Zinsinsi za mkazi wanzeru: momwe mungapewere ndi nkhanza
Zosankha zanu ziyenera kukhazikitsidwa ndi maganizo a munthu wankhanza kwa inu. Ngati ubale wanu uli wovuta, kukangana ndi kusamvana kumachitika kawirikawiri, kuzizira ndi kusamvetsetsana kumamveka, sikungakhale kovuta kusiya mwamuna woteroyo. Koma bwanji ngati munthuyo ali ndi malingaliro ofunda kwambiri kwa inu, ndipo inu mu mtima mwanu mumamvetsa kuti simukutsatira izo? Yesetsani kupumula ngati zopweteka ngati n'kotheka.
Musakhale osakhulupirika kukhulupirira kuti zifukwa zakale monga "ndife osiyana kwambiri" kapena "mukusowa zina" zigwira ntchito. Ayi, zinkhanira zimangodandaula, chifukwa mwachilengedwe zimakhala zosalekeza ndipo sizidzaphonya "mbalame" yomwe ikufuna kuthawa m'manja mwao. Musagwire ntchito, ndikutsimikiza za kukhalapo kwa munthu wina m'moyo wanu - adzakuchitirani nsanje, koma sadzalola. N'zotheka kuti mkwiyo wa chinkhanira ukhoza kumupangitsa iye, mwina, agwirizane ndi mdani.
Musanayambe kugawana ndi nkhanza, muyenera kuonetsetsa kuti ali ndi malingaliro ake momwe angamalize kukondana kwanu.
Iwo sakonda izo pamene iwo saganiziridwa ndi malingaliro awo, iwo samamvetsera, iwo amanyalanyaza. Yesetsani kuthera nthawi yochepa ndi iye, osanyalanyaza kulankhula zaumwini, capricious ndikufunanso zosatheka. Njira zamatsengazi zimatsimikizira kuti pakapita nthawi munthu adzakuzizira ndipo iyeyo adzasangalala kumaliza chibwenzicho.
Kodi kulekanitsidwa kwa munthu wankhanza?
Ngati kupuma kunayambidwa ndi kusamvetsetsana ndi zovuta zanu, mutha kukhala otsimikiza kuti simudzapeza kuzunzika kochuluka ndi chinkhanira. N'kutheka kuti posachedwa ayamba kufunafuna malo m'malo mwanu. Ngati kupatukana kwadzidzidzi kunali kodzidzimutsa, munthu wosauka akhoza kusiya ntchito kwa nthawi yaitali. Koma ngakhale mukuvutika maganizo, simungamve foni kapena pempho la msonkhano kuchokera kwa iye - kunyada sikulola.
Konzekerani kuti chinkhanira chidzakondweretsa anthu omwe mumadziwana nawo ndi nkhani zokhutiritsa za momwe simuliyenere.
Kodi chikhalidwe chidzakhala chiani ngati nkhonya ifuna kugawana?
Chirichonse chiri chosavuta apa. Ngati nkhanza ikanafuna kuchokapo - idzawoneka pomwepo. Choyamba, chiwerengero cha mayitanidwe ndi misonkhano zidzachepa kwambiri, bizinesi yofunikira idzawonekera nthawi yomweyo. N'kutheka kuti bamboyu akufuna kuyika mfundo zonse pa "i". N'zosatheka kuti akupatseni mwayi umodzi. Mwinamwake, iye adzakuimbani mlandu chifukwa cha machimo onse achivundi ndi kuchoka ku moyo wanu kwamuyaya.
Kuyesera kubwezera chinkhanira ndi chinthu choipa. Limbikitsani, pemphani, funsani msonkhano - zonsezi, monga lamulo, sizipereka zotsatira zapadera, pokhapokha zitasokonezeka ndi chidziwitso chake.
Mwina nkhanza zanu ndizosiyana ndi malamulo. Koma, nkoyenera kuvomereza, zonsezi zagwiritsidwa ntchito kwa ambiri a iwo.