Iye anayankha kuti: "Sindikufuna kukhala ndi moyo popanda iyeyo."
"Koma iye sali woyenera chala chako chaching'ono, chifukwa chiyani iye ayenera kuchititsidwa manyazi kwambiri?" Akuumiriza choyamba chake.
"Koma ndili bwanji tsopano, sindikusowa aliyense" ...
Kulankhulana kotere pakati pa atsikana awiri omwe ndamvapo posachedwapa, ndipo izi zinandichititsa kufotokoza. Inde, nchiani chomwe chimatipanga ife aang'ono ndi okongola - kudzichepetsera tokha pamaso pa izi kapena munthu uyu, ndipo pali liti pakati pa kudzichepetsa ndi chikhumbo choyambirira kuti akhalebe pachibwenzi? Mtsikana akadzichepetsa yekha mu chibwenzi?Nthawi zambiri, mzerewu ndi wosiyana kwa aliyense. Msungwana wina ali wokonzekera chirichonse kwa wokondedwa wake. Adzapempha chikhululuko, ndikudzimva ngati ali ndi mlandu kapena ayi. Pazitsutso zosafunika kwenikweni, iye apepesa, pemphani kuti amukhululukire, amachoka pa foni ya wokondedwa wake, amawasamba ndi mauthenga a SMS ndi pempho la chikhululuko. Kuchokera kwa atsikana a mtsikana wotero, ndithudi, ziwoneka ngati manyazi chifukwa cha ulemu wake. Iwo amamulepheretsa kuitana koyandikira ndi kuchokera ku chikhumbo chochepa chokumana ndi kukambirana.
Msungwana wina, samangoyamba kuyitana ndikusankha misonkhano, samangoyamba kuvomereza chikondi, ndipo chirichonse padziko lapansi sichipempha chikhululukiro, ngakhale ngati chiri cholakwa. Amakhulupirira kuti zonse zomwe zili pamwambazi zili ndi ulemu wake komanso kuti zimamuchititsa manyazi, ngati mtsikana, pachibwenzi.
Anthu onse ndi osiyana, ndi maonekedwe awo, ndi malingaliro awo ndi kumvetsa kwawo za kulondola kwa izi kapena zomwe amachita mu ubale ndi wokondedwa. Ngakhale izi, pa zochitika zina za moyo, komabe, ambiri amakhoza kuchita mofanana mofanana.
Choyamba, mtsikana akamamukonda, amamusamalira kwambiri. Ambiri samakonda izo, ndipo atsikana ambiri amaona khalidwe limeneli la bwenzi kapena manyazi omwe amadziwika nawo.
Chachiwiri, ngati mwamunayo atasankha kuchoka ndi mtsikanayo, ndiye kuti ena sangagwirizanane ndi izi ndikuyamba kumangokhalira kukonda munthu amene kale anali kumukonda. Nthawi zonse kuyesera kubwezeretsa, kukopa kapena kuopseza chinachake. Kwa atsikana ambiri, khalidweli silovomerezeka, "chifukwa - izi ndizochititsa manyazi!" - adzanena. Mwa njira, sikuti nthawi zonse zimakhala zosangalatsa kwa anyamata (ngakhale nthawi zina ndizo kudzidalira kwawo), nthawi zambiri zimangotentha.
Chachitatu, ngati panali mkangano. Atsikana ambiri sangafanane nazo poyamba, akuwona kuti ndizochititsa manyazi. Ngakhale pano ndizotheka ndi kukangana. Malingana ndi yemwe ali wolondola ndi yemwe ali ndi mlandu, ndi kuwonetsa mkhalidwe mwanzeru, n'zotheka kuwonjezera chidziwitso, ndipo izi sizingatengedwe kukhala zochititsa manyazi, zidzatengedwa kuti kusunga mtendere mu chiyanjano. Ngakhale pano, nanunso, muyenera kumamatira ku golidi, chifukwa kutambasula dzanja lanu nthawi zambiri, mumatha kudzidzimutsa nokha, ndipo mumadzichepetsa, ndikupempha chikhululukiro cha chinthu chomwe sichiri cholakwa. Yesetsani kuti musalole kuti mtsikana azidzipweteka yekha.
Chachinayi, pali nthawi pamene mnyamata amakumana ndi atsikana awiri (mwinamwake) nthawi yomweyo. Ndipo ngati mmodzi wa atsikana awa amadziwa za izi ndikupitiriza kusunga maubwenzi, ndiye izi ndizonyozetsanso, ndipo zikhoza kunenedwa, ziwiri. Kumbali imodzi, iye amanyozedwa ndi mnyamata, pamzake iye mwiniwake. Pambuyo pa zonse, kudzipereka, kudzipatulira ndi chiyero, chikondi chosadziwika sichinachotsedwe.
Kumapeto ... Pamene msungwana amadzichepetsa yekha , sakulemekeza ndipo samadzikonda yekha. Chifukwa chodzichepetsa muukwati, msungwana nthawi zambiri amakankhidwa ndi mantha a kukhala yekha, poopa kuti sakusowa wina aliyense kupatula iye . Zolingalira zoterozo ndi zolakwika, chifukwa ngati mtsikana ali ndi kudzilemekeza yekha, amakhala ndi chidaliro mwa iyemwini ndipo amadzidziwa yekha mtengo, samalola kuti mantha aliwonse amupangitse kupita kumanyazi, kupereka nsembe zake, kudzikuza kwake.