Chimene muyenera kuchita kuti munthu akukomane nanu

Amuna ndi gawo lalikulu la moyo wathu wachimwemwe. Pa msinkhu uliwonse timafuna kuwoneka okongola ndikukopa chidwi cha amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Koma ngati wina atha kuchita zimenezi momasuka, ndiye kuti atsikana ena amayesetsa kuyesetsa kumusangalatsa. Nkhani yathu imatchedwa "Chomwe muyenera kuchita kuti munthu athandizane nanu" - ndipo cholinga chake ndi atsikana omwe sakhala odzidalira okha ndipo sakudziwa momwe angakope chidwi cha munthu amene amamukonda.

Akatswiri a zamaganizo achita kafukufuku pakati pa amuna, zomwe zimatithandiza, akazi, kuti tipeze choti tichite, kuti mnyamata adzidziwe. Zimachokera pa- kumene, poyamba, kulingalira kwa amuna kumagwa, komwe timafunikira kuyang'ana kuti tikope anyamata kapena atsikana ndipo popanda mawu timamupatsa iye.

Nthawi zambiri timatsutsa anthu chifukwa chosamvetsera zochitika zathu komanso dziko lathu lapansi, koma ngati tili omveka komanso osagwirizana, timatsimikiza kuti munthu ayenera kukhala ndi chidwi ndi chinachake kuti , anayamba chidwi ndi dziko lathu lamkati. Choncho, tifunikira kuchitira dziko lakunja mwachifundo.

N'zoona kuti si tonsefe omwe ndi zitsanzo ndi nyenyezi, komabe, mothandizidwa ndi zovala zopanga zovala komanso zosankhidwa bwino, mungadzipange kukhala maswiti enieni - ndipo amuna adzakuonani!

Nkhope yanu ndi khadi lanu loitanira, ndipo izi sizitanthauza kuitanitsa kilogalamu yamapangidwe pamaso panu. Kuti mnyamata akukomane nanu, muyenera kumuganizira. Mwinamwake muli ndi maso okongola - ndiye mukufunika kutsindika zakuya kwawo, kuoneka kokongola komanso kokongola. Ndibwino kuti mukuwerenga Awasankhe, aloleni anthu onse alole kuwakhudza. Mwina chimodzi mwa zinthu zazikuluzikulu zooneka mmaonekedwe athu ndi tsitsi lokongoletsedwa bwino - kulingalira koyambirira kwa munthu akunja kumawaphimba. Kuwabweretsani mu dongosolo, samalani mapiritsi - mulole tsitsi lanu liziwala ndi kusewera mu kuwala kwa kuwala, ndipo tsitsili limakondweretsa diso ndi lingaliro lake.

Chinthu chachiwiri chimene anthu onse amamvetsera ndi zovala za msungwana. Inu, motsimikiza, mwamsanga munaganizira za masiketi achifupi ndi mitu ndikugwedezeka, monga, mwachitsanzo, mulibe magawo amtundu. Tikufulumira kukukondweretsani: zonsezi sizikuyenera kuvala. "Ndipo ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Kodi muzivala chiyani? "- Mukufunsa. Tangolani chovalacho, chomwe chimatsindika mwatsatanetsatane zithunzithunzi zonse za ziwerengero zanu ndi kubisa zolakwika. Zovala ziyenera kusankhidwa kotero kuti zimagwirizana ndi kunja kwapadera ndipo sizimapanga lingaliro kuti simukusowa.

Zoonadi, chiwerengero sichinali chinthu chomaliza chimene mnyamatayo akuyang'ana pamene akumana, choncho yesetsani kukhala wokhazikika. Koma simukusowa kuwona kuti amuna ndi osiyana - wina amakonda anyamata oonda, ndipo wina ndi wamisala za masewera ojambula zithunzi ndi mabomba okongola. Choncho musapitirize kufunafuna mafashoni - ndi bwino kuti muwoneke bwino komanso mwachilengedwe.

Koma zonse zomwe tangolembazi sizingathe kukopa mnyamata kuti aiwale za manyazi ake ndipo anadza kwa inu, anakumana. Zindikirani - sitinena za amuna aja omwe ali ndi cholinga chimodzi (ndikuganiza kuti mumvetsetsa zomwe zili pangozi). Amuna amenewa nthawi zambiri amasonkhanitsa, amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi maonekedwe anu, samayang'ana maonekedwe ndi chiwerengero cha ena onse, chifukwa sakuwona mfundo pazomwe akulankhulana nthawi yaitali. Ayi, tikukamba za amuna omwe ali m'khamulo omwe akuyang'ana maso omwe angayambitse openga, ndipo ndani ali okonzeka kuthamangira maso awa kuphompho, kuti alowemo kubwezeretsa dzina lofunika komanso nambala ya foni.

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri mu chifanizo chanu chokopa chidwi cha amuna kapena akazi ndizo khalidwe lanu, kukambirana, makhalidwe ndi chikhalidwe chanu. Zonsezi mwamsanga zimagwira diso lanu ndi kumaliza maonekedwe. N'zosatheka kuti mwamuna afune kukomana ndi mtsikana wokongola yemwe ali ndi chizolowezi chokambirana naye. Sadzamvetsera kwa atsikana omwe sadziwa momwe angasungire malo ake ndikuyenda bwino - mwatsoka, alipo ena mwa ife. Choncho, tifunikira kugwira ntchito nthawi zonse, kusintha.

Samalani kumwetulira kwanu. Ziyenera kukhala zodabwitsa komanso zokondweretsa, chifukwa kumwetulira ndi chimodzi mwa zida zathu zamphamvu kwambiri. Onetsani nyumba pamaso pa galasilo "mitundu" yochepa ya kumwetulira ndi kukumbukira zomwe zikupita kwa inu, ndi zomwe siziri. Otsatira amayesetsa kupewa, oyamba - agwiritse ntchito nthawi zonse ndi kulikonse. Ndiponsotu, n'chiyani chingamupangitse munthu kuti azidziŵa bwino kwambiri kuposa kumwetulira ndi kumwetulira kosangalatsa kumene kumaponyedwa pa iye?

Zomwezo ziyenera kuchitidwa ndi mawonekedwe. Kuwombera "kochepa" kuchokera pansi pa miyendo yapakati ya lasiti kumenyana ndi munthu aliyense - ndipo amvetsetsa kuti akukufunirani ndipo adzatenga gawo loyamba! Koma "kuwombera diso" ayenera kukhala mwaluso, unobtrusively ndi mosamala kwambiri, mwinamwake izo zingawoneke moona ndi pang'ono zonyansa.

Yang'anirani zoyera za kulankhula kwanu - mawu ndi zokambirana, nazonso, zingathe kumukakamiza munthuyo kuti amudziwe bwino, ndi kumukankhira kutali. Inde, ndi mau anu simungachite kanthu - mumapatsidwa mwachilengedwe, ndipo simukuyenera kusintha. Koma pangani kung'ung'udza mwakachetechete komanso mwachifundo. Ponena za mawu ogwiritsiridwa ntchito, yesetsani kupewa mawu achipongwe, chifukwa amuna samakonda atsikana okhwima.

Tikufuna kupereka uphungu wotere kwa atsikana omwe sangathe kukopa anyamata pamsewu m'njira iliyonse. Pakati pazinthu zina, muyeneranso kukumbukira kuti izo sizikhoza kukhala mwa inu, koma mwa kudzichepetsa kwachibadwa kwa mnyamatayo. Ndipo apa pali njira ziwiri zokha. Kapena inu, pokhala ndi mtima womwewo, mumangodya chinthu chodzimvera chisoni ndi aulesi ndi obalalika, kapena mutenge kulimba mtima ndikutsatira choyamba. Icho, mwa njira, ndi chofunika kuti mugwiritse ntchito pazochitikazo pamene muwona chifundo chenicheni cha mnyamatayo.

Kumvera malangizo athu, pitirizani nokha pazochitika zonse za moyo, mukhale ogwirizana komanso mwachibadwa - ndipo amuna sangakumane nanu!