Ife, amai, nthawi zambiri timatsindika osati zomwe moyo watipatsa kale, koma pazifukwa zina pa zomwe tilibe ndipo mmalo mophunzirira kuyamika miyoyo yathu chifukwa cha zonse zomwe tili nazo, ndipo iyi ndi njira yokhayo, zomwe zimabweretsa chimwemwe. Ndikoyenera kutaya zomwe timachita mopepuka (chikondi, okondedwa, thanzi, abwenzi) ndipo timayamba kuyamikira kuti ndi chimwemwe chachikulu. Komabe, ngakhale zonsezi tili nazo - zimakhala zovuta kuti tisayambe kukhumudwitsidwa pazinthu zonse zokhudza achibale awo, kuti tidzudzula aliyense chifukwa cha mavuto athu. Ndipo kulingalira izi pa zofooka za achibale pang'onopang'ono kukhala chizoloŵezi.
Momwe mungaphunzirire kukwatira ndi mwamuna wanu
Zomwe zimakhala zodandaula za amayi nthawi zonse, komanso nthawi zambiri mkwiyo ndi amuna. Koma ndichifukwa chiyani amai akufunitsitsa kuti azidandaula za amuna awo kusiyana ndi momwe amachitira, koma amatsindika za kulephera kwawo, ndipo amatsindika ulemu wawo? Nthawi zambiri chifukwa chake chimakhala bwino m'banja la makolo, kuyambira pamene ali ndi ubwana wofanana ndi amayi amawachitira bambo, mwachitsanzo " moyo wanga! ", ndi zina zotero. Mchitidwe wamakhalidwe a mkazi wachikulire ukhoza kufalikira kwa banja lake. Ndipo chimwemwe chimakhalanso chizoloŵezi pamene munthu angakhoze kupeza zabwino zokha kuzungulira yekha ndi kusangalala nazo. Mwanjira imeneyi, munthu aliyense akhoza kukhala wosangalala.
Chisangalalo cha akazi chimadalira momwe mkazi angazindikire mphamvu za mwamuna wake (ngakhale zochepa kwambiri), komanso kuphunzira momwe angayankhire. Inde, ngati mwamuna wanu akusintha, kumwa kapena kumwa, ndiye kuti mawu akuti "chisangalalo cha amai" amalepheretsa tanthauzo lake kuyambira pachiyambi. Ndi za mabanja omwe awiriwa amamvetsa bwino kufunika kwaukwati wawo, koma osakhalanso osangalala m'banja chifukwa chosowa zoyambirira za maluso osadziwika bwino ndi kudziwa - makamaka nigden amaphunzitsidwa momwe angamange banja lolimba.
Pakalipano, izi ndi sayansi yonse, yomwe imakhala ndi luntha la kuleza mtima - choyamba, monga lamulo, kuchokera kwa mkazi. Mwachitsanzo, munapatsa mwamuna wanu mndandanda wa zinthu, ndipo adabwerera kuchokera ku sitolo ndi mkate umodzi ndi mawu akuti "panali chakudya chimene munapempha." Mukhoza kutsutsa mitsinje ndi mapulusa ake, koma mungathe "kusuntha kavalo." Mwachitsanzo, kufotokozera chisangalalo pa nkhope yake chifukwa mwamunayo anapita ku sitolo ndikufotokoza chiyembekezo kuti apitiliza kusangalala. Mukhoza kudziwa kuti n'chifukwa chiyani sitoloyi sinali yogula (mwina inali itatha), yomwe izi zikhoza kuchitika - zomwe zimagulitsa (kapena misika) pafupi ndi kumene katunduyo ali wotsika mtengo, ndi zina zotero Inu, pogwiritsa ntchito mphindi yabwino Mwamuna adzathamanganso kukagula-nthawi yokha (kusambira kapena kusamba), choncho mwamuna wanu adzakondwera kwambiri kuti akwaniritse zopempha zanu, chifukwa pakhomo mkazi wokongola ndi wachikondi. Ndipo simungathenso kupatula kuti patapita nthawi mwamuna wanu ndi wobadwa mwachibadwa, wokhoza kupulumutsa, ndipo mwinamwake ngakhale wokonzekera kuphika!
Mwinamwake mwamuna wanu sakudziwa kukonza zovala zatsopano, koma amayesa kupeza ndalama kugula zovala zatsopano zamakono. Adzayesera kukuchitira iwe! Mwina, popanda chidwi, amakhometsa misomali, koma amalemekeza mnzake kuntchito, chifukwa ndi wokonzekera bwino komanso munthu wabwino. Kumbukirani, ndizo chifukwa cha ichi ndipo mudagwirizana nacho kamodzi: kuwona mtima, kuwona mtima, chifundo, chisamaliro, ndi zina zotero. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, moyo wathu uli ndi zinthu zing'onozing'ono, kotero ndikofunika kuphunzira kuona zinthu zabwino zokhazokha. Mungofunika kuti muphunzire kuyang'ana wokondedwa wanu ndi maso atsopano - monga poyamba, mutangomaliza kukumana: zodabwitsa, ndi kuyamikira, ndi zokondweretsa - choncho zonse ndi zatsopano komanso zosangalatsa kwa inu. Ndipotu, pamene wina atiyamikirira, zimalimbikitsa kwambiri ntchito yobala zipatso!
Amayi ambiri amayesetsa kupeza zolakwa za mwamuna wake, mwachitsanzo, mimba yaikulu, mimba, kukambirana koipa, ndi zina zotero, koma yesetsani kukonda zofooka izi, chifukwa muli ndi zambiri, mukhale ofatsa. Pankhaniyi, ndithudi mumayamikira mwamuna wanu.