Chinthu chimodzi chikudziwika: ndi kosavuta kupeza mwamuna kuti akwatirane, ngati mukuganiza kuti ndibwino. Kotero tiyesera kugwirizana ndi njira yabwino ndikukumvetsetsa zomwe mwamuna ali woyenera kukhala pachibwenzi. Ndipo anthu omwe sali okhoza kumanga banja. Zimakhala kuti ngati mutapewa mitundu yachilendoyi, ndiye kuti ndi ena onse opempha, kupatula iwo, mutha kukhala ndi mwayi wopanga banja losangalala.
Mwana wamayi
Amuna amenewa ndi ofatsa, osamala, osakhwima mu ubale wawo. Kawirikawiri zimapereka ukwati mwamsanga ndipo zimasunthira ku gawo la ubwenzi wapamtima. Muzipereka mofulumira kuti muzisunthira kwa iye, mwamsanga ndikuuzeni inu kwa anzanu. Azimayi ena osungulumwa ali osungulumwa, izi zimalephereratu. Kukumana kwakukulu kwa malingaliro, lonjezo la chikondi ku manda, nyanja yakuyamika, mphatso ndi chisamaliro-chomwe chingakhale chokoma? Mu chikhalidwe cha chikondi, mkazi saganiza kuti mwamuna wamtundu uwu ndi woyenera kwa iye kapena ayi.
Mavuto amayamba mtsogolo. Mukangosunthira pamlingo wa maubwenzi, pamene pali ubale wa uzimu, kudalira wina ndi mzake, amayi amachoka pa siteji. Choyamba ndikudabwa, ndiye kuti mukukhumudwa mudzayamba kuona momwe mumavina, ndipo mukuyesera kukakamiza kuchita chimodzimodzi. Mudzafanizidwa ndi amayi anu, ndipo zofananitsa sizidzakukondani nthawi zonse. Pa nthawi yomweyi, chiwonongeko chodziwika bwino chidzayamba kutsutsana ndi kudzidalira kwanu. Mwamuna wochokera ku khate lofewa amayamba kusintha kukhala wonyenga. Pofuna kuthandizira kudalira kwanu, amayamba kulankhula mawu omwe amanyoza ulemu wanu. "Mafuta oterowo sangalowe m'chikondi, koma ndimakonda pysachek." Kapena: "Ndi khalidwe lanu, ndekha ndikukhoza kukuimirani." Poyamba, mawuwa sachititsa mantha, ndipo amayi ena amawaona kuti ndi othokoza. Koma kukhalapo mu moyo wanu wa olamulira awiri - amuna ndi amai ake - sizinali zogonana kwambiri?
N'zosatheka kubwezeretsa mwana wa mayi. Pano muyenera kuyika funsoli moyenera: kaya inu, wokondedwa, pangani mtunda ndi amayi anu, kapena tisagwirizane. Zovuta zisanu ndi zisanu mwa khumi zomwe sangakusankhe. Poyamba, mumamvetsa izi, zaka zochepa zogwiritsidwa ntchito zidzathera pazomwe mungasankhe.
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Kuti mudziwe ngati mwamuna ali woyenera kukhala pachibwenzi, samverani chiwerengero cha chikondi chake. Amuna, omwe amatha kusakhulupirika kapena malemba ambiri ofanana, musasinthe ndi zaka. Kawirikawiri amachepetsa kukhala amuna apabanja abwino. Kusaka kwa mkazi ndi dope, popanda zomwe sangathe kukhala nazo. Mu ubale wautali munthu wotereyo angakhale, koma posachedwa kapena mtsogolo adzapita kumanzere. Ndipo nthawi zambiri amasintha akazi, ndipo mochepa amalephera, amatha kunyenga mnzanu wapamtima, amayi kapena - Mulungu amaletse - kumera mwana wamkazi.
Pakati pa gawoli - olakwira - amuna oyenerera kuchokera kumabanja omwe makolo adalekana chifukwa cha chiwembu. Kapena kuchokera kumabanja kumene kampingo "wamanzere" inkaonedwa kuti ndi yachizolowezi. Ngakhale munthu yemwe ali ndi mtima wake wonse wotsutsana ndi chigololo, chifukwa adamva zowawa za iwo, pokhala mwana, posakhalitsa adzakhala ndi chikhumbo chobwezeretsa tsogolo la makolo ake. Zidzakhala zovuta kuimitsa, ndipo ambiri - ngati simunakondane, koma kungoyang'anitsitsa wokhazikika, onani momwe akusangalalira ndi wosangalala banja la makolo ake. Izi zimathandiza kukwaniritsa mavuto akulu omwe mungakhale nawo muukwati wanu.
Munthu wodalirika
Mungaganize kuti ndizodabwitsa, koma amuna amene amakonda kukhala ndi chizoloŵezi kwa amayi kapena akazi nthawi zambiri amakhudzidwa ndi mitundu ina ya kudalira. Angakhale ndi chilakolako cha mowa, mankhwala osokoneza bongo, maseŵera a pakompyuta kapena makaseti. Kawirikawiri, mitundu yonse ya kudalirayi imagwirizanitsidwa, ndipo aliyense wa iwo amalimbikitsana. Atataya casino, amamwa mowa mwauchidakwa. Atatha kumwa, amamufunsa mkazi wake ndalama, kusonyeza kudalira kwathunthu ndikumira pansi pa bolodi. Atapempha ndalama, akhoza kutaya kapena kuledzera kachiwiri. Kaya amuna ndi oyenerera, ngati ali oledzeretsa, mumasankha. M'madera ena komanso m'magulu ena izi sizingakhale ngati vuto lalikulu.
Koma khalani maso pamene mukumana ndi munthu. Zoona zake n'zakuti amuna oterowo amawawerengera mosavuta akazi omwe angakhale pamphesi. Ngati awona kuti "ulendo" woterewa, mungaiwale kwa kanthaŵi za zoledzeretsa zawo, mutenge mchira ndikukuzungulirani ndi chidwi chachikulu, chikondi ndi chisamaliro. Mofanana ndi maamama a amayi, amatha kukonza maubwenzi mwamsanga. Makamaka ngati iwo amamva mphamvu mwa mkazi, ndipo amamvetsetsa kuti mukhoza "kuyamwa". Kusangalala ndi bukuli, kuphunzira banja lake, miyambo ya chizoloŵezi cha mowa, khalani ndi chidwi ndi zomwe amakonda. Musazengereze kufunsa abwenzi ake ndi achibale za iwo. Kudalira mowa kapena casino n'kosavuta kugonjetsa, choncho ndibwino kuti mwamsanga mupewe ubale ndi munthu wotero kusiyana ndi kulipira iwo ndi mitsempha ndi thanzi lanu.
Obisika Kugonana
Amuna ogonana amuna kapena akazi okhaokha - mmodzi mwa magulu a amuna, omwe nthawi zambiri sagwirizana. Mwamuna kapena mkazi wamwamuna kapena mkazi wamwamuna kapena mkazi wake amalephera kugwirizana ndi kugonana kwake, nthawizina iwowo sazindikira kuti ali ndi chikhalidwe chotani. Kawirikawiri, amakhala ndi chidwi cholenga banja, chifukwa limawathandiza kuti asamangoganizira zachinyengo chawo. Amuna amenewa ndi akazi achikazi, amodzi, odzipatulira kwambiri kwa amayi awo, ngakhale kuti sangakhale pansi pachisanu chachisanu, ndipo amakondanso za amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amaseka, amaseka kwambiri. Azimayi ena amakopeka ndi zonsezi. Ganizirani mkhalidwewu mofatsa, ndipo ngati muwona khalidwe lachiwerewere, musathamangire ku korona - mulole nthawi iike m'malo mwake.