Mkazi aliyense, mosasamala za kugonana, kutalika, zaka ndi mtundu wa khungu, akhoza kupanga chiyanjano ndi munthu wokwiya kwambiri amene amakhala pachiwawa ndi chiwawa. Mulimonsemo, ndi bwino kuteteza izi ndi kuyembekezera khalidwe lake mpaka mutachedwa ndipo sichikubweretsani ku zotsatira zoopsa. Tsopano tiwone zina mwa zizindikiro zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuzindikira munthu amene ali bwino kuti adziteteze yekha, banja lanu ndi abwenzi ake.
Nkhani za nkhondo ndi kutenga nawo mbali
Wosankhidwa angakuuzeni m'mene adakwapulire nthawi ya ubwana wake, chifukwa makolo ake amamenya nthawi zonse kumenyana naye kapena amatha kukuuzani molimba mtima momwe iyeyo akumenyera nkhondo. Monga analamulira, ana 30% omwe adalangidwa , akakula, amakhala amenya nkhondo ndipo samadziimba mlandu ndikuwaponyera anthu omwe amagwiritsa ntchito chiwawa. Ngati ali ndi nzeru, ndipo akufuna kusintha, akhoza kupita kwa katswiri yemwe angathandize kusintha maganizo awo kumoyo ndi anthu ena. Mulimonsemo, ndizosachiritsika ndipo sikuli koyenera kuyesetsa kulimbana nayo.
Kudula ndi kuponyera zinthu
Ngati munthu ali ndi chilakolako kapena wokwiya akuyamba kuponyera zinthu, amatanthauza kuti ali wodziletsa komanso sakudziwa momwe angasunge maganizo, posakhalitsa kapena mtsogolo, ali ndi vuto lomwelo, akhoza kusinthana ndi anthu ndipo ziribe kanthu kuti ndi ndani yemwe ali panthawiyi.
Zopseza kugwiritsa ntchito chiwawa
Ngati munthu ayamba kukuopsezani, musalole kuti zikhale zopanda pake, taganizani. Motero, anthu achiwawa amatsutsa anthu omwe akuzunzidwa kuti akwaniritse zomwe akufuna. Amayamba kudziletsa okha, panthawi imene mumadziona kuti ndinu wolemekezeka. Sikoyenera kuyembekezera pamene munthuyu ayima kuopseza, koma amangoyamba kuchita.
Kusungulumwa ndi kulamulira
Ngati mnzanuyo akukulamulirani nthawi zonse, dziwani-ichi ndi chizindikiro chotsimikizika kuti mwamuna amayamba kuchita chiwawa. Sakulolani kuti muyankhule ndi anzanu, samakulolani mumsewu ndipo nthawi zambiri amayesetsa kuteteza anthu. Kodi izi zimachitika bwanji? Choyamba, munthu uyu amapereka nthawi yake kwa iwe ndipo akhoza kuyamba kulimbikitsa kuti ataya ntchito kapena kuphunzira kuti akhale naye kunyumba nthawi zonse. Kenaka akuyamba kuyendetsa ndalama zanu, amayamba kufunsa zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito ndalama. Kenaka, mumayamba kufufuza SMS pafoni yanu ndi maimelo. Adzakuitanani maulendo angapo patsiku kuti mudziwe kumene muli, omwe muli nawo, zomwe mukuchita, ndi zina zotero.
Nsanje wopanda chifukwa
Zoonadi, ngati munthu ali ndi nsanje, sizikutanthauza kuti iyeyo akufuna kuchitapo kanthu. Tiyenera kulingalira ngati akuwonetsa nsanje popanda chifukwa. Mwachitsanzo, amayamba kusonyeza pamene muli pabanja kapena mumasonkhana madzulo ndi mabwenzi ndi anzanu. Adzayamba kuzindikira kuti mukulankhulana ndi amayi ndi abambo, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo adzakwiya, ngakhale kuti palibe vuto la chimfine. Munthu woteroyo adzakhala ndi chidwi nthawi zonse kuti ndinu ndani komanso kuti ndi ndani. Kotero iye adzakulamulirani kwathunthu.
Zimanyozedwa
Kutukwana, kunyalanyaza ndi malingaliro ndi chizindikiro cha munthu wankhanza yemwe amakonda chiwawa. Ngakhale mnzanuyo akunena kuti ndi nthabwala, ganizirani izi ndipo khalani osamala.
Kumbukirani kuti kunyozedwa ndi chiyambi ndi zobisika zaukali. Motero, adzayesa kunyalanyaza banja lanu, abwenzi anu, inu, malingaliro anu, zofuna zanu, ndipo pomalizira pake, adzasokoneza kudzidalira kwanu.
Kugwiritsidwa ntchito kwa mphamvu zowonongeka pampikisano
Ngati panthawi ya mkangano kapena kukambirana mnzanuyo sakonda chinachake, sagwirizana ndi maganizo anu, amayamba kutenga mapewa anu, kugwedezeka, osalola kuti apite, kukankhira, kutseka chitseko ndikusiya, ndikuganiza zomwe, mwinamwake, izi sakuima pamenepo. Posakhalitsa, izi zikhoza kukula ndikukhala zowawa kwambiri.
Malipiro a anthu ena pamalephera kwawo
Ngati munthu mwachibadwa ali wokalipa, ndiye kuti amakonda kuimba mlandu anthu ena, ndikukankhira mobwerezabwereza chisankho chomwe ali nacho yekha. Iye sadzatenga konse udindo pa zomwe iye amachita kapena kunena. Ngakhale pamene munthu woteroyo akuuzidwa kuti ali wankhanza, nthawi yomweyo adzafotokoza izi motsimikiza kuti inuyo mwamukankhira. Komanso, anthu oterowo nthawi zonse amatsutsa anzawo komanso amayesa kudziwonetsera bwino.
Kuwonetsa zachiwawa ndi nkhanza kwa ana ndi zinyama
Ngati munthu aika manja ake pa ana ndi zinyama, amafuna kuti amumvere, ndiye kuti mufunika kuchitapo kanthu mwamsanga, mwinamwake zinyama ndi ana adzalangidwa mwamphamvu. Kwenikweni, amuna oterowo ndi amantha ndipo samakonda kwambiri nyama kapena ana.
Kumbukirani kuti ngati mnzanu wakukwapulani, ndiye kuti adzamenya ana anu!
Kugwiritsira ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo
Anthu achiwawa ndi achiwawa nthaŵi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo komanso mowa. Chifukwa chaichi iwo sangathe kuganiza moyenera komanso kuvomereza mkhalidwewo monga momwe zilili, choncho pamakhala nthawi yoyenera kuyankhulana ndi munthu wotereyo mosamala kwambiri. Kuchokera kwa iwo mukhoza kuyembekezera chirichonse.
Mwamsanga
Zizindikiro za nkhanza zikhoza kutchulidwa ndi anthu omwe nthawi zambiri amatha kuchita zachiwawa, sayembekezera nthawi yaitali kufikira atakwaniritsidwa. Iwo samakonda kusamalira akazi kwa nthawi yaitali, akukhumba kuti chirichonse chikukula mofulumira. Angathe kukuitanani kuti mukwatirane, pemphani kuchoka kwinakwake ndikukhala ndi mwana. Takpartner akhoza kukugonjetserani nokha, ndipo inunso simudzakhala ndi maganizo anu ndi nthawi yoganizira.
Kupitirizabe
Anthu omwe amakhumudwitsidwa nthawi zonse, zonse zomwe munena zidzasinthidwa, amakhala okonzeka kumenyana ndi kumenyana. Ubale wawo ndi pafupifupi palibe wina woti akangane, chifukwa sakonda. Koma chifukwa chakuti ali ndi kudzichepetsa, amaimba mlandu aliyense payekha.
Kumbukirani kuti ngati munthu ali wamwano, ndiye kuti adzachita kuyambira nthawi yoyamba pachibwenzi. Choyamba iwo adzafotokozera ulamuliro wawo ngati chisamaliro ndi chikondi, koma posakhalitsa zonsezi zidzetsa zotsatira zowawa, pamene simungathe ngakhale kuchitapo kanthu, koma padzakhalanso mochedwa!
Ngati mwamuna wanu ali ndi zizindikiro zoposa zitatu zomwe zikufotokozedwa pano, ndiye mumakhala kapena mukakumana ndi munthu amene angakhale wolakwa.
Mwina zingakhale zovuta kwambiri kuti musiye kugonana naye, makamaka ngati mumamukonda, ndipo izi zingakhale zoopsa kwa inu, koma muyenera kukhala okonzeka.
Ngati mwamuna wanu amasintha nthawi yomweyo mpumulo wa kupsa mtima ndi ukali, dziwani kuti munthuyu amakonda kugaya.
Pambuyo pa mkangano uliwonse kapena ndewu, mwamunayo alapa, akuwoneka ngati bambo wabwino ndi mwamuna, adzalumbira kuti izi zidzachitika kwambiri. Azimayi ambiri amaganiza komanso amakhulupirira kuti wokondedwa wawo adzasintha ndipo zonse zidzakhala bwino, koma kukhala mwamtendere m'nyumba koteroko sikudzalamulira kwa nthawi yayitali, izi zidzabwerezedwa nthawi ndi nthawi. Ndizochitika zonse, mutuluka mofulumira komanso mofulumira, chifukwa adziwa kuti mudzamukhululukira ndipo zonse zidzatha. Musadzigonjetse ku chiwawa, kuti muteteze nokha ndi ana anu. Dzipeze nokha munthu wachikondi yemwe adzakukondani inu ndi ana anu, ndipo mmalo mwa chiwawa zidzakupatsani inu chikondi, chisamaliro ndi chikondi. Ndipotu, mkazi aliyense amayenerera.
Samalani posankha osankhidwa ndi kukhala osangalala!