Malingaliro okhudza ndalama za amuna ndi akazi

Kodi mukufuna kumvetsetsa kuti momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito ndalama zanu zidzakhudzana bwanji ndi bajeti yanu? Yang'anani mwatsatanetsatane zizoloŵezi zake za "tsiku ndi tsiku" ndikupeza zogwirizana! Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti ndalama ndi chizindikiro cha mphamvu muwiri. Choncho, mutha kukhala ndi mphamvu, mungapeze mabhonasi okoma ngati maulamuliro athunthu komanso achiwawa. Kodi ndi chovala chotani chomwe mungapeze nokha, ndipo ndani adzabwezeretsa kuwonongeka kwa makhalidwe? Maganizo okhudza abambo ndi amai ndiwo mutu waukulu wa nkhaniyi.

Kukambirana kuzungulira chikwama

Kumayambiriro kwa chiyanjano, pamene ndalama ndi moyo mulibe osiyana, kuti mukambirane za ndalama zawo ndi mtima wa azimayi kwa mwamuna si monga mukufunikira. Ngati tsopano tsopano akungoyamba kukambirana pa nkhani za ndalama, ndiye, chidzachitike ndi chiyani? Koma ngakhale zokambirana sizikuvutitsani, ziganizo zina ziyenera kuchitidwa mosamala.

Ma beacons owopsa:

• "Amandipatsa ndalama zochepa kwambiri. Ndikufuna kuyang'ana ntchito yatsopano, chifukwa sindingathe kulipira chilichonse! "Sikuti ntchitoyi ndi" kudandaula "monga chithunzi:" Sindingathe ngakhale kukwaniritsa zopempha zanga, ngakhale zanu - makamaka. "
• "Pa chaka chapitacho ndinapeza ... ndimangokhala mu ..., ndipo ndimapita kukadya kokha ...". Kuwonetsa ndalama koteroko sikutanthauza kukhala ngati snobbery. Choncho, kusunthira kwotsatira kudzakhala: "Inde, ndipo msungwana wanga ayenera kupeza ..., valani mu ... kuti mufanane nane!"
• "Kunena zoona, ndikuganiza maluwa ndizowononga ndalama, koma ngati mukufuna ..." Pitani, ndipo mulibe ufulu wobwerera! Chikhumbo chanu chonse chochokera pansi pa mtima chidzalembedwera pamtunduwu "chiwonongeko cha anthu wamba" ndipo, motero, sananyalanyaze.

"Mkazi wamasiye amalephera" kapena mikate itatu ya mkate?

Nkhani yosiyana ya chidwi cha sayansi ndi munthu yemwe anakuitanani kukadyera. Choyamba, pansi pa mawu akuti "malo odyera" mumatha kumvetsa maofesi osiyanasiyana. Monga momwe zochitikira zomvetsa chisoni zimasonyezera, nthawizina mawu odzitukumula awa amatchedwa McDonald's, ndi fodya wodya pamsana. Ndipo kachiwiri, zikuwululira momwe amachitira zinthu zomwe akugwiritsa ntchito ndikusunga dongosolo lanu, komanso, zomwe mumagula.

Ma beacons owopsa:

• "Kodi mumakonda ayisikilimu kapena strudel?" Ndiko kulondola - simunakhale nayo nthawi yoziganizira moyenera, ndipo akuika kale malire ndi malire anu. Pomalizira: kaya ndi egoism iwiri (iye saganiza ngakhale kuti zofuna zanu zikhoza kusiyana ndi zolinga zake), kapena kugwiritsidwa ntchito momasuka (ndipo mwadzidzidzi mumamupatsa chakudya chamadzulo atatu ndikupangitsani kuwonongeka kosalekeza kwa chikwama chake?).
• "Ineyo ndimapanga ndondomeko!" Ngakhale akufuna kukondweretsa mwa kukonza foie gras kapena Thai shrimps, adakali wodzidalira kwambiri: mwina mungasemphane kapena banal chifukwa cha chinthu chimodzi kapena china.
• "Kodi aliyense amadzilipira yekha?" Sitili ku Ulaya, ndipo adaitanira ku malo odyera. Kuitana ndalama za munthu wina ndizoyenera kukhala zomveka.

Yerengani ndi thumba la ndalama

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri cha "ndalama" cha munthu aliyense ndi ndalama zake. Kodi adzatha kunena za zizoloŵezi zachuma za wosankhidwa wanu? Ndalama zimasungidwa m'matumba a mathalauza, malaya, jekete. Osati chifukwa thumba linatayika, koma kuchokera ku mfundo. Chenjerani: mphepo pamutu mwa munthu wotereyo imayenda mocheperapo m'matumba ake. Amanyansidwa ndi ndalama ndipo amathera mosavuta. Kenaka amakhala ndi moyo wabwino. Chinthu chotsutsa. Mwiniwake amadziwa bwino nkhani ya ndalama zake ndipo amasankha kuthana ndi malire, osati ndi ndalama. Chinthu chimodzi: ndalama zomwe zimapangidwa ndi makadi n'zovuta kulamulira. Mwinamwake sakuwona kugula kwa chovala chatsopano cha mink? Chikwama chachiwiri chokwanira ndi munthu wokondedwa kwambiri ndi amuna ochepa omwe amawongolera. Pali pafupifupi anyamata asanu ndi awiri omwe ali ndi chitukuko chotukuka. Tsoka, palibe chinthu chapadera pa izo sichingakhoze kutsimikiziridwa: thumba ndi chizolowezi kuposa chizindikiro. Chida chokonda kwambiri cha amuna oyenerera kwambiri. "Ndimanyamula zipangizo zanga zonse ndi ine ndikuwafunsa kuti asayang'ane mmenemo," akutero borset. Ndipo mbuye wake wakhala akuchoka mu mafashoni ndipo mwachiwonekere samamvetsa malaya amoto. Kapena ndalama zomwe iye amadya kwenikweni sizikukoka, kapena amayesetsa kuti azitsatira. Hatchi yakuda. Bwino kukhala kutali.

Ndabwera kwa inu ndi moni

Ulendo wake ndi mayesero abwino a umbombo ndi ... mwachifundo. Tayang'anani pa zonsezi! Makhalidwe a munthu kudziko lachilendo sali oposa. Kusadziletsa komanso kukhoza kukhala ngati kunyumba kunyumba sikuli bwino kwambiri alendo. Koma chisamaliro, luntha ndi kusowa kwa manja opanda pake - mafuta kuphatikizapo "bizinesi yaumwini" ya osankhidwa anu.

Ma beacons owopsa:

• "Izo zinatibweretsera Coca-Cola ..." Mosasamala kanthu zakumvera kwanu kwa zakumwa za carbonate, malamulo abwino a kulawa amadziwikanso kawirikawiri: kudya madzulo, ndibwino kuti mutenge maluwa, ndipo mwa njira yabwino - ndi botolo la vinyo kapena champagne. Chochititsa chidwi, iye sadziwa zoyambirira za ulemu kapena mwadala mwadala ndipo amawasamala iwo? "Ndi tiyi basi ndi mabisiketi?" Ndipo ndikudya-ine ndikuchokera kuntchito? "Ngati simunamuitane makamaka kuti adye chakudya, ndiye kuti ayenera kusamalira mimba yake pasanafike ndipo sangakuuzeni.
• "Wow, koma palibe nyumba!" Kodi iye ali pa inu? Ndipo ndi mamita angati? "Ndipo musaiwale, wanga wamtengo wapatali, kuti ndifunse za mafungulo ochokera ku chitetezo, komwe ndalama ziri ...

Chuma chachuma

Sikuti nthawi zonse chilakolako chofuna kupulumutsa chimati ndi umbombo kapena maganizo oipa. Ngati mwamuna sakufuna kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zake pa vinyo wotsika kwambiri kapena tchizi (ngakhale mutatsimikiza kuti angathe kuzilandira), izi siziri chizindikiro cha skopidomstva. Mwinanso ali ndi ndalama zambiri?

Ma beacons owopsa:

• "Ndine chakudya chodzichepetsa, ndicho chifukwa chake ndidzakhala wokhutira ndi dumplings." Tsoka, iwo sangakuvomerezeni inu ndi dongosolo lanu lakumagazi. Tikukhulupirira kuti sakutsutsa kuti ndi "mavuto anu"?
• "Mayi anga amakhulupirira kuti ndi bwino kugula sofa yatsopano kuposa nthawi 10 yopita ku Igupto wopusa." Ndibwino kuti amayi ake athe kuwerengera. Koma zikanakhala bwino mu ubale wanu, iye sanawerengere.
• "Kodi mudagula nsapato zatsopano? Ine sindingakhoze kumvetsa inu akazi! Muli ndi imvi! "Pali mabira, koma palibe wakuda! Ndipo mwachizoloŵezi, mumagwiritsira ntchito paziwirizi kuti nthawi yanu ndi yanu komanso malipiro anu enieni.

Nthaŵi zina maganizo a alendo akukhudza ndalama, ndipo nthawi zina - amalowa mu dziko la catharsis molimbika kwambiri. Ndi miyambo yodabwitsa yotani ya ndalama zomwe amuna achilendo amachita?