Pa chiyero cha chikondi cha "misfire" pa kudzidalira, amuna, komabe, ndi akazi, nawonso, ali ovuta. Zomwe mungachite ngati palibe erection, kapena kodi imatha posangoyamba kugonana? Kodi ndi bwino kuika chizindikiro chofanana pakati pa mawu akuti "palibe erection", "palibe chikhumbo", komanso "palibe chikondi"?
Nchifukwa chiyani mwamuna amasiya chilakolako?
Okhulupirira za kugonana ali otsimikiza kuti peresenti 99 pokhapokha kukhala opanda eti sikutanthauza kuti wokondedwayo mwathupi, komanso m'maganizo, sanasangalatse mnzakeyo. Chifukwa chake ndi chakuti chikhumbo cha munthu chiri chovuta kwambiri. Taonani zina mwazimene zimachepetsa mphamvu.
Izi ndi matenda a mahomoni; Matenda, matenda oopsa a mtundu wina; mavuto m'banja (makamaka makamaka mu ubale ndi mnzanuyo) kapena kuntchito; kumwa mankhwala ena, komanso neuroses, kupanikizika, kupanikizika, kutopa; njira yolakwika ya moyo, mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zizolowezi zoipa; Kukonzekera ndi chikhumbo chochita chirichonse mwangwiro mu masewera achikondi ndi mnzanuyo, zomwe zimayambitsa kukangana kwambiri kwa munthuyo.
Mu ubale, udindo wa amayi ndi wovuta kuchepetsa, makamaka ngati munthu akukwera pambali yovuta. Komabe, ngakhale zokongola kwambiri zokhazokha zomwe zimayenera kukhala mabomba a kugonana zingawonongeke mosavuta zokhumba zawo, zomwe zikukumana ndi vuto ngati vuto lachimuna kapena losowa. Kulakwitsa kwakukulu kwa amayi ambiri ndikuti nthawi yomweyo amayamba kulakwitsa izi. Mwachitsanzo, "Iye safunanso ine: ndikuwoneka moyipa!". Angathe kumudzudzula munthuyo - "Iye safunanso ine: adzipeza yekha!". Kodi njira yabwino yothetsera vutoli ndi chiyani, kuthandiza mnzanuyo?
Kodi mungathetse bwanji vutoli?
Ogwirizanitsa za chithandizo cha kugonana ali otsimikiza kuti zopanda pake ndi mphamvu zingathe kuchitika nthawi zina amuna abwino, ngakhale osangalala, awiriwa. Ndipo ngati ubale wanu umatha chaka chimodzi kapena kuposerapo, thupi la munthu wanu liri ndi thupi lathunthu kuti mupume pang'ono, ndipo ndi bwino kuti mutenge mwatcheru.
Pamene "misfire" ikuchitika pokhapokha, musawopsyeze ndipo musakonze ngodya. Sikofunika kulemba wokondedwayo ngati mawonekedwe a "mafilimu" a kugonana, komanso ndi mtengo woletsedwa kwa mphindi 40 zokambirana, kapena kugula mankhwala osakwanira omwe salivomerezedwe kuti apititse patsogolo mphamvu ya munthu. Simungathe kutenga ndalamazo mosalephera, ndipo ngakhale zitagulitsidwa popanda mankhwala, mwinamwake pali chiopsezo chosawongolera, koma kuipitsa vutoli. Ngati mavuto a munthu ndi erection ndi ozolowereka, m'pofunika kusafulumira kugwiritsa ntchito katswiri kuti adziwe ndi kuthetsa chifukwa cha matendawa. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti ndibwino kuti tisakambirane za thanzi labwino lomwe ali nalo ndi akazi ogwirizana, ngakhale ali mlongo, amayi kapena atsikana.
Tingawononge bwanji mkhalidwewu, kumuthandiza munthu wokondedwa, ngati akadakhala muzochitika zoterezi? Mu zida za amai muli zinsinsi zotere. Gwiritsani ntchito mfundo zotsatirazi. Uku ndikulankhulana chete, kwinsinsi. Khulupirirani mwamuna wanu kuti simukuwona vuto mu zomwe zinachitika; kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kumvetsera pamlomo, kukhumba kukhumba; pulogalamu yapanyumba yapanyumba - mwachitsanzo, kusambira ndi mafuta onunkhira awiri, kapena kupuma kosalala komwe kungasokoneze.
Imeneyi ndi chakudya chopatsa thanzi chomwe chimalimbitsa mphamvu za amuna: mandnuts, nkhono, uchi, mafuta ofiira otsika kwambiri, nsomba, mazira, nsomba yophika, mkaka wowawasa, masamba, masamba, zipatso, ndi mkate wodula m'magawo a tsiku ndi tsiku ayenera kukhala ovomerezeka.
Ngati n'kotheka, ndi bwino kukonzekera madzulo kumapeto kwa ntchito, sabata la mnzanuyo kuti apumule zambiri, osati pamaso pa TV yosungidwa m'makoma anayi, komanso molimbika, mwachitsanzo, m'chilengedwe, mu kampani yolimbitsa thupi, mu sauna kapena pa dacha.
Kusakhalitsa kosakhalitsa kwa erection kwa munthu kukondana kwenikweni, anthu omwe ali pachiyanjano chamkati, kudalira ndi kumvetsetsa sivuta. Chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndikutenga mwatcheru, kusokoneza masewero, ndi kuyesa kuthandiza mwamuna wanu kukonza.