Kotero, ngati wina akuganiza kuti mwana wazaka khumi ndi zisanu ali msinkhu kwambiri kuti akwatirane, iye ndi wolakwika kwambiri. Muzaka izi, atsikana amatha kupanga zosankha zazikulu, chifukwa kugonana ndi sitepe yatsopano mmoyo wa mkazi aliyense. Ndicho chifukwa chake mutavomereza kuchita zimenezo, ndiye kuti mumatsimikiza kuti mnyamatayo amakuchitirani mwakuya ndipo ubale wanu udzakhala wotalika ndipo mwinamwake kutsogolera ku ukwati. Ngati simukuganiza choncho, simungatero,
Momwemo, ndingakwatire ndi mnyamata yemwe adadzipereka yekha pa 15? Inde, mungathe. Koma pazimenezi nkofunika kuchita zonse kuti ukhale ndi nthawi yayitali yokwanira. Zoona zake n'zakuti sizingatheke kuti banja loyambirira limeneli livomerezedwe ndi makolo anu. Inde, mungathe kuchita popanda thandizo lawo, koma simungathe kuwerengera ukwati weniweni. Ndipo, monga msungwana aliyense, inu, ndithudi, mumalota kuti chirichonse chinali pamwamba kwambiri.
Komanso, yankhani funsolo, chibwenzi chako ndi chiti? Ngati ali ndi zaka zambiri ndipo alibe ntchito, ndiye ngati mukufuna kukhala pamodzi, muyenera kudzipezera nokha. Tsopano pali mwayi wambiri wopeza. Ngati mutayesetsa mwamphamvu, mungathe kuphatikiza ntchito ndi phunziro. Inde, mudzayenera kupereka nsembe yopuma ndi kupumula, koma kuti mukhale pafupi ndi okondedwa anu, si nsembe yaikulu chotero.
Ngati mudakonzeratu kuti mwakonzeka kukwatira pa khumi ndi asanu, onetsetsani kuti mumakambirana ndi mnyamatayu. Iye, ngati mwamuna weniweni, ayenera kupanga chisankho ndikugwira ntchito zoyenera. Choyamba, muyenera kuganizira komwe mukukhala. Inde mukhoza kukhala ndi makolo anu ndi makolo ake. Koma pali zinthu zambiri zoipa. Makolo, ndithudi, yesani kukwera m'moyo wanu ndi kuphunzitsa zomwe mungachite. Zimakuvutani kumvetsetsa kuti muli kale anthu akuluakulu omwe angathe kudzithandiza nokha ndikudzipereka okha. Choncho, ganizirani ngati mwakonzeka kumvera nthawi zonse makhalidwe a atate kapena amayi anu.
Njira yabwino kwambiri yopezera, ndilo, nyumba yolipira. Si chinsinsi kuti zosangalatsa zoterozo ndizo mtengo wapatali, koma, koma mumatha kubweretsa abwenzi kumeneko ndikupanga maphwando. Inde, katundu ndi malonda a nyumba ndi okwera mtengo kwambiri, choncho mnyamata wanu ayenera kukhala okonzeka kupeza ntchito imodzi kapena iwiri yomwe mwa njira ina ayenera kuyanjana ndi maphunziro ake.
Moyo wothandizana ndi sitepe yovuta kwambiri, koma ngati mukulankhula za izi, zikutanthauza kuti mwakonzeka, chifukwa chikondi choyamba ndi champhamvu kwambiri komanso chamakono. Makolo anu angakulepheretseni kuchitapo kanthu, kunena kuti simudziwa kwenikweni moyo ndi malingaliro enieni. Tsoka ilo, iwo ali anthu chabe a mtundu wosiyana omwe samakumvetsa nkomwe. Anthu sasintha ndi ukalamba. Iwe ndiwe munthu wampangidwe weniweni yemwe amadziwa chimene akufuna kumoyo ndipo akhoza kuchipanga chenicheni popanda kuthandizidwa. Wokondedwa wanu amadziwanso momwe angapezere maphunziro apamwamba kuti akupatseni moyo wabwino, nyumba yabwino, mpumulo ndi zinthu zina zambiri zomwe ziri zofunika.
Pamodzi ndi iye mungathe kuthana ndi mavuto onse ndikukhala okalamba palimodzi, popanda zopanda pake, ndewu ndi mavuto ena, chifukwa mumadziwana bwinobwino komanso mumamvetsetsa popanda mawu.
Ngati, pazifukwa zina, mumamvetsetsa kuti simungakwatire mnyamatayo panthawiyi, ngakhale kuti mukufuna zambiri kuposa zonse padziko, ndiye kuti muyenera kuchita zonse kuti mukhale pamodzi zaka zingapo zotsatira. Ndiko, mpaka nthawi imene angakupatseni. Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani izi?
Inde, khalani msungwana wabwino. Muyenera kumuthandiza, kumvetsetsa ndi kuthandizira pazochitika zonse. Ngakhale ziri zovuta kwambiri ndipo ngakhale zosatheka kwa inu, mukadalibe udindo wanu kukhala nthawizonse ndi kuchita zonse zomwe iye akunena. Ngakhale zochita izi zingakuvulazeni. Gwirizanani, ndi nsembe yaing'ono kapena yoperewera, yotsutsa zolinga zabwino monga ukwati ndi munthu wokondedwa ndi yekhayo? Kuonjezera apo, muyenera kuchita zonse kuti palibe otsutsana nawo. Inde, chibwenzi chanu chimakukondani kwambiri kuposa ambiri, koma atsikana ambiri amadzipachika pamutu pake, ndipo iye, ngati munthu weniweni, sangathe kukana. Choncho, yesetsani kuti muyandikire nthawi zonse ndipo musalole kuti muzilankhulana ndi anthu omwe amagonana nawo. Ngakhale atalumbira amafuna kukhala mabwenzi basi. Inu simukufuna kutaya chibwenzi chanu, molondola? Kotero, mumayenera kumuteteza monga momwe angathere ndi atsikana ena, mwinamwake iwo adzaswa banja lanu.
Chinthu china chofunikira pa chiyanjano ndi kugonana. Ngati simusintha bwino, chibwenzi chanu chidzasiya kukuyamikirani. Ndipo mu ichi palibe chachilendo, chifukwa amuna nthawi zonse amafunikira zosiyanasiyana. Muyenera kukhala osiyana nthawi zonse ndikukana chirichonse. Ndiwe mkazi wachikulire, kotero kuti ulibe ufulu woopa zoyesera zosiyanasiyana. Komanso, mnyamata wanu adzayamikira changu chanu ndi chikhumbo chomukondweretsa iye muzonse. Kumbukirani kuti iye alidi mwamuna wanu, koma kwa mwamuna wachikondi, mkazi nthawi zonse amachita zonse: amakonza, zowonongeka, irones, amachotsa, zokondweretsa pabedi. Kuonjezera apo, nthawi zonse amatha kupeza ndalama zokwanira ndikuwoneka bwino. Iwe uli wokonzeka kukhala monga choncho, sichoncho iwe?
Ngati inu, mutatha kuwerenga nkhaniyi, mukumvetsetsa kuti simungathe kuchita zonsezi, musakwiye. Sangalalani! Kotero, sikuti zonse zakutayika ndipo inu mumayamba kumvetsa chinachake mu moyo. Kotero, lekani kuganiza zaukwati, chifukwa inu mukadakali kwa iye, o, bwanji osakula. Kupumula, kusangalala ndi kuphunzira moyo.
Ngati ndime yomalizira yakukwiyitsani inu, simukufunikira kumvetsera. Zinali choncho, kuti muwone zomwe zinalembedwa. Tsatirani zonse zomwe zanenedwa pamwambapa, ndipo ndithudi mudzakwatiwa ndi munthu yemwe mudadzipereka nokha ali ndi zaka khumi ndi zisanu. Akufunika!