Chodabwitsa, amayi ambiri amakhulupirira kuti kugonana ndi chinthu chokha chimene chimatenga ubongo wa munthu. Malingaliro achikondi kumalo otsiriza a zochitika zathu zovuta za maloto a amuna. Monga lamulo, iwo sali osiyana ndi lingaliro lapadera la kuthawa, chirichonse chiri mochuluka kwambiri. Amuna amalota akazi omwe ali pafupi komanso ofikirika - anzako kuntchito, abwenzi, kudzidziŵa bwino, osati za Angelina Jolie. N'zoona kuti, mowa mwauchidakwa, mndandandawu ukufutukuka kwambiri.
Zomwe anthu amakonda kugonana zogonana zimagwirizana ndi vuto lomwe samagonana ndi mnzake komanso amaopa kunena za izo, chifukwa amadziwa kuti adzakanidwa. Palibe chikondi, kuyatsa makandulo ndi nyimbo zosangalatsa mu malingaliro olakwika a munthu! Pali zonyansa, abwenzi angapo nthawi yomweyo. Mwina pangakhale zochitika zowonjezereka kwambiri: dzigulireni nokha kapolo wogonana kapena kugwiririra mkazi wanu.
Pofuna kugwirizanitsa malingaliro okhudzana ndi chilakolako chofuna kugonana, sichiyenera kukhala wokonda zolaula, koma nthawi zambiri kukambirana ndi mnzanuyo, phunzirani za zilakolako zake ndi maloto ake. Kotero inu mukhoza kukhala wokondedwa kwambiri ndi wokongola kwa mwamuna wanu.
Kuganizirana za kale.
Amuna ambiri pokhala achikulire nthawi zambiri amaganiza za zomwe zikanati zichitike ... Ngati zaka 10, 15 kapena 20 zapitazo mwamunayo anali wanzeru, monga tsopano, akadadziwa nthawi zofunikira za moyo wake, tsopano, akhoza kukhala akuyandama yacht yomwe ili mu nyanja ya Mediterranean. Maganizo oterowo sakuyendetsedwa ndi iwo omwe sanakhale nawo chirichonse m'moyo wawo, koma okhawo amene apindula chinachake, koma sakukhutira ndi zomwe ali nazo.
Kulimbana ndi izi kungathandize kuteteza chidziwitso chodziwika bwino, kupangidwa ndi chinthu chatsopano kapena zipangizo. M'mawu ake, kudzizindikira kwina kulikonse, chifukwa cha zomwe zokhutiritsa kwenikweni zidzabwera.
"Zosangalatsa" za ana.
Zomwe sizili zomvetsa chisoni, koma anthu mpaka kumapeto kwa masiku awo ndikukhala ana pamtima. Monga ubwana wakhanda, mu unyamata wopenga, ndipo pokhala wamkulu, kwa mwamuna chinthu choyipa chachikulu ndi galimoto. Sikuti ndi mulu wa chitsulo, ndi bwenzi, nthawi yonyada. Galimoto yothamanga ndi yothamanga, kapena galimoto yolemekezeka ndi yolemekezeka. Amuna ambiri amalota za izo, atakhala pa kapu ya tiyi kapena chinachake cholimba ndikudzipereka okha maloto abwino. Malingaliro a amuna akuwonekera bwino komanso amasonyeza kuti ndi munthu wamkulu komanso wofunika kwambiri atakhala pambuyo pa galimoto yatsopano, pamene ulendo wake kudutsa mumzindawo umabweretsa chidwi cha amuna ndi akazi. Kapena galimoto yaikulu kwambiri yomwe imatha kunyamulira patali, komwe kulibe vuto ndipo palibe mavuto.
Monga akunena, ndi bwino kukhala ndi chinachake cholimbana nacho. Mulole mwamuna wanu akhale ndi zolinga zake zazing'ono ndi malingaliro ake, kumuthandiza kusunthira kutsogolo, kukhala ndi chidaliro ndi kupambana.
Kuganizira za mphamvu.
Kudzikonda, kudzikuza kwambiri kumapangitsa anthu ambiri kuti aziganiza zenizeni, kuti ndi wolamulira wa dziko, wolamulira ndi wansembe, amene ndimamumvera ndi kumumvera. Winawake ali wochepa pa udindo wa mfumu m'banja lawo, ndipo wina ndi dziko lonse lapansi adzakhala ochepa. Kupanga malamulo, kupereka malamulo, kukhala mumzinda wawo ndi kubwerera kwa atumiki enieni - ndilo loto la munthu wamakono za moyo wake.
Malingaliro okhudza mkazi.
Koma, ngakhale kuti maloto onse achilendo ndi odabwitsa, malingaliro akuluakulu, malingaliro okhudzana ndi kugonana adakali ndi amayi. Wokongola, wachifundo, wachuma, wokoma ndi wanzeru - iwo analota atsikana oterowa, m'zaka zamkati zapitazi, amalota masiku ano. Mzimayi amene amatha kugawana nawo masewera a mpira kapena nsomba, mkazi yemwe amaphika mokoma komanso mosiyana, mkazi yemwe amafuna kukonda ndi kumusamalira ndiye wofunikanso kwambiri.