Musanene kuti akukuwonani, mosakayikira, mwina sakayikira kuti mulipo, kuti mwakhala ndi mwana wawo wokondedwa kwa miyezi ingapo, ngakhale kwa zaka zambiri, mukukonzekera chakudya cham'mawa, kuchapa, kuchiyeretsa ndi kulimbana nacho iye ankagonana, ndipo mwina si. Koma simungamve kanthu khungu lanu, posachedwa, ndikudziwana ndi makolo. Zimamveka ngati muli mumaseŵera a ku America. Pankhaniyi, zimadalira munthuyo. Ndi mkwati amene ayenera kukonzekera kukambirana, awiri ndi mkwatibwi ndi makolo.
Pa zokambiranazi, mwamunayo ayenera kuuza mkwatibwi momwe angadziwire bwino makolo a mkwatibwi. Popeza ndi makolo ake omwe adzamvetsera kwambiri wosankhidwa ake. Ayenera kumuuza mtsikanayo kuti apongozi a mtsogolo azitenga ufa pamaso panu, milomo yofiira pamilomo ndi zina zotero. Ngati ndinu wamisala za osankhidwa anu, ndiye kuti mudzapulumuka ndipo simudzadzipereka nsembe iliyonse. M'masiku athu ano, vuto lofunika kwambiri kwa makolo ndi: kaya mtsikana amasuta, zakumwa, amagwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo, ndi banja labwino, ndi ena ali ndi mzimu womwewo. Momwe mungadziŵe bwino makolo a mkwati ndi mutu wamuyaya wokambirana. Njira yabwino kwambiri iri m'banja (inu, mkwati ndi makolo ake). Mukhozanso kutsegula tebulo mu malo odyera. Ngati mukufuna kuwakondweretsa. Koma chofunika kwambiri, zomwe makolo akuyang'ana. Ndipo makamaka apongozi awo a mtsogolo, izi ndi zopanda pake. Ayenera kulipira kwambiri mbali yanu.
Funsani malangizo kwa mnyamatayo, mwinamwake amadziwa zomwe amayi ake akulipira kwambiri. Muzitsulo, pali chirichonse. Kuyambira, kuchokera pomwe inu mumakhala, ndikumaliza, kaya mutadya chirichonse pa mbale, mosamala mumadya, kumwa, momwe mungalankhulire nyererezo mumutu mwanu. Chifukwa cha izi, palibe chifukwa chofunikira kuti mukhale ndi manyazi komanso kufuula (ngati mumakonda, ndithudi, osankhidwa anu), muyenera kupirira kulimba mtima ndi kumeza. M'nthawi yathu mulibe malamulo omveka bwino omwe angapange ubwenzi ndi mkwatibwi. Koma pali nzeru imodzi yomwe imanena kuti amakumana pazovala, ndikuziwona m'maganizo. Chofunika kwambiri kwa makolo a mkwati ndilo lingaliro loyambirira, nkofunikira kuti iwe ukhale nawo pamwambamwamba, koma ngakhale ngati walephera sungadandaule. Pambuyo pake, ngati mnyamata amakukondani, adzapita ku chirichonse, ndipo makolo adzakukumbutsani kuti ndinu abwino kwambiri. M'masiku akale kunali njira zambiri zosiyana, osati njira zimenezo, koma miyambo yonse yokhudzana ndi chidziwitso. Munthu wamkuluyo analidi wochita masewera, amene anaphunzira zonse zokhudza achinyamata, zomwe zinaperekedwa ndi zina zotero. Koma masiku ano, mwatsoka, miyambo imeneyi siigwiritsidwe ntchito.
Kuyanjana ndi makolo a mkwati ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri, chifukwa maganizo a makolo amadalira izi, ndipo chifukwa cha ichi ndiyeso kuyesa pang'ono. Ndi makolo a mkwati, makamaka ndi bambo ake, mungathe kukambirana momveka bwino za mutu uliwonse (kuwongolera), funsani ngati bambo anu amakonda mpira, hockey, amakhulupirira kuti kudalira kwake kuli kosavuta kwambiri kuposa amayi a mkwati.
Mukuganiza kuti kubweretsa chidziwitso cha milandu m'mapapo, ndiye kuti mukulakwitsa kwambiri.
Khalani wowolowa manja kwa achinyamata. Sikuti nthawi zonse maganizo oyambirira ndi oona. Ndipo ambiri, kumbukirani nokha, makolo, mudakali aang'ono. Ngati simukukonda kwenikweni, yesetsani kukambirana ndi mwana wanu vutoli, maso ndi diso, monga momwe anthu amanenera. Koma chitani mosamala kwambiri. Panthawiyi, muli ndi mwayi wopeza mwana mmodzi, koma mukhoza kutaya imodzi.