Amayi nthawi zambiri samvetsa, kapena ayi, safuna kumvetsa izi kwa munthu wodziwa bwino ntchito, wothandizira banja, wothandizira pazinthu zonse, chifukwa chosowa ntchito ndizoipa kwambiri kuposa momwe amaganizira. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti izi ndi zopweteka kwambiri m'maganizo mwa amuna kuposa akazi. Kwenikweni, kudzidalira kwa amuna ndiko kugwirizana kwambiri ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso momwe zinakhalira "mu bizinesi."
Kwa munthu, kusowa ntchito kumangotanthauza kuwonongeka kwa ndalama zokhazikika, komanso mwayi wapadera wosangalatsa. Ndipo ngati palibe chifukwa chodzitukumula - ndiye pali nthawi yovuta. Mwamunayo amayamba manyazi komanso kusokonezeka kwa anzake, achibale komanso ngakhale akale omwe amagwira naye ntchito. Ngakhale munthu wamphamvu kwambiri pakali pano akufuna kukagona pa sofa, osaganizira za chirichonse, osamuwona, samayanjana nawo kalikonse. Ndi pamene mkazi wachikondi ndi womvetsetsa ayenera kusokoneza, zomwe sizingamulole mwamuna wake kuti asatengeke. Kudandaula kuti "mwamuna adataya ntchito" ndi yopanda phindu, ndipo sofa ndi kusachita kanthu ndi kanthawi chabe. Inde, mwamuna amafunika kupumula atatha kupanikizika, koma mulimonsemo, musamulole kuti akule mukhale tchuthi zopanda malire.
Chinthu chachikulu chimene chili chofunikira kwa mkazi ndikumuthandiza mwamuna wake. Adziwe kuti siyekha, kuti ali ndi banja lake, mkazi wake, yemwe adzatha kumuthandiza, kumvetsera, kuthandizira. Osamuimba mlandu - sali wokoma, ndipo zotsutsa za wokondedwa sizidzakonza vutoli. M'malo mwake, iwo adzawonjezera kupsinjika kwake. Ngakhale, komanso kuchitira chifundo chisoni ndikosafunikira. Musamangomva chitsulo pamutu, mutsimikizire kuti zonse zidzakhala bwino. Kumbukirani, pali mwamuna patsogolo panu, osati mwana wamng'ono. Palibe chomwe chingakhale "chabwino" pokhapokha mutachita kanthu pa izi, kupatula ngati mutayesetsa kuthetsa vutoli. Palibe chomwe chingasinthe chitonthozo chotonthoza monga "simukufuna kuyankhula"? Mukufuna kukambirana kwa bizinesi, ndi kuthandiza ndi konkire.
Mzimayi wachikondi amatha kumvetsera, kupereka malangizo, kusokoneza mkhalidwewo. Mzimayi amatha kuchita izi, ngakhale kuti sakudziwa bwino za ntchito ya mwamuna wake. Kuti muchite izi, sikofunika kuti tisiye kusokoneza magulu a makompyuta kapena ntchito zamalonda kufunsa kuti: "Mudzapitiriza bwanji? Mukufuna ntchito yatsopano? Ndikutha kukuthandizani. " Ndiye, mungachite chiyani kuti muthandize? Sinthani zipangizo zopezeka pa intaneti zopezeka ntchito, kukonzekera ndi kutumiza kuyambiranso, yesani mayankho omwe adalandira. Ndipo musamangoganizira mozama kuti mukuthandiza. Palibe zodandaula monga "iwe wataya ntchito, ndipo ndikuyang'ana yankho" ... Komanso, muyenera kuganizira momwe mungapewere kuvulaza amuna. Pambuyo pa zonse, mayankho a kubwereza sayibwerako nthawi yomweyo. Mwachitsanzo, yambani ntchito yokonzanso ku dacha. Chitani zomwe zakhala zikusonkhanitsidwa nthawi yaitali, koma nthawi zonse zasiya. Ndipo tamandani mwamuna wanu chifukwa cha mmene adagwirira ntchitoyo.
Panthawi ino pamapewa a mkazi kuti katundu wambiri akunyamulidwa - izi sizikuthandizani kokha pakufufuza ntchito yatsopano. Kwa kanthawi mungathe kukhala chitsimikizo chokha cha ndalama kwa banja. Chinthu chofunika kukumbukira: ndizovuta kwa inu, koma kwa mwamuna wanu. Mungathe kusintha ntchito zina zapakhomo pa nthawi ino kwa munthu amene amatha nthawi yambiri kunyumba. Koma izi ziyenera kuchitidwa mwanzeru. Pambuyo pake, muvomereza kuti mawu akuti "Tsopano ndikupeza imodzi, kotero mumasamba mbale" ndi "wokondedwa, ndatopa kwambiri, kodi mungapite ku sitolo lero" - kodi ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi wina ndi mnzake? Musakhale achipongwe kwa mwamuna wanu - izo sizitsogolera pa zabwino.
Musalole kuti mwamuna wanu azidzimvera chisoni nokha ndi kukhumudwa: moyo uli wodzaza ndi zonse zosangalatsa komanso zokondweretsa. Pewani njira yowonongeka ndikuyamba kutuluka mobwerezabwereza kwinakwake: kupita kuchiwonetsero, kuwonetserako, kuti muyende-kwa yemwe ali ngati. Phatikizani pamodzi zosangalatsa zina, muzichita nawo masewera atsopano - izi ndizotsitsimutsa bwino ndikuvutika maganizo. Pitirizani kuchita chinachake palimodzi. Perekani mwamuna wanu kuti amvetsetse kuti moyo satha, uli wodzaza ndi zodabwitsa, osati zokhumudwitsa komanso zosankha zopanda chilungamo. Onetsani mwamuna wanu kuti ngakhale pali zovuta zazing'ono, iye akadali wanu woyamba komanso mutu wa banja. Munthu uyu samayiwala, nthawi zonse amayamikira. Adzachita zonse kuti azisunga banja lachikondi komanso losamalira, kuonetsetsa kuti zinthu zikuyendera bwino. Adzaphwanyidwa kuti akhalenso ndi udindo wake, ndipo zovuta zomwe zimatchedwa "mwamuna ataya ntchito" zidzatha bwino kwa nonsenu.