Nthawi zina timazindikira momwe abambo athu amayang'ana kumanzere ndi kumanja, ndipo amakhalanso akuyang'ana kutsogolo - ndipo chidwi chawo chonse chimaperekedwa kwa mtsikana wamtali, wamtundu wa msungwana wokongola. Koma sizokhudzana ndi malingaliro a anthu pa mawonekedwe a zosangalatsa zachikazi, koma za amayi. Kodi mumamva bwanji mukakhala ndi ubweya wautali, wokongola ndi maso aakulu? Nsanje yachinyengo, chitonzo cha chikumbumtima pambuyo pa malingaliro osokoneza, mumamuchotsera bwanji zokondweretsa izi, kapena kodi iye akuyamikira kwenikweni?
Poyang'ana, zopatsa zachikazi zimatanthauza chifuwa, chiuno, chiuno ndi miyendo, koma izi ndi zolakwika pang'ono. Zikondwerero zazimayi akadali maso ndi misozi, milomo, tsitsi, manja, zala ndi misomali, ndizo zonse zomwe mkazi ali nazo. Chithumwa ndi chimodzimodzi chimene mayi wina amapereka kwa mkazi wina. Inde, kuyambira pachiyambi, ndi mawere omwe amagwa ndi omwe ali pansipa. Kotero amavomerezedwa ndi amuna athu pa zoyamba ndi zofunikira. Kotero zikhale choncho.
Kotero, ndi angati akazi, zowonjezera zambiri, ndi malingaliro ambiri a amai pa zokondweretsa. Wina wokondwa amayang'ana mnzako kapena mnzawo ndikudzifunira yekha mawonekedwe, kudzikweza yekha ndi zakudya ndi masewera a masewera, ndipo wina yemwe ali ndi chidani amayang'ana mtsikana yemweyo ndikumafuna kuzunzika koopsa, ndipo wina ali ndi zidazi ndi luso amawagwiritsa ntchito pazinthu zawo. Malingaliro a amayi ena pa zosangalatsa izi zomwe ndinamva kuchokera pakamwa pa anzanga ndi mabwenzi anga.
Ndili ndi bwenzi limodzi limene limayang'ana zotupa, zowonongeka komanso zoyima ndipo zimati "Ndikanadumphira iye ngati ndine munthu". Ayi, ayi, iye ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi, amakonda amuna ndipo ali ndi banja, ichi ndi chimodzi mwa malingaliro a amayi ambiri pa zosangalatsa za mkazi wina. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi mkazi yekha wopanda ma complexes komanso wokhala ndi chiwerengero chabwino akhoza kunena za mkazi wina. Iye samangoyang'ana pa malingaliro achimuna kwa zipsyinjo zachikazi, koma amasonyezanso maganizo ake ndi kuyamikira. Monga momwe ndikudziwira, kawirikawiri atsikana amasonyeza kusakhutira ndi kusakonda anthu omwe amadzipangira okha, akuphimba nsanje yakuda.
Mzanga wina amayamba kulankhula mawu achipongwe pamene awona msungwana wokongola, ndipo pokhapokha amamvetsa ngati akusangalala kapena amanyansidwa naye. Monga wojambula wa ku Poland Janina Ipokhorskaya anati, "Kuwoneka kwa mkazi wina kwa wina kumandikumbutsa za kayendedwe ka katundu ku miyambo." Azimayi nthawi zonse amawonekerana momasuka komanso mwachidwi, kuyembekezera kupeza chosowa chomwe chimapangitsa kuti chiwonongeko chawo chiwonongeke, ngakhalenso omwe akuyang'ana poyamba sakufunikira malipiro awo.
Ndipo m'chowonadi, pali zambiri zoti muziyamikira. Mwiniwake, ndimakonda nthawizonse, kapena ndikuganiza, "Ndikanakhala ndi ..." ndikawona wojambula bwino, wowerengedwa bwino, ndipo ziribe kanthu kaya chiwerengerocho chimachotsedwa ndi chithandizo cha opaleshoni ya pulasitiki kapena kuchokera ku chilengedwe chomwecho chimakondweretsa. Inde, ndipo popeza mwalandira kuchokera ku maonekedwe a chicchi muyenera kuwasunga, ndipo izi zimafunikanso kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zambiri.
Mu manja a luso la mwiniwake, mbali iliyonse ya thupi ikhoza kuyesa ndi kuyitanitsa amuna, kuchititsa nsanje kwa amayi, ndi mankhwala abwino komanso oyenera. Sali m'chifuwa chachikulu kapena papa yotsekemera. Zonse zimakhudza kudzidalira kwanu komanso kudziwonetsera nokha kwa ena. Momwe mumamvera, kotero mudzazindikira anthu omwe akuzungulirani. Kumbukirani izi!