Kodi malotowo ndi otani?

Kutanthauzira kwa maloto okhudza mphete kumadalira pazinthu zosiyana ndi zikhulupiriro zokhudzana ndi mawonekedwe ake. Tavomereze, aliyense wa ife amadziwa mosiyana zodzikongoletsera izi. Kwa wina, ichi ndi chinthu chomwe chingathandize kukongola. Kwa wina, ndi chizindikiro cha chikondi ndi kukhulupirika. Kuchokera ku sayansi yakale, mawonekedwe ozungulira amayimira chikhalidwe cha chikhalidwe cha chilengedwe ndi kuzungulira kwa zochitika.

Chifukwa chiyani malotowo ali ndi maloto osiyana

Mu bukhu la maloto a Vanga lalembedwa kuti kuti muwone chokongoletsera mu loto ndi chizindikiro chakuti mukufunikira kuthetsa milandu yowonongeka mwamsanga, mwinamwake mkhalidwewo ukhoza kuwonjezereka. Ngati mwalota kuti mpheteyo imabedwa ndi munthu amene mumawakonda, ndiye kuti ubale wanu ndi wolimba, ndipo maganizo anu ndi othandizira. Miller akukhulupirira kuti ichi ndi chizindikiro cha kukhulupirika ndi chuma. Mudzakhala mwamtendere ndikuwonjezereka bwino chaka chilichonse.

Mu bukhu la Muslim loto likunenedwa kuti mpheteyo ikulonjeza moyo wodzaza ndi kutchuka ndi chuma. Ngati ndilo loto la mwamuna yemwe mkazi wake ali ndi udindo, ndiye kuti akhoza kubereka mwana.

Freud amamuwona ngati mphamvu ya kugonana. Kukula kwa mphete - abwenzi abwino amakondana kwambiri.

Mitundu ya mphete mu maloto ndi zochita ndi iwo

Ngati mtsikana waona kuti wokonda amaika mphete pa mkono wake, akupereka kukwatira, ndiye posachedwa chinthu choterocho chidzachitikadi. Ndipo, ngati sizowona (ndizoyambirira kapena miyala), ndiye pempholi lidzakhala "lopotoza".

Kukwezera ndi miyala kumaimira mphamvu ndi mphamvu mu gawo limodzi kapena lina, malingana ndi mtundu:

• Mwala wofiira (safiro) - chizindikiro cha chilakolako chachikulu. Inu ndi wokondedwa wanu mumangomva chikondi komanso kukondana wina ndi mnzake mzaka zambiri.
• Safira nthawi zambiri amalota anthu opanga. Kuwona mwala wotero ndi chizindikiro chowonekera kuti nthawi yatsopano idzakhalapo.
• Mapalele amakubweretserani kukwaniritsidwa kosakwanira kwa zilakolako zachinsinsi.
• mphete ya diamondi ili ndi matanthauzo awiri. Ngati mwalawo ndi umodzi ndipo si waukulu kwambiri, mutha kukwaniritsa cholinga. Koma ngati mpheteyo imakongoletsedwa ndi diamondi yambiri, dikirani nthawi ndi misozi. Ndipo, miyala yambiri ndi kukula kwake, nthawi yachisoni idzakhala yaitali.
• Maloto a matabwa ngati chenjezo. Posachedwa munapanga mgwirizano, koma sukhalitsa nthawi yaitali ndipo sikudzakubweretsani chimwemwe. Ngati mphete yotereyo idawoneka ndi mwamuna, ndiye kuti mzimayi wakeyo amamupereka.

Makamaka ayenera kulipidwa ku mphete zaukwati

• Zokongola komanso zam'mwambazo zimasonyeza kuti ubale wanu udzakhala wamtendere komanso wamtendere.
• Kuchita ndi kusweka kapena kusweka, kutanthauza kuyandikira mikangano m'banja.

Kugula mphete kumatanthauza kuti mukuyembekezera ubale watsopano, ndipo ngati mutayesera pa nthawi yaitali, dikirani chiwerengero chachikulu cha mafani. Koma ngati mutagula chidutswa cha zodzikongoletsera, ndipo sikunali kokwanira, ndiye kuti mumalowa nthawi ya mavuto ndi zovuta zachuma.

Kuyesera mphete ya wina wina kumatanthauza kuti nthawi zambiri mumakonda zosangalatsa. Koma ngati muyesa nokha, kukongola kwakukulu, ndiye kuti phindu lidzakuthandizani pazochita zonse.

Kutayika mphete ndi moyo sikokwanira kwenikweni. Ngati izi zikuchitika mu loto, konzekerani kuwonongeka. Koma kuyesera kupeza chithunzi chokometsera chimene mukuyesera kupeza njira yothetsera vutoli.

Kuba mphete, makamaka mphete ya ukwati, kumatanthauza kuti wokondedwa wanu akufuna kukulimbana nawe. Koma ngati inu nokha mupereka mpheteyo m'maloto, ndiye kuti simukufuna kumenyana ndi okondedwa anu ndikungomutsutsa.