Maganizo amodzi
Pamene munthu akumva, atakhumudwa kwambiri, akuwoneka akukwera, akuwuluka. Munthuyo amayamba kufotokoza matalente obisika, nthawi zonse amafuna kupanga chinachake, kulenga chifukwa cha chikondi. Sizinsinsi kuti zinali mu chikondi ndi chikondi zomwe anthu adapeza kwambiri. Chikondi ndichombikitso chokwaniritsa zotsatira zatsopano. Mwachitsanzo, munthu wachikondi yemwe wakhala mwamantha moyo wake wonse, chifukwa cha malingaliro ake, ayamba kufuna chinachake kuti chikwaniritse, chinachake choti chifulumire mkati, ndi zina zotero. Iye ali wokonzeka kupitilira zambiri kwa wokondedwa wake, ndipo chodabwitsa, chirichonse chomwe chinkawoneka ngati chopusa ndi chosasangalatsa, tsopano chimayamba kupanga chidwi, ndipo nthawizina ngakhale kukondwera. Chikondi chimasintha anthu. Amakhala otseguka, okondana, amakhala osangalala. Pamene munthu watsekedwa ndi wosungulumwa, atatha kugwidwa chikondi, amayamba kukangana za anthu, kulankhulana ndi zina zotero. Pamene akunena kuti chikondi chimalimbikitsira, pali choonadi chochuluka pa izi. Ndi chifukwa chakumverera uku kuti mukufuna kuchita chinachake chimene sanachitepo kale. Zikuwoneka kuti zimanyamula moyo, zonse zimakhala zowala, zosangalatsa, zosangalatsa. Malingana ndi munthu nthawi zonse zimaoneka kuti ali m'chikondi. Maso ake amapereka - iwo amawala. Ngakhale ngati wina ayesera kubisa chikondi chake, iwo omwe amamudziwa bwino, adzalinso akumvetsa zonse, popeza chikondi chimagwira chinthu chapadera, chowonekera kwa onse. Chikondi chimakupangitsani kukhala okhulupilika, okoma mtima komanso achifundo. Pamene timakonda, timasiya kukhala otero, chifukwa tsopano tikufuna kukhala ndi moyo wina. Kuwonjezera apo, chifukwa cha chikondi, munthu akhoza kuphunzira nthawi zonse chinachake chatsopano, kukwaniritsa mapiri otere, omwe sanalengepo. N'zosadabwitsa kuti anthu onse akuluakulu anali ndi mazitsi, akazi, omwe ndi omwe akufuna kupanga. Choncho, mukhoza kunena molondola kuti chikondi chimapanga. Koma, mwatsoka, izi zimachitika kokha pa mfundo inayake.
Maganizo ochepa
Chikondi chimangokhalapo mpaka munthu atawona kukhudzidwa kapena kuyembekezera kuti awulandire. Koma pamene amvetsetsa kuti amamukonda, ndipo sawakondedwa, ndiye kuti zabwino zonse zomwe adapeza mwa iye mwini zimatha, ndipo m'malo mwake amamva kupweteka, kupsa mtima ndi kuvutika maganizo. Momwe munthu yemwe wakhumudwitsidwa ndi chikondi amasintha, amangodabwa. Chilichonse chimene adachita chifukwa cha wokondedwa wake, chimayamba kumukwiyitsa. Zikuwoneka kuti zimakhala zonyansa kuchita zomwe adachita kwa iye ndi kwa iye. Ngakhale, pokhala ndi chikondi, munthu m'dera lina adapeza zotsatira zowonjezera, atasiya kusinthidwa, iye, makamaka, adzaleka kutero. Pamene anthu amvetsetsa kuti malingaliro awo sanawathandize, amakhulupirira kuti chikondi si chabwino koma choipa. Iye akuwongolera ubongo ndikukupangitsani kuchita zinthu zomwe sanachite muzochitika zawo. Ndipo ngati zochita zawo zinachitidwa ndi mphamvu, ndiye kuti palibe chabwino mwa iwo. Ndipo aloleni kuti awonetsere kwa munthuyo kuti ndi chikondi chifukwa adakhala bwino ndikuwonetsa maluso ake kwa aliyense, komabe sakufuna kukhulupirira. Pokhala ndi chikondi komanso osalandira bwino, munthuyo amakhala woipitsitsa kuposa poyamba. Iye amalephera kuzindikira chowonadi monga zinaliri kale, chifukwa iye ali ndi mantha a kumverera. Amangoyamba kuopa kumva chinachake kwa wina. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti munthu amayamba kuchitira nkhanza anthu omwe amamukonda. Ndipotu, akuwopa kuti adzakhalenso ndi chinachake, ndikudalitsanso chikondi, ndikukhumudwanso. Kawirikawiri pali zifukwa pamene munthu akukumana ndi zowawa, munthu amachokera ku zomwe amamukonda, koma kuchokera kwa onse omwe ali pafupi naye. Amayamba kuchitira mafungulo osakhulupirira, chifukwa chifukwa cha nkhawa, amayamba kumva kuti ena akhoza kuchita chimodzimodzi. Kuphatikizanso apo, iwo omwe amavutika ndi kumverera nthawi zambiri amayamba kuvutika maganizo. Iwo amadzibisa kwambiri kudziko lenileni, amasiya kukhala ndi chidwi ndi chirichonse ndipo samalola aliyense kulowa. Tsiku lirilonse la moyo wake munthu amazindikira kapena kupweteka, kapena kutsekedwa. Amayamba kuona zinthu mosiyana, monga chinthu chosasangalatsa kapena chokwiyitsa kwa iye.
Zotsatira za zomveka
Munthu akamakana, zimakhala zosavuta kuti akhale ndi moyo. Amadzipangira mwadala kudziletsa kuti asamangokhalira kukondana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, akaona kuti maganizo ake amatha kuchoka paubwenzi ndi wolimba, amayesetsa kuti asiye, makamaka kuti adziteteze kukhumudwa. Chifukwa cha ichi, munthuyo amakhala wokhazikika mumtima. Amasiya kukhala wokwiya kwambiri, nthawi zambiri amatanthauza ena. Kuletsa maganizo, anthu amayamba kuganiza mozama, chifukwa tsopano sakugonjetsedwa. Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mwa kusiya chikondi, adapeza zinthu zamtengo wapatali. Tsopano safunikira kudandaula kwambiri za munthu wina, kutuluka pakhungu kuti akwaniritse chinachake ndi kutsimikizira chinachake. Iwo akhoza kukhala mwamtendere mwa iwo okha, kukhala momwe iwo akufunira, ndipo osati momwe chikondi chimakhalira. Kuwonjezera apo, kulingalira kwabwino kwa dziko kumawathandiza kuti awone anthu kudutsa, osati kuwazindikira iwo kupyolera mu ndondomeko ya malingaliro, chifukwa cha zomwe timakonda kukondweretsa ena. Kudziletsa kumathandiza kuganiza ndi kuganiza mofatsa.
Osachita manyazi
Kukhazika mtima pansi kumatembenuza munthu mu robot. Pamene amalephera kukhala ndi maganizo amphamvu, pamapeto pake anthu amayamba kuona momwe wachikondi ndi wokondedwa amalephera kuchitira dziko lapansi mofanana ndi munthu wamba wokwanira. Amakhala ozizira kwambiri komanso otsekedwa, amasiya kusonyeza chikondi ngakhale pa banja lake, anthu omwe ali pafupi kwambiri komanso achibadwidwe. Munthu amatsimikizira aliyense kuti zonse zili bwino, koma anthu ozungulirawo amangoona kuti iye wasiya chipolopolo chomwe ikupitirizabe kugwira ntchito, koma nthawi yomweyo inasiya kukhala ndi moyo. Kukhumudwa kwa kukhala wanzeru ndikoti posiya chikondi, munthu amakana zambiri, zomwe zingabweretse chimwemwe, zodzaza zenizeni zake ndi zachilendo ndi mitundu. Nthawi zonse amakhala m'maganizo amodzi, munthuyo amangoyamba kufota, wasiya chidwi ndi chirichonse, chifukwa amatha kukhumudwitsa, ndipo maganizo samamufunikira kwenikweni. Choncho, pamene anthu amakana kumva, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti ali ndi mabwenzi ochepa kwambiri, popeza ambiri samangogwirizana ndi robot. Ndipo iwo omwe, kuphatikizapo, amakhalabe gulu ndi kuyesa kudzutsa kukhumudwa, amangoyamba kuvutika, chifukwa nthawi zonse amakumana ndi khoma losaoneka la chidwi. Chikondi chimabweretsa kwa anthu onse chisangalalo ndi kukhumudwa, koma kusadziletsa sikubweretsa chirichonse, kungokhala kopanda pake mumtima.