N'zosatheka kulingalira ukwati wosangalala popanda kulemekeza okwatirana. Walumbirira kuti uzungulira nthawi iliyonse mu moyo wa banja lanu mpaka ukalamba. Ngati palibe kulemekeza zochita za munthu, chifukwa cha zizoloŵezi zake, ndiye, ukwati sukhalitsa. Sintha mkhalidwe! Phunzirani kulemekezana.
Lingaliro lanu
Ndikofunika kukhala ndi maganizo pazovuta zilizonse. Banja lachimwemwe limatheka kuti anthu okwatirana aziganizira zofuna za wina ndi mzake. Iwo amabwera ku chiyanjano ndikupeza yankho lodziwika la mafunso aliwonse omwe amakwaniritsa zonse ziwiri. Mtsutsano wathanzi, choonadi chobadwa. Yang'anizani bwino zonse zomwe zimapindulitsa komanso zopweteka. Kulera, kulera, kugula kwakukulu, kusamukira kumzinda wina, kusintha ntchito, ndi zinthu zina zambiri zomwe zimawonekera pamsewu wokhala pamodzi zimayenera kuthandizidwa palimodzi. Aliyense wa inu ayenera kufotokoza maganizo anu, ndipo palimodzi mudzafika pa chisankho choyenera.
Kugonana.
Banja losangalala silingatheke popanda kugonana. Kupanga chikondi kumabweretsa anthu pafupi, kumawapangitsa kukhala oyandikana. Zogonana zosiyana, zoyesera, masewero owonetsera masewera olimbitsa thupi zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi chidwi chogonana onse awiri. Kumbukirani, palibe zoletsedwa ndi zinthu "zosaloledwa" pabedi, ngati zonsezi monga choncho.
Pang'onopang'ono, patatha zaka zambiri mutakhala pamodzi, chilakolako chanu chogonana chikhoza kulowa pansi kapena kuphompho. Musaphonye mphindi ino! Chitanipo kanthu kuti mukhale ndi moyo wa kugonana awiriawiri. Lankhulani ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu zomwe akufuna, kodi ndemanga zotani zokhudza khalidwe lanu pabedi, ndi malingaliro otani omwe mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu akuyendera. Kulankhulana momveka bwino kudzakuthandizani kukhala ndi chilakolako chogonana kwa nthawi yayitali kuposa ngati mutachilola. Musapange cholakwika chotero.
Zosangalatsa zabwino.
Lembani moyo wanu wa banja ndi zosangalatsa zabwino: kumwetulira, zokambirana zokondweretsa, mpumulo wophatikizana, mphatso zazing'ono, chakudya chamakono. Tengani nthawi ziwiri ngati mulibe ana, anzanu ndi achibale pafupi. Kodi ndi liti pamene nthawi iwiri mudali pamodzi? Ndinangoyankhula kapena kuyang'ana limodzi pa nyenyezi, ndikuyendayenda pakiyi? Kumbukirani momwe zinalili pachiyambi cha ubale wanu. Bwerezani zochita zamisala. Zonsezi zidzakuthandizani kuti muyandikire kwa mnzanu, kuti mubwezeretsenso moto wa chilakolako ndi chikhumbo.
Thandizo.
Moyo wachimwemwe m'banja sungatheke popanda kuthandizana. Ngati mmodzi wa inu ali ndi mavuto kuntchito, achibale akudwala, kapena vuto lina lililonse, musatengeke. Ziri zovuta kudutsa muzovuta zosiyana pamodzi. Kwa munthu aliyense nkofunika kudziwa kuti anthu omwe akugwira nawo amachitira chifundo, alangizi, ndi kuwaletsa. Ubale wotere pakati pa makolo udzakhala chitsanzo chabwino kwa ana. Maphunziro abwino amathandiza mwana wanu kukhala munthu weniweni, kulemekeza makhalidwe abwino ndi banja.
Kunena zoona.
Kambiranani ndi mwamuna wanu mavuto anu onse, kugawana zomwe mwakumana nazo, mvetserani maganizo ake. Sikoyenera kubisa chirichonse, makamaka, kuti amunyenge mkaziyo. Posakhalitsa zinthu zonse zidzatha, padzakhala chonyansa, chifukwa cha zomwe mudzadzimva kuti ndinu wolakwa, ndipo mwamuna - anakhumudwitsidwa. Moyo wachimwemwe m'banja umadalira kukhulupirirana ndi kukambirana nkhani zonse poyera. Kuli bwino choonadi chowawa kuposa bodza lokoma - lamulo la golide la moyo wabwino wa banja.
Banja ndi lanu basi.
Sikoyenera kuyanjana ndi achibale anu, mabwenzi anu, anzanu m'mabvuto anu. Mavuto a m'banja lanu ndi kusamvetsetsana komwe mungathe kuthetsa palimodzi, popanda kuphatikizapo wina aliyense. Musamuuze aliyense za moyo wanu wa banja. Nthawi zambiri anthu amadana ndi chimwemwe, kusokoneza miseche, kukwera ndi uphungu wawo. Zomwe zikuchitika m'makoma a nyumba yanu sizinapangidwe makutu ndi maso a anthu ena.