Mavuto a chikhalidwe ndi maganizo a mabanja omwe ali ndi chidakwa

Tsopano, osati vuto losafunikira kwenikweni pamoyo wa anthu ndiko kulingalira kwa mavuto a chikhalidwe ndi maganizo a mabanja omwe ali ndi zakumwa zauchidakwa. Kusuta mowa si zachilendo ndipo si chizoloŵezi, ndi matenda, ovuta kwambiri komanso ochenjera, ndipo tsopano ndi ofala m'dziko lathu. Zizindikiro zauchidakwa mmenemo zimakhala ndi udindo waukulu, komanso anthu omwe amakhala ndi vuto lauchidakwa ndi achinyamata omwe sakhala ndi makhalidwe abwino, amadziwa makhalidwe awo ndipo amatha kudwala matenda oterowo. Ndipotu, zomwe zimayambitsa uchidakwa zingakhale zosiyana kwambiri, zimagawidwa m'magulu, monga zamoyo (majini), chikhalidwe ndi maganizo. Aliyense wa iwo ali ndi zinthu zambiri, zomwe tidzakambirana pambuyo pake. Kotero, mutu wa nkhani yathu: "Mavuto aumunthu ndi aumunthu a banja omwe ali ndi chidakwa."

Nchifukwa chiyani tinasankha mutu wovutawu kuti tiganizire ndi kusanthula: mavuto a chikhalidwe ndi maganizo a banja omwe ali ndi chidakwa? Chifukwa chauchidakwa sichimakhudzanso wodwala okha, komanso zambiri pa banja, choncho tsopano kumwa mowa kumatengedwa ngati matenda a banja. Pofuna kupeza zowonjezera, ndi bwino kupeza zonse zokhudza matendawa, ganizirani zinthu ngati matendawa, zomwe zimayambitsa zochitika zake, zotsatira za munthu aliyense komanso banja lonse.

Kuledzeretsa ndi matenda omwe munthu amamwa mowa kwambiri, ndipo nthawi yomweyo adapeza zotsatira zingapo, zonse zamoyo komanso zamaganizo. Poyamba, pamene mowa umayamba m'madera akale, umagwiritsidwa ntchito pochita miyambo yakale mophiphiritsira, pogwiritsa ntchito zakumwa zoledzeretsa. Kenaka nthendayi inayamba kukula, pamene mgwirizano woterewu unkawonekera, ndipo anthu anayamba kupeŵa mavuto a tsiku ndi tsiku. Mpaka lero, vuto la uchidakwa limangowonjezera, mwinamwake ichi ndi chida chimene ife eni timapha anthu athu.

Chifukwa chachikulu chauchidakwa, ambiri amachititsa chiwopsezo chomwe chimachitika atamwa mowa. Ndipotu, poyesa zofooka, zimathandiza kupumula, kusangalala, kukhala okhwima, kuthana ndi mavuto ena. Kuonjezera apo, zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa uchidakwa zingagawidwe m'magulu awiri: zifukwa zomwe zimakhudza kuchitika kwauchidakwa ndi chitukuko chake mwa munthu aliyense, komanso zifukwa zomwe zimapangitsa kuti chikhalidwe chawo chikhale chitukuko.

Zina mwa zifukwa zomwe zimayambitsa chiwerewere monga matenda, zidzakhalapo: chikhalidwe cha anthu (zochitika za chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi maganizo a anthu), maganizo, monga chiwonetsero cha kusagwirizana kwaumunthu ndi maganizo a munthu payekha, kusokonezeka kwa makhalidwe ake komanso mavuto a mkati mwawokha. Mankhwala amachititsa kuti chiwerengero cha matendawa chichitike, chifukwa chakuti uchidakwa ndi matenda obadwa nawo. Onaninso zinthu zambiri zomwe zimayambitsa chilengedwe, zomwe zimaphatikizapo zosowa zaumunthu zomwe zimakhudza zinthu, kudalira kwake, ndi zina zotero.

Chimodzi mwa zifukwa ndikumwa mowa kwa anthu amasiku ano, kumwa mowa nthawi zambiri kumawoneka ngati chinthu choyenera, osakhala ndi zotsatira zofunikira. Anthu akuwonjezeka kwambiri ndikudziŵa izi, zaka zakumwa zauchidakwa zimachepa, pamapeto pake timawona kuti uchidakwa ukhoza kuchitika ... ana. Kodi tikufuna tsogolo lotere? Nthendayi yokha sikuti imangokhalira kumaganizo chabe komanso kudalira chilengedwe, mankhwala, komanso chifukwa chapamwamba kwambiri komanso maganizo osagwirizana. Oledzeretsa, nthawi zambiri, ndi munthu yemwe amadzipangira yekha modzikonda, kumamwa, kusintha kwenikweni za iye ndi okondedwa ake, kukwaniritsa zosowa zake, ngakhale zopempha za ena.

Kusuta mowa kumakhudza mavuto ambiri a chikhalidwe chosiyana, chilengedwe ndi chikhalidwe, maganizo. Kuonjezera apo, kuwonongeka kumafikira anthu ambiri, popeza chidakhwacho sichimangodzimangirira yekha, komanso kwa ana ake amtsogolo, banja lake ndi chilengedwe chimene ali nacho tsopano, komanso dziko lake. Wokhayo amene amapindula ndi uchidakwa ndiye wopanga, chifukwa amadziwika kuti kubweretsa mowa ndi ntchito yabwino kwambiri.

Ngati titalepheretsa chikhalidwe cha anthu komanso chikhalidwe chomwe chimayambitsa uchidakwa, zotsatira zake zidzasungidwa m'magulu awiriwa. Kawirikawiri, ndi mndandanda wamalingaliro, zamakhalidwe, zachipatala ndi zalamulo. Pogwiritsa ntchito mowa, kuipa kumawonjezereka, ndipo mbali yake yoonekeratu ndi chikhalidwe cha umunthu. Kumwa mowa umakhala wachitatu ndi zifukwa za imfa, kuwononga thupi, dongosolo la mitsempha; kuvulaza maganizo kwauchidakwa kumakhala kwakukulu. Zotsatira zake zidzakhala mavuto a zachuma chifukwa cha uchidakwa, kuchepa kwa nthawi ya moyo, kuchepa kwa luso la ntchito ndi luso losiyanasiyana, kuwonjezeka kwa ndalama za chithandizo cha umoyo, kuwonjezeka kwa umbanda, kuphwanya ubale ndi ena, mikangano.

Mavuto a chikhalidwe ndi maganizo a banja omwe ali ndi chidakwa adzakhala ofunika kwambiri. Kusuta mowa kumabweretsa chisudzulo, kusamvana, kusokonezeka kwa banja, kuphwanya maubwenzi, nkhawa, nkhanza, kusamvana kwa anthu omwe amamwa mowa mwauchidakwa. Kodi kudalirika kwa anthu a m'banja, ndi ndani omwe ali chidakwa? Kudzichepetsa, kudziletsa mavuto anu, kutaya mphamvu pa moyo wa wodwala, komanso payekha. Kumwa mowa mwauchidakwa kumawononga moyo ndi banja la mwana wanu wamtsogolo, mukafika zaka 65 mpaka 80 peresenti ya ana anu amakhala zidakwa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Kwa atsikana, chiŵerengerocho n'chochepa, koma iwo amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi anthu. Kwa ana, chiwerewere cha makolo chimapweteka kwambiri ndipo chimatha kukhumudwitsa maganizo, makamaka - kupsinjika maganizo ndi maganizo. Oledzera okhawo amavutika kwambiri ndi kuvutika maganizo, kuphatikizapo, amakhala ndi vuto lalikulu la maganizo.

Dzizisamalire nokha ndi banja lanu, musamangokhalira kuledzeretsa ndi kumathandiza ena pafupi. Mwina m'tsogolomu, kupyolera mu khama limodzi, tidzatha kuthetsa vutoli.