Akatswiri a zamaganizo amamasulira ubale monga mtundu wapamtima pakati pa anthu. Ubwenzi umachokera ku chisankho chaufulu, chifukwa palibe "ubwenzi wosaganizira". Poyambirira, bwenzi lapamtima la mwanayo ndi mayi. Kenaka mwanayo amalankhulana ndi anthu ena. Pafupi zaka zisanu palifunika kwa bwenzi lapamtima. Ndili ndi zaka 14, ine ndi mnzanga tinalankhula kwa masiku ambiri kuti makolo athu asamve, anyamatawo adabwera ndi akazi achikazi. Uchiyanjano wa achinyamata ndi mawonekedwe a psychotherapy, imapeza chitsimikizo chakuti wina akugawana chiyembekezo, mantha, kukayikira.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti abwenzi ndi ukalamba adzakhala wofunikira kwa ife, pamene ntchito zonse zapamwamba zatumizidwa, ana amakula. Ubwenzi wa azimayi udzakhalabe mpaka mapeto, ngati akuyenera, ndiye kuti udzakhalapo.
Ubwenzi wachinyamata.
Ubwenzi wa ophunzira ndi sukulu ulibe udindo wapadera kwa zaka zambiri. Mudziko lathu izo zimaganiziridwa, ngati mulibe anthu apamtima mu uzimu wanu, ndiye kuti mwaphonya mwayi wanu. Ndiko kupambana kwakukulu ngati ubwenzi ndi anzako sukulu watetezedwa ndi nthawi. Koma ngati njira zasudzulana, sizikutanthauza kuti simukusowa kuyang'ana anzanu atsopano. Kwa zaka zambiri, mumasintha, chilengedwe chanu chimasintha.
Maganizo a munthu wamkulu kukhala bwenzi.
Munthu wamkulu amachitira bwino maubwenzi aumunthu, ndipo alowetsa mwaubwenzi. Simukuyenera kutsimikiza nokha kufunika kwake, mukudziwa zomwe mungakonde. Ubwenzi wachikulire ndi ubale wa kuthandizana. Apa pali gawo lina la kutsutsa ndilofunika ndipo limaloledwa. Ndipo kudziwona nokha kuchokera kumbali ya munthu wokhwima ndi wokonzeka ku chibwenzi chake kumva zina osati zinthu zokondweretsa. Anthu kwa zaka zambiri amakhala okhwima komanso osangalatsa. Tsopano tikumvetsa zomwe titha kubwezeretsa ndikuzilandira kuchokera kulankhulana. Nthawi zina kugwirizanitsa kwa akuluakulu kungatenge zaka zambiri. Zitha kuchitika kuti anthu omwe sakondana wina ndi mnzake akhoza kukhala mabwenzi, ndipo ndi zophweka, potsirizira pake, anthu awiriwa amakumana.
Momwe mungapezere bwenzi.
Mnzanga ndi munthu yemwe amakhalapo nthawi zonse. Mnansi pa chipinda cha hotelo paulendo wa bizinesi, wokhala naye panyumba, ndicho chofunikira chokhazikitsira mgwirizano. Chifukwa chodziŵira mwina chingakhale pafupi. Muyenera kuyesa kukhala mabwenzi ndi anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi inu, ngakhale sakudziwa zomwe cappuccino zimasiyana ndi ristretto, ndipo ngakhale sakuyang'ana ma TV omwe mumakonda. Tiyenera kuchitira ubwenzi ngati njira, osati monga momwe zilili. Kuti mugawane malingaliro atsopano, kuti mukhale palimodzi palimodzi. Kuleza mtima, nthawi, zomwe zimagwirizanitsa ndizofunikira kupeza ubwenzi weniweni.
Munthu amene ali ndi abwenzi, amakhala wolimba kwambiri kuposa kutsekedwa komanso kusungulumwa. Zomwe zinachitikira zochitika zina sizowopsya pakati pa anthu oyandikana nawo. Ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya ndi zaumwini, mavuto azachuma kapena matenda.
Ubwenzi ndi wofunikira kwa munthu .
Ziri zophweka komanso zosavuta kukhala padziko lapansi ngati muli ndi abwenzi angapo omwe adzatsegule zitseko kwa inu nthawi iliyonse, kulikonse ndi zomwe zikuchitika, adzakusamalirani. Ubwenzi ndiwothandiza kwambiri pa thanzi. Amene ali ndi abwenzi, amakhalitsa nthawi yaitali, amachira mofulumira kuvulala, ku chimfine. Zindikirani maubwenzi kuti thupi la munthu likhale lamphamvu polimbana ndi chifuwa chachikulu kapena khansa. Ubwenzi wachikazi umatchedwa "ubale wosayanjanitsika", ndipo ndife abwenzi abwino kwambiri kuposa amuna. Choncho amayi amasiye amakhala osachepera akazi omwe ataya amuna awo, ali ndi matenda osiyanasiyana. Osati chifukwa chakuti sakudziwa kuphika bwino, iwo ndi ochezeka kwambiri.
Pomaliza, mungathe kudziwa momwe mungapezere bwenzi lenileni. Tsatirani malangizo ndi malangizowo ndipo mutha kupeza bwenzi lolondola.