Aliyense kamodzi mu moyo wake ankaona kuti moyo uno unali wopanda tanthauzo lonse. Anayima pamphepete mwa phompho ndipo atsala pang'ono kuponyedwa kuphompho. Anagwedezeka - osakhala ndi nthawi yosiyiratu kutembenuka koopsa. Ndipo ziribe kanthu zomwe zifukwazo zinaliri. Chinthu chofunikira ndikuti musakhale ndi nthawi yopanga chigamulo chomaliza komanso osagwera kuphompho. Mulimonse, ngakhale mkhalidwe wovuta kwambiri, pali njira yotulukira. Chinthu chachikulu sikutaya mtima ndikuyesera kuyang'ana dziko mwachiyembekezo. Kumbukirani: njira yothetsera mavuto onse a maganizo ndi mkati mwanu.
Dziko likugwera zidutswa zing'onozing'ono osati kupyolera mu zochitika, zovuta komanso mavuto. Nthawi zina timatsiriza ntchitoyi. Ife tokha tikuwononga zomwe sizinawonongeke ndi mavuto ndi mavuto omwe agwera pa ife. Ife timaphwanya tizidutswa ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoang'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoting'ono ting'onoang'ono tikuyembekezera kuti Koma izi siziri choncho! Ife tikungowononga miyoyo yathu yomwe. Sitikusamala kuti posakhalitsa kapena mtsogolo, kuchokera mu fumbi lonseli ndi mulu waukulu wa zidutswa zazikuluzikulu zobalalika mu dongosolo lachisokonezo chamtendere, tifunika kusonkhanitsa zomwe zinali.
Panthawi yoima - mwina uwu ndi ntchito yaikulu kwa iwo omwe ataya chidwi ndi moyo. Si zophweka? Inde, si zophweka. Koma dziko lapansi lakonzedwa mwa njira ina yamatsenga kotero kuti palibe amene amapatsidwa mavuto, mavuto ndi zowawa kuposa momwe angathere. Ndipo kumvetsetsa kwa izi kumabwera kokha pamene zonse zatha kale. Pamene mwayi wambiri umatayika ndipo wataya nthawi yopanda kanthu. Inde, mu nthawi yovuta, pamene munthu akuphatikizika mantha ndi zovuta, sizili zophweka kumvetsa kuti malingaliro onsewa ndi malingaliro awo posachedwa amatha kuwonekera. Koma, pokhala ndi chiyembekezo chochepa chaumunthu, munthu sangathe kuthana ndi mavuto okha - koma payekha. Musaiwale za chiyembekezo - njira yothetsera mavuto a maganizo.
Chiyembekezo ndi khalidwe limene silinatengedwe. Iye samalowa mu mawonekedwe a tsiku la kubadwa. Chiyembekezo ndi khalidwe limene liyenera kulimbidwa mwa iwekha. Mwinamwake, pamtunda wina pano umakhala ndi gawo la lingaliro laumodzi. Koma ngati munthu ayang'aniridwa ndi zotsatira zabwino za bizinesi iliyonse, ndiye ngakhale zotsatira zoipa sizimukhumudwitsa kwambiri. Chokhalitsa mmalo mwake chimaphunzitsa kuti chirichonse chimene sichikuchitika chimangokhala bwino. Choncho, ngakhale panthawi yoopsya kwambiri, munthu amene ali ndi khalidweli adzawona momwe angatulukire.
Ngati mulibe mavuto, simudziwa kuti ndinu osangalala bwanji. Ngati dothi silikuchoka, simudziwa kuti mumayimilira bwanji. Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti popanda kugunda ndi mavuto ena, munthu sangadziwe zomwe angathe. Zili ngati ubwana, pamene makolo amabweretsa mwana ku sukulu ya nyimbo, ndipo aphunzitsi amatsegula mphatso yeniyeni. Koma ngati makolo sanatenge mwanayo ndi kumuwonetsa dziko lamatsenga la nyimbo, ndiye kuti dziko lonse lapansi likhoza kutaya nzeru zina. Mwana sakudziwa zomwe angathe.
N'zosakayikitsa, ndi bwino kuti mu moyo uno zonse zimachitika motere - mofatsa komanso mwachifundo. Koma zikanakhala zamatsenga weniweni. Choncho, kwa anthu ambiri zomwe angathe kuchita zimatsegulidwa kokha pamene moyo umawatsogolera mumsampha wamantha, mkwiyo, kukhumudwa, kupweteka. Ngakhale zodabwitsa zathu zomwe zimagona m'mutu mwathu ndi mumtima zathu zimaululidwa kwa ife pokhapokha pazinthu zina.
Ngati simukufika pamphepete mwa phompho, simungadziwe yemwe amakhala pafupi naye komanso yemwe ali bwenzi lenileni. Mwina, ndi mabwenzi enieni omwe samalola munthu kuti apite kumphompho. Mwamuna wina amene adakhumudwa kwambiri. Pamene dziko lake liyamba kuoneka ngati mdima wandiweyani, nthawi zina sichikusowa uphungu. Osati thandizo lazinthu zakuthupi - koma womvera chabe. Inde, zimakhala zokondweretsa kwambiri mukagawana zakugonjetsa ndi zosangalatsa zanu. Koma kuphunzira kumvetsera za mavuto, kukhumudwa n'kofunika kwambiri. Mwinamwake tsiku lina inu mutha kukhala chingwe chokhacho chitetezo chomwe chingalole winawake kuti asakhumudwe. Ndipo nthawi idzadutsa, ndipo wina adzakankhira dzanja lanu mwamphamvu kuti musagwe mu phompho pamodzi ndi chimwemwe chanu chowonongeka. Ndi mtundu wotsimikizirana, pamene anthu athandizana wina ndi mzake. Ndipo kotero nthawizina timagwira payamiko iyi kwa abwenzi, anthu apamtima, achibale. Ndipo nthawi zina chifukwa cha anthu amenewo omwe sitikanaganiza kuti amatha kumvetsera ndi kuwathandiza. Mavuto osiyanasiyana - anthu osiyana. Ndipo kulikonse kumene dzikoli likuyenda, malingaliro a ambiri, aliyense wa ife akhoza kukhala bwenzi losadzikonda komanso lodalirika. Osati chifukwa chakuti tikuyembekeza kupeza thandizo lomwelo tsiku lina. Ndipo chifukwa sitikufuna kutaya chikhulupiriro mwa anthu komanso ife enieni.
Palinso mthandizi wina wamkulu - nthawi ino. Nthawi imachiritsa zonse. Winawake akusowa nthawi yochuluka, ena osachepera. Koma mulimonsemo, pakapita nthawi zilonda zonse zimachotsedwa. Ndi nthawi yomwe imatipatsa ife kumvetsetsa kuti mavuto athu onse akhala ngati gawo lina la moyo, pomwe tinatha kuphunzira chinachake. Khala woleza mtima kapena wamphamvu. Otsogolera kapena olimbikira okha. Wachisoni kapena wodekha, wodalirika kwambiri kapena wanzeru. Nthawi imapita, ndipo timayamba kumvetsa kuti adapeza chidziwitso chofunikira, makhalidwe atsopano ndikuyamba kuyang'ana padziko mozungulira. Mwinamwake chifukwa tsiku lina iwo anayang'ana kuphompho kwa kusimidwa? Mphindi imodzi yokha, kuyang'ana kokha - ndipo kudzatitengera nthawi yaitali kuiwala zomwe tawona pansi pa phompho loopsya ili. Koma kukumbukira anthu kuli ndi khalidwe lapadera - nthawi zambiri munthu samakumbukira nthawi zosasangalatsa za moyo wake. Mwinamwake zingathe kufanana ndi mfundo yakuti mkazi pafupifupi sakumbukira ululu umene amamva panthawi ya kubadwa kwa mwana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti amadziwa bwino kuti zinali zopweteka kwambiri. Koma sakumbukira momwe zinalili. Kotero ife tikhoza kukumbukira kuti pamene ife tinagwidwa ndi ululu ndi mantha. Koma sitimakumbukira mmene timamvera. Monga ngati ntchito yamtundu wina wotetezera imagwira ntchito m'maganizo athu, kotero kuti mantha omwe adadutsa sativutitsa pa moyo wathu wonse. Choncho nthawi ndi ally wabwino.
Ndimodzi wa otchuka kwambiri komanso okondedwa kwambiri a heroines ananena kumapeto kwa buku la chibwibwi, chikondi ndi kufunafuna chisangalalo Scarlett O'Hara "Ndidzaganiza za mawa mawa." Musanayambe kuponyera kuphompho, imwani kapu ya vinyo amene mumakonda kwambiri. Lankhulani ndi bwenzi lanu lapamtima, penyani kanema wabwino ndikulira mumtsamiro. Mwina, kudzuka m'mawa, mudzazindikira kuti mawa anu akuuzani njira yothetsera vutoli? Ndipo mawa pangakhale ambiri omwe mumakonda. Zomwe mukufunikira kuti muthe kuchoka pamphepete mwa phompho masitepe pang'ono.
Palibe yemwe akufuna kuti apeze mavuto omwe amatha, amvetse nkhani zosautsa, ataya chimwemwe chawo. Koma dziko ndi lovuta kwambiri. Ndipo munthu amafuna zochuluka kwambiri kuchokera ku dziko lenileni, ndipo nthawi zina kuchokera kwa iyemwini, kuti azipewa zovuta ndi kusimidwa moyo wake wonse. Inde, musayimire kumbuyo kwina kulikonse kuti muwone chipewa chakuda ndikuwopa chochitika chilichonse choopsa. Ndipotu, nkhawa nthawi zonse siyenso yabwino kwa munthu aliyense. Kukhala wokonzeka kuvutika ndi kuwopa nthawi zonse ndi zinthu zosiyana. Ndipo kuya kwa phompho kungakhalenso kosiyana kwa aliyense. Mwina nthawi zina simukuyenera kuyang'ana, kuti musadandaule ngati simukuyenera kuona pansi. Ndikoyenera kukumbukira kokha kuti aliyense padziko lapansi akusowa wina kwambiri. Winawake amayembekezera nthawi zonse, chikondi ndi kukhulupirira mwa iye. Wina yemwe ayenera kuyembekezera nthawi. Kapena wina amene akufunika kuima panthawiyo. Moyo, ndithudi, si nthano chabe ndipo si nyimbo yotchuka. Kumene, pamphindi womaliza, yemwe samupatsa gawo loyamba amathandizira protagonist m'njira yodabwitsa kwambiri. Ndipo mbali inayo - kodi sitifuna kukhulupirira nthano? Ndipo zikutheka kuti chikhulupiriro choterocho chikhoza kugonjetsa kuphompho, kutalika, malo, mavuto ndi mavuto. Chifukwa chakuti ifenso tiri amatsenga pang'ono. Osachepera kwa wina yemwe amakhulupirira moona mtima mwa ife.