Mkazi wokhazikika ndi nthano kapena zenizeni?

Mwinamwake, munthu aliyense kamodzi kamodzi m'moyo wanga adapeza mawu osamvetsetseka - mkazi wakupha. Ndi ndani? Makhalidwe a mabuku ndi mafilimu, omwe sanapezepo mawonekedwe enieni, kapena akuyendayenda pakati pathu chilakolako cha amuna ambiri? Kodi pali "mkazi wachinyengo" kunja kwa masamba?


Zolemba ndi zojambulajambula mobwerezabwereza zinalemekeza chithunzi ichi. Zaka zambiri zodzikuza zikutsatira zovuta za Milady wotchuka, wolemekezeka wa Torpil - mmodzi mwa akatswiri odziwika bwino a mbiri yakale yotchuka Honore de Balzac ndi ena ambiri. Iwo anali akazi, oyenera kuyamika ndi maulendo, akazi, chifukwa cha omwe anawombera ku duels, kupha, adayambitsa ziphuphu ... Komabe, nthawi zambiri munthu aliyense wotseka buku kapena amaliza kuyang'ana filimu sangathe kupeza zofanana zenizeni pamoyo weniweni. Chifukwa chiyani?

Mayi wowononga ndi nyama zowopsa?

Kodi iwo analipo kwenikweni kapena sanali iwo nkomwe? Mwinamwake nthawi zamakono si malo a anthu oterewa? Mwinamwake iwo onse anakhala mmbuyomo, anawopsya ndi Revolution, Silver Age, Palace kuzungulira, ndi zina zotero?

Amuna ambiri amasiku ano sagwirizana ndi magulu abwino. Palibe aliyense wa iwo amene amakonda kufotokozera za mtundu umenewu, choncho amasankha kuchitapo kanthu chifukwa chakuti palibe chifukwa choteteza ndi kumenyera wina. Panalibe amayi enieni enieni. Akazi amadzifunira okha chidwi kuchokera kwa ena, osakhoza kudzipereka okha. Oimira azimayi okondana, omwe amalowa m'gulu la "opha", osangokumana pamsewu.

Mkazi wamakono, mwatsoka, sangathe kukopa chidwi cha mphunzitsi. Izi ndi chifukwa chakuti zolinga ndi ziyembekezo za akaziwa tsopano zikuyikidwa pa zinthu zotere monga zakudya, njira yodalirika yomangira munthu, ndi zina zotero. Akazi amakonda kukambirana ndi amuna, akudandaula kuti ndizosavuta kuti munthu akhale ndi chidwi. Inde, amayiwa ndi amuna othamanga kwambiri.

Kodi tikudziwa chiyani za amayi opha?

Pakalipano, anthu amatipatsa zovuta zokhudzana ndi maubwenzi. Amaphika ku ukwati wabwino, makamaka ali wamng'ono. Bungwe limatiphunzitsa kuti tiyang'ane mosamala maonekedwe athu. Timadalira kuti munthu sangathe kukana kukongola kwathu ndi kukonzekera bwino. Azimayi ophedwa, omwe amadziwika m'mbiri (mwachitsanzo, Lilya Brik), sanali okongola kwambiri. Komanso, kuthekera kwawo kuyendetsa anthu amisala kunkafanana ndi luso kapena mphatso yachirengedwe: anthu ochepa chabe angaphunzire luso limeneli paokha. Amayi opha kawirikawiri sankayenda m'mwamba pamtunda, amayesa kuti adziwonetsere okha mmalo mwazojambula ndi chikhalidwe. Anagwiritsa ntchito luso lina - kugonjetsa anthu.

Ntchito kapena banja?

Vuto la mibadwo ndi lovuta kwambiri kuposa kale lonse. Makolo amafuna kuti tikwatirane, zidzukulu komanso kudzidzimva m'banja. Nthawi zina sitingathe kulimbana ndi zofuna zathu ndikusiya zonsezi ngakhale pa yachiwiri, koma pa ndege khumi. Poyesera kukhala mkazi wolephera, ndife wokonzeka kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama zambiri kuti tisinthe maonekedwe athu. Tikhoza kusintha, kukhala okonzeka kwambiri komanso okongola kwambiri. Koma palibe aliyense wa ife amene angakopeka ndi tsoka la mkazi wofooka, yemwe chifukwa cha chisomo chake amakhala osungulumwa. Ndi ochepa mwa iwo omwe adziwa chimwemwe cha chikondi chenicheni, kutambasula kwa zaka zambiri. Iwo ali makamaka akapolo a fanolo, momwe iwo anabadwira.

Kodi masewerawa ndi ofunikira kandulo?

Pofuna ntchito zapamwamba za ntchito, mndandanda wa mitima ya amuna ndi kudzidzimvera m'munda wosankhidwa, nthawi zambiri timaiwala zomwe zimatanthauza kukhala mkazi. Tilimbikitsidwa ndi mafano a mbiri yakale, timayesa kutengera chithunzithunzi chowona, ndikuyesera ngati chowoneka bwino, osadziƔa kuti chimwemwe chenicheni siichi. Timayesetsa kukwaniritsa zochitika, ngakhale zitakhala bwino, osadziƔa kuti ntchito yathu sikuti tidzakhale munthu wina, koma kukhala enieni. Mkazi yemwe amasangalala ndi zomwe iye mwachirengedwe amatenga niche yoyenera mu moyo wake.