Kaŵirikaŵiri maanja omwe angakhale ndi tsogolo losangalatsa kwambiri amasiyana chifukwa cha zopusa zopanda pake ndi mikangano, osangodziŵa chinenero chimodzi ndi nthawi, kukambirana momasuka mavuto omwe achitika mu chiyanjano. Nthawi zambiri madandaulowa ndi opusa komanso opanda pake. Ngati munthu ndi wokondedwa kwa inu, simungakhoze kusiya izo chifukwa cha zopanda pake. Mukhoza kungolongosola palimodzi ndikupeza zotsutsana. Ndipo ngati sichigwira ntchito, ndiye kuti mukhoza kudziyanjanitsa ndi zofooka zazing'ono zanu, ngati izi ndizosafunika kwenikweni. Ndipotu, kutaya wina ndi kosavuta, ndipo n'kovuta kugwirizanitsa kapena kumanga ubale watsopano ndi wina.
Zidzakhala kuti mkwiyo uli woyenerera, chifukwa munthu wokondedwayo anachitadi chinthu choopsa, kuposa kuti adakukhumudwitsani. Pachifukwa ichi, kukhululukira madandaulo kungakhale kovuta kwambiri. Muzochitika izi, nkofunikira, choyamba, kuyembekezera masiku angapo mpaka masautso amatha kukhazikika pansi, ndipo mungathe kudzifufuza mozama mozama. Choyamba, ganizirani ngati zochita za wokondedwa wanu zili zoopsa monga momwe munaganizira. Mwinamwake mumaganizira mozama nkhaniyi ndikukumvetsa kuti iwo amanyengerera zolakwitsa zawo ndikuchita nawo mtima, ndipo tsopano ali okonzeka kumukhululukira. Koma, ngati wokondedwa wanu wachita zowopsya kwambiri kotero kuti adakuchititsani kuvutika maganizo kwambiri ndi zochita zake, ndiye kuti nkhaniyo ndi yaikulu kwambiri. Choyamba, ganizirani ngati mumamukonda, ngakhale pambuyo pake. Kumbukirani kwa mphindi zingapo za mkwiyo wanu ndi ntchito yake ndikumverera, mukufuna ndipo mukhala nayebe, mukuganiza za iye, mukukumbukira nthawi yanu yosangalatsa ya ubalewu. Ngati mu kuya kwa moyo wanu pansi pa zifukwa panali chikondi, ndiye kuti ubale uyenera kupulumutsidwa. Kutemberera kwa wokondedwa nthawi zambiri kumatithandiza kukonda chikondi chathu ndi malingaliro athu enieni. Mwachidziwitso, pansi pa chidani chirichonse kwa wokondedwa, pali chikondi kwa iye.
Ganizirani za "zigawo" za mkwiyo. Chotsatira choyamba cha mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo, kukwiya. Wachiwiri "wosanjikiza" ndi mtima wako. Chachitatu ndikuopa kutayika wokondedwa wanu ndi ubale wanu. Chachinai ndi kulapa, koma kulapa chifukwa chakuti, inunso, muli ndi mlandu pa ntchito yotere ya wokondedwa kapena kuti iwo sanalepheretse maganizo awo ndipo analola kuti mkangano ukhale wolimba. Chachisanu ndicho chikondi, ndithudi, chikondi. Pambuyo pake, mu kuya kwa moyo wanu mukumukonda munthu uyu ndipo simukufuna kumutaya. Ndipo mumakhumudwa kwambiri ndi iye chifukwa mumamukonda. Pambuyo pake, ngati munthu amene simunamukonda, anachita chimodzimodzi kwa inu.
Ngakhale kunyalanyaza kuli koyenera, wina sayenera kutsutsana ndi mfundo zake. Nthawi zonse mumapatsa munthu mwayi woti apite patsogolo. Njira yabwino ndiyo kulankhula ndi wokondedwa wanu moona mtima komanso moona mtima, mopanda kukhudzidwa ndi kukangana. Fotokozani kwa iye kuti wakukhumudwitsani kwambiri ndi zochita zake, koma mumamukonda ndipo mukufuna kusunga ubale wanu, mukuyembekeza kuti sizidzachitikanso.
Pali lingaliro labwino kwambiri la kusinkhasinkha, lomwe limatchedwa "Zolingalira Zokhululuka kwa Okondedwa," zimathandiza kuyeretsa moyo wanu wachisokonezo. Pambuyo pake, zolakwira kwa munthu amene mumachita choipa kwambiri kwa inu nokha, moyo wanu uli ndi vuto, ndipo izi zingayambitse matenda a mitsempha ndi matenda ambiri. Kodi mukudziwa chomwe chiri chimodzi, kodi chotupa cha khansa n'chiyani? Izi ndi zodandaula zosakhululukidwa, zomwe zimaphatikizidwa kwambiri mu moyo ndikuvala thupi. Kukhululukira munthu yemwe wakukhumudwitsani inu nokha! Zochita izi ndi zophweka, koma zimapereka zotsatira zabwino kwambiri. Ndikofunika kuti mutseke m'chipinda, kuti wina asakuvuteni, musiye mafoni, ndibwino, ngati mutakhala chete, mutha kuyimba nyimbo za Enigma ngati banja lanu likulankhula m'chipinda chotsatira. Ugone pansi ndikutonthola ndikudziyesa wekha pamtunda, pamtunda wachinyanja. Kubwera kwa inu ndi wokondedwa wanu. Apa iye anabwera kwa inu. Tsopano mungamuuze kuti wakukhumudwitsani, koma mumamukonda ndikumukhululukira. Tangoganizirani kuti akukukumbatira, kukupsompsona komanso akunena kuti amakukonda. Nthawi zambiri, kambiranani zochitikazi. Ngati cholakwacho chiri cholimba, ndiye kuti simungamve zotsatirapo 5-7. Pachifundo ichi, moyo wanu umachepetsedwa pang'ono, ndipo pakapita kanthawi mudzakhululukira wokondedwa wanu.