Khalani bwino
Kamodzi pachaka, muyenera kusintha foni, zaka zisanu zilizonse-galimoto, miyezi itatu iliyonse kuti muzisintha zovalazo. Tchuthi liyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito m'mahotela abwino kwambiri ku Ulaya. Crimea ndi Turkey - chifukwa chotayika, dacha kawirikawiri sichimalire malire. Zonse malinga ndi zida zamakono za "munthu wopambana". Mfundo zothandiza zenizenizi sizinatero. Koma, ngakhale zovutazo, "makina opangira ubongo" akupitirizabe kugwira ntchito mwamphamvu. Zithunzi zojambula bwino zomwe zimapangitsa anthu kukhala ogula, zimakakamiza kugula, kugula, kugula - sizilibe kanthu ngati zinthu zina ndizofunikira ndipo, makamaka, zingakwanitse. Komabe, osati kale kwambiri kunakhala koonekeratu: ndizosatheka kuthera zambiri. Kuti mukhale ndi moyo womwewo, muyenera kugwira ntchito popanda kugona ndi kupumula. Ngakhale izi sizikutanthauza kuti ndizoyenera kuti ndizofunikira ku gulu la ogulitsa. Choncho, kudandaula, makompyuta ndi kudzipatulira kwathunthu pamaso pa mavuto azachuma.
Kodi mukufuna chiyani?
Chodziwika bwino "ogula nsomba" (chida cha katundu ndi ntchito zomwe ziri zofunika kwambiri kuti zikwaniritse zosowa zaumunthu, zomwe zimakhazikitsidwa ndi boma), zindikirani, sizikuphatikizapo zokoma, zinthu zamtengo wapatali ndi zakumwa zoledzeretsa. Komanso, zovala, nsapato ndi zinthu zina zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi yaitali zimakhala zosinthidwa malinga ndi nthawi yomwe chinthucho chimakhala chosokonekera, osati mwa mafashoni chabe. Inde, kukhalapo kwa mndandanda wotere sikuli chifukwa chothandizira kupereka mzimayi umodzi kwa zaka zisanu. Koma kuyesa kumvetsetsa kusiyana pakati pa "Ine ndikufuna" ndi "kotero kuvomerezedwa" sikungakhale kosasangalatsa. Chuma sichoncho. Ngakhale anthu olemera kwambiri akusowa ndalama - ngakhale pachilumba chawo, koma choonadicho chimakhalabe. Kukhala ndi chirichonse ndizosatheka. Zogula sizingapereke chimwemwe. Chotukuka chovala chodziwika bwino, chovala chojambula, galimoto yokhala ndi akavalo miliyoni miliyoni ikhoza kubweretsa chimwemwe chokhazikika, kusangalala. Izi ndizomwezi. Kodi sizowona mtengo kuti munagula kulipira zinthu zazing'ono izi? Anthu onse ndi osiyana, ndipo palibe maphikidwe apadziko lonse. Kudzinenera kuti mungakonde misala pa malo awa, otsatsa malonda amatsutsa Mulungu - pambuyo pake, simunakhalepo, ndipo palibe chifukwa chochotsera. Aliyense - ake ake, ndipo musalole kudzidula nokha pansi pa chisa chimodzi, ngakhale ndi dziko lonse lapansi. Dzifunseni mafunso, kukayikira kufunika kogula. Ngati mutapeza yankho kwa iwo, mutha ... kukana mosamala kugula. Chikhumbo chenicheni sichinthu chosavuta. Musaiwale za zomwe zimatchedwa kulipira. Aliyense amayendetsa magalimoto, ndipo iwe uli pa sitima yapansi panthaka? Koma musayime pamsewu wa magalimoto. Mwamuna aliyense ndi mamilioni, koma sichoncho? Koma ndinu wapadera ndipo ndi wapadera kwa iye.
Musawope!
Kutaya, kusungidwa kwa ndalama, kuchepa pa umoyo wabwino - zochitika sizosangalatsa. Komabe, palibe zifukwa zomveka zopangira mantha kapena mantha. Kusakayikira zamtsogolo si nkhani kwa Chiyukireniya. Vuto, nthawi ina iliyonse ya perestroika, ndiyo, choyamba, kuwonongedwa kwa njira yamoyo. Musawope. Izi, monga chikhalidwe china chirichonse, ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito! Sitiopa nyengo yozizira, koma timabvala zovala zokongola ndi zakumwa; Sitiopa mvula, tangotsanulirani kapu ya tiyi, titenge buku losangalatsa ndikusangalala ndi nthawi yomwe ili mfulu. Choyamba, ganizirani - mungagwiritse ntchito bwanji zinthu zomwe mukufuna? Pankhaniyi, zilakolako zanu zaubwana zingakuthandizeni - kumbukirani amene mukufuna kukhala mwana? Mwina ndikuyesera? The psyche ya amayi ambiri, mwachisangalalo, sizimasiyana ndi kuwonjezeka kolimba. Izi zimatithandiza kuti tithane ndi zovuta zomwe zimayambitsa kusintha. Komabe, popanda zolinga zokwanira, kusintha kwa kakhadina kungakhale kovuta kwambiri. Timapereka njira zisanu zenizeni zopewa mantha pamene kusintha kwakukulu. Kumbutsani mndandanda wa zifukwa zonse zomwe zinakuchititsani kusintha moyo wanu. Musaiwale komanso kuti kusintha sikungokhala mankhwala abwino kwambiri okhudzidwa ndi ulesi, komanso ndondomeko yopita patsogolo! Konzani pafupi posachedwapa. Anthu okonzekera ndi oyendayenda amakhala osavuta kutsanulira mmoyo watsopano. Kusintha kosinthika kumataya theka la nkhawa. Konzekerani kukumana ndi "chisangalalo": kumbukirani zolakwa zonse za moyo wanu wakale. Kusintha malo a ntchito, gawo la ntchito, njira ya moyo, mosakayikira mudzapeza zotsatira za "flashback". Maganizo odzetsa nkhaŵa adzakupatsani mitu ndi zithunzi zomwe zimayenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito kale, kupuma, ndi nthawi zina kulira. Panthawi yofooka, "chotsani ndodo zanu". Kumbukirani - sizinali zowala kwambiri! Pakutali chirichonse chimawoneka chokongola kwambiri kusiyana ndi kuchokera patali, musalole kukhumudwa kwanu. Konzani mavuto pamene akufika. Mu moyo wanu watsopano, poyamba mosakayikira padzakhala zinthu zina zosokoneza ndi zokhumudwitsa. Pogwiritsa ntchito mfundo yotchuka ya a Miss O'Hara "Ndidzaganiza za mawa mawa," musamachite mantha ndi kuyesa kulingalira momwe zinthu zidzakhalire zovuta, posankha kuti cardinal idzasinthe. Musamangidwe pa zofuna zanu zakale. Kutaya ntchitoyi, ife tikusowa "karoti wokoma" yomwe kampani ndi gulu linakhala patsogolo pathu. Anali pansi pa chikoka chawo kuti mumaganiza kuti ndibwino kukhala ngati wolemba malipoti Mary Bath, omwe amachepetsa malire kwa theka la ora ndipo wakhala akugwira ntchito pamalo amodzi kwa zaka 40. Tsopano muzisankha zabwino ndi zoipa. Choncho sankhani mafano atsopano!
Musamvetsetse ine nkomwe ...
Vuto ndilo, choyamba, chiwonongeko cha njira yamoyo. Musawope! Monga chikhalidwe chilichonse chofunikiratu, icho chikungoyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito! Kuti musinthe moyo wanu, muyenera kupita kutali, wodzala ndi zopinga ndi kukana, kuphatikizapo anthu oyandikana nawo. Kodi mungafotokoze bwanji kuti ndinu wosiyana tsopano? Pali njira zingapo zomwe zimayesetseratu nthawi yomwe zingakuthandizeni kuchita "pike" yotereyi popanda kutayika konse. Konzani njira zobwerera. Chinthu chachikulu chimene okondedwa anu amaopa ndizolakwitsa. Bwanji ngati mutasintha moyo wanu umakhala woipa kwambiri? Adziwitseni za mapulani anu onse osungirako zinthu. Sizomwe zimapangitsa kuti zinthu zisinthe. Lankhulani zambiri ndi banja lanu. Fotokozani zifukwa za zochita zanu, kutchula momveka bwino zochitika zonse zomwe zakupangitsani kusankha pa zochitika zowopsya, mwinamwake, mosayembekezereka. Onetsani kukhala chete ndi kudzipereka kwanu. Pezani mamembala kuti azilemekeza ziganizo zanu. Polimbana ndi zotsatira za vutoli, tikupanga dongosolo latsopano labwino. Imeneyi ndiyo nthawi yabwino yokhala ndi munthu.