Kudziwa makolo ake momwe angakhalire komanso zomwe ayenera kuchita

Tsiku lina, mnyamata wanu akukuuzani kuti akufuna kukuuzani amayi ake? Inu mumadabwa ndi kutembenuka kwa zochitikazi, mukuyamba kufotokoza momwe mungachokere ku msonkhano uno, thukuta lakuda limapezeka pamphumi panu. Mutu mwanu pali ndondomeko yochenjera yomwe mungachoke mumzindawu kumapeto kwa sabata, kutentha ndi zina zotero, kuti musadziwe bwino makolo ake! Khala pansi. Choyamba, ngati mnyamata akukudziwitsani kwa amayi ake, zikutanthauza kuti ali ndi zolinga zenizeni, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti munthu sangathe kuchoka pa chidziwitso. Ndimapereka malingaliro angapo a momwe mungasinthire ku zabwino komanso ngati mayi wa mnyamata, ndipo mwinamwake mpongozi wake wam'tsogolo.

Mulimonsemo, musakane kukomana. Kwa mnyamata, izi zingakhale zofunikira kwambiri. Ndikofunika kuti muzigwirizana ndikukondana. Muuzeni kuti thandizo lake ndi lofunika kwa inu, pambuyo pake, simudziwa "amayi" tsiku lililonse. Siyani kutsutsa ndi kukambirana zolephera za nkhope yanu kapena kuwerengera nthawi ina. Kuchita izo pa njira yopita ku msonkhano ndi amayi ake ndizolakwika.

Konzani nokha.

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Sankhani mwamphamvu, koma kavalidwe kapena suti yamakono. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kuti mukhale omasuka, ndipo mumakhala otsimikiza. Musamabvala zibangili zambiri kapena zodzikongoletsera - ndizolakwika.

Funsani msinkhu kuchokera kwa mnyamata wanu zimene simungathe kuyankhula ndi amayi ake kapena makolo ake. Pamisonkhano, chitani mwachibadwa. Musanene zambiri, musamamwetulire monga choncho, ndipo musadzipangire nokha "nun." Kulankhulana momwe mumayankhulirana ndi makolo anu, mlongo wanu wamkulu. Musagwiritse ntchito "slang achinyamata" ndi mawu osiyanasiyana omwe mumalankhulana nawo ku Odnoklassniki kapena VKontakte.

Ngati mupita kukachezera mnyamata, musamukakamize ndi kumpsompsona mukakumana. Kukhudza zovuta masaya kudzakhala kokwanira. Modzidzimutsa malamulo ake a amayi okhazikika?

Msonkhano.

Mwinamwake chochitika chabwino kwambiri pa msonkhano woyamba ndi amayi a mnyamatayo chidzakhala kukambirana za ubwana wanu. Amayi onse amakonda kulankhula za ubwana wa ana awo aamuna ndi aakazi. Onetsani ma Album kapena mavidiyo. Inunso mungathe kufotokozera pang'ono za ubwana wanu ndi nkhani zozizwitsa zimene zakuchitikirani. Tiuzeni za zosangalatsa zanu kapena ntchito, phunziro.

Amayi ndi osiyana kwambiri. Chifukwa cha chikondi chachikulu kwa mwana wake komanso kutsimikiza kuti palibe mtsikana aliyense padziko lapansi amene ali woyenera kukhala ndi mwana wake, ambiri a iwo amafunsa mafunso enieni.

Ngati zokambirana zanu zimakuyenderani bwino, yesetsani kusintha nkhaniyi. Mulimonsemo, musakhale achisoni ndipo musazengereze. Izi, mwachoncho, ndi zosayenera. Pa zovuta kwambiri, simungakonde amayi a amayi anu.

Onetsetsani kuti mukuthandizira makolo kapena mayi wa mnyamata kuti ndi okhwima ndi okongola m'nyumba zawo. Yesetsani kufunsa momwe mungasamalire zomera kapena kuphika pie wabwino kwambiri. Ngati pali zinyama, mukhoza kufunsa mtundu wake, zizoloŵezi. Mwa mawu, yesetsani kumasulira zokambirana kukhala njira yosangalatsa ya mayi wa mnyamata. Kotero iwe umadziwonetsa wekha ngati msungwana wokoma ndi wanzeru.

Zolinga zazikulu.

Msonkhano woyamba ndi banja la mnyamatayo unatsalira. Munali ndi madzulo abwino kwambiri, mukukambirana nkhani zosiyanasiyana, kodi mukuganiza kuti munachita bwino? Chabwino, tsopano ndi bwino kulingalira za zolinga zanu za chibwenzi chanu. Ngati mumakuwonani pamodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, kapena zambiri, ganizirani za ukwati, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti mupitirizebe kukhala paubwenzi ndi amayi ake.

Sonyezani kuti ndinu mkazi wabwino wa nyumba ndipo mukhoza kusamalira mwana wake. Mumupatse mkate wophikidwa ndi manja anu. Kapena nsalu yofiira. Ngati munapita kwa dacha pamodzi, perekani thandizo lanu kuphika chakudya kapena kutsuka mbale.

Kunyenga ndi chida chachikulu cha mafumu, komanso anu. Nthawi zonse mukuti "zikomo", "madzulo masana", "chonde pita". Ngati mupempha malingaliro anu za nyumbayo, za m'munda, nkhaka zowonongeka, kulowa kwa dzuwa kwa amayi anga, aliyense ayenera kutamandidwa. Komabe, nthawi zonse "podlizyvatsya" sizothandiza. Ngati muli ndi maganizo osiyana, fotokozerani, pang'onopang'ono. Lolani apongozi anu amtsogolo adziwe kuti muli ndi maganizo anuawo.

Za mnyamata wanu amalankhula zabwino zokha. Kusagwirizana kwanu mkati sikuli kwa makutu a amayi ake, abambo, m'bale, mlongo. Musati muwonetse khalidwe la "alendo" kwa mnyamata. Aliyense ndikumvetsa bwino kuti muli pamodzi.

Mosasamala kanthu za zotsatira za msonkhano ndi amayi a mnyamata, dziwani kuti mumakumana, osati inuyo ndi makolo ake. Iye ndiye amene anakusankhani inu, ndipo zilakolako zake ziyenera kulemekezedwa ndi makolo ake.