Mungathe kulingalira kuti tsiku lina, mu tsiku limodzi, lowala, lokondweretsa, komanso lapamwamba kwambiri kunena tsiku lapadera, foni yanu inalira kapena phokoso la pakhomo, ndipo mumatha kumva mawu a mkazi pa foni kapena kutsegula chitseko, ndipo pali mkazi ataima pamenepo. Amayankhula molimba mtima komanso mwamtendere, akusunga bwino, ndi ulemu, ndikukuwuzani kuti ndi wokonda mwamuna wanu wokondedwa.
Ndipotu, poyamba mudzayamba kuopsya. Dziwani kuti amayi onse amachitira izi m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Mukhoza kuyendayenda, ndikuyamba kulira ndi kulira, mukhoza kungomva, ndikumwetulira kuti mutseka chitseko kutsogolo kwa mphuno yake. Simungathe kuwoneratu zotsatirazi kapena kuyembekezera zochita zina, chifukwa simungaganize momwe mungachitire pa nthawi ino.
Tonsefe, akazi, titha kumvetsa mmene tingapweteke zinthu zotere zokhudza mwamuna wanu. Momwemonso, chochititsa chidwi kwambiri sikuti ndi mkazi, amene adabwera kudzatenga ufulu kwa wokondedwa wanu wokondedwa, ndiye munthu yemwe angasinthe inu ndi zavedublyubnitsu. Zili bwino kuti zidzakhala zovuta kuti mukhale chete, koma muyenera kuyesetsa. Ndipo pamene mutenga mpweya pang'ono ndikubwera ku malingaliro anu, ndiye ganizirani chifukwa chake mkazi wachilendo anabwera kwa inu?
Mwachidziwikire, mbuye wa mnzanuyo, yemwe sanali wamantha komanso osasamala konse anabwera kunyumba mwako ndipo anawuza kuti mwamuna wako akunyenga naye, akuyembekezera kuti akukunyengerera, akulira, misozi, ndi zina zofunika kwambiri, akuyembekeza kuti mutha kusudzulana ndi mwamuna wake. Ndipo ndithudi mudzayamba kuumirira pa izi. Pambuyo pake, maukwati ambiri anatha chifukwa chodziŵika kuti akazi ambiri sankakhala ndi nzeru zachikazi, ndipo sakanatha kuganizira mozama zomwe zinapangitsa kuti mbuye wa mwamuna wake abwere kunyumba kwawo.
Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti kwenikweni wokondedwa ali mu vuto lalikulu kuposa momwe iwe ulili mkazi woyenerera. Muloleni iye awone loto, azikhala ndi chakudya chake chamadzulo ndi madzulo, nthawizina ngakhale usiku. Mulole kuti azikhala naye limodzi kumabwalo a usiku, m'malesitilanti, koma maholide onse a pabanja, omwe nthawi zambiri anthu amakhala ndi achibale awo ndi anthu apafupi, amatha yekha, podzikweza.
Tangoganizani za momwe wokondeka sangathe kukonda ndi kusasamala, komabe ngakhale kudana ndi mkazi yemwe mwamuna wake amakhala naye nthawi ndi nthawi, mwamunayo abwererenso! Inde, ngati atayamba mbuye, zikutanthauza kuti ali bwino naye, koma ngati abwera kunyumba, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti apite kunyumba, chifukwa banja lake likumuyembekezera. Mkazi - uwu ndi njira ina yokha kuti amuna azikhala osangalala komanso osangalala.
Inde, chokhumba chachikulu cha ambuye ndi kubwezera. Inde, anasankha kusiya kusangalala kwanu, koma alibe ufulu wochita zimenezo. Koma mulimonsemo, amadzimva kukhala wokhutira.
Ntchito yanu yayikulu sichiyenera kuchitika pa zokhumudwitsa zomwe wokondedwa wanu wakukonzerani. Pambuyo pa izi, izi zakhala zikuchitika pakali pano, khadi lanu lofunika kwambiri ndilo kunyada kwanu. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira kuti siinu mzimayi wakale, muli ndi malamulo ambiri - ndinu chinthu chogonana, ndinu mayi wa ana omwe munabadwa ndi mwamuna wanu.
Simukusowa kulingalira za kuyesa kusunga munthu, ngati atasankha kuchoka iwe, makamaka musayese kukonza zojambulajambula ndi zojambulazo, khalani pamodzi ndikuyankhula naye mwakachetechete, popanda chiyeso, mupeze chifukwa chimene mkazi watsopano anawonekera m'moyo wake . Mwina izi ndizovuta kuthetsa, zomwe mungathe kuthandizira.
Palibe chifukwa chofunira msonkhano ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wake, samudziwa yemwe ali, zomwe akuchita, kumene amagwira ntchito, musayesere kupita mwa iye. Mulole kuti aganize kuti ulendo wake wasiya moyo wanu wa banja, musiyeni akhale otsimikiza kuti simusamala konse ndipo mumatha kusunga mwamuna wanu.
Musadzipangire nokha mphamvu zolakwika zimene mwapeza, musadzibwerere, yesani kuziponya. Ngati mukufuna, mukhoza kulemba karate kapena sambo, yambani kuchita zinthu zomwe simunakhale nayo nthawi yokwanira, kapena zomwe munalota. Lolani zolakwika zipite, ndipo malo awa adzadzazidwa ndi mphamvu zabwino, malingaliro abwino, omwe mulimonsemo adzakupatsani mwayi.