Amalangizidwa kuti asaphonye masewera pa masewera olimbitsa thupi: katundu wambiri amathandiza kuti apange testosterone. Mu menyu muyenera kukhala ndi mapuloteni ambiri, ndikugwiritsa ntchito mafuta ochepa komanso okoma - zakudya izi zimalimbikitsa "kupanga" kwa spermatozoa yogwira ntchito. Nyumba yosambira, ndipo mahatchi otentha amakhala akadali pambali. Osachepera, masiku angapo kuti makalasi omwe ali ndi udindo "asakondwere ndi zotsatira"! Kuti mukhale ndi chigamulo chokhala ndi mwana, mutha kuyesa kudziwa nthawi ya chifuwa, pamene mwinamwake pakhale mwayi waukulu. Kawirikawiri, pakapita masiku 28, izi zimachitika pafupifupi tsiku la 14. Komabe, pali "zolakwika" zosiyanasiyana mu chitsanzo ichi. Kufotokozera nthawi "H" n'zotheka kapena kuyesa chomwe chimatchedwa kuti basal kutentha, kapena pogwiritsa ntchito mayeso apadera.
Pang'onopang'ono koma ndithudi. Ndipo tsopano yafika, mphindi yosangalatsa ya chisankho chokhala ndi mwana: mukuyembekezera momwe mungagwirizane ndi chisangalalo kuti mupatse dziko lapansi munthu watsopano. Nchiyani chingakuthandizeni inu pazifukwa zabwinozi? Choyamba, musamangogwiritsira ntchito mankhwala oyambirira. Chimwemwe chachikulu cha mayiyo ndi chophweka kwambiri kuti otsogolera moyo wawo wamtsogolo adzasinthe cholinga chawo. Monga mawotchi, mophiphiritsa. Chachiwiri, kukwaniritsa masewera achikondi ndibwino kusankha chisankho chabwino cha umishonale chakale. Pachifukwachi, palibe malo amodzi oyenera kutenga pakati: Zitha kuchitika mulimonse mwa iwo. Komabe, zikuonekeratu kuti pa malo oima kapena wokwera, "chinyezi chamoyo" chakupita kumapeto komaliza chidzakhala chovuta kwambiri. Kuphatikizanso, ziwalo zina za thupi lazimayi (mwachitsanzo, kupindika chiberekero) zimapangitsanso kuti umuna ukhale wovuta. Choncho, chifukwa chofunikanso pambuyo "chotsatira chomaliza" akulangizidwa kuti asadzangodzimva pomwepo, koma pumulani ndi kanthawi kogona pansi.
Chisankho chanu chopanga mwana ndi wokondedwa chatengedwa kale, kotero malamulo ena angapo kwa makolo amtsogolo. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi kukondana wina ndi mzake pazochitika zomwe simungakhale. Simungakhale wamanjenje ndikuda nkhawa ndi amayi ambiri amtsogolo. Ndikofunika kuphunzitsa ngakhale kukhala chete pamaso pa bata. Muyenera nthawi zonse kudzikonzekera nokha zotsatira zabwino. Ngakhale mutapambana nthawi imodzi, simuyenera kukwiyitsa ndi kukhumudwa, mukhoza kuyamba chirichonse ndi kukhudzika kuti chirichonse chidzakupatsani inu. Padakali pano, muli awiri okha, mutengere nthawi yambiri pamodzi, kuthandizana wina ndi mzake, kukondana. Pezani nthawi yongogona bedi pabedi ndikulota za moyo umene mudzakhala nawo pamene muli atatu. Ndipo chomwe iye ati adzakhale gawo lachitatu - osati mopambanitsa, ndizo zedi! Mwana wanu wamtsogolo adzapindula ndi izi, chifukwa ndi kofunika kuti adziŵe zam'tsogolo momwe akuyembekezeredwa ndi kukondedwa kale!