanetsatane, chomwe chili chofunika kwa inu ndipo muyenera kulandira maluwa kuchokera kwa iwo osati maholide, koma chifukwa cha izi, mapewa ofooketsa, makalata okongola, ndi zina zotero. Mwachidziwikire, muyenera kufotokoza zomwe zachikondi zili mukumvetsetsa kwanu. Izi zingakhale ndi zotsatira zabwino, chifukwa munthu wanu sangathe kuganiza kuti izi ndi zofunika kwambiri kwa inu.