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Kugonana ndi mwamuna wake, momwe mungapulumuke chisudzulo? Bwato lanu la banja linagunda, linagwedezeka pa moyo? Ndi kovuta, koma muyenera kuyesetsa kuti musatengeke maganizo! Werengani ndemanga zomwe zili m'nkhani yathu lero.
Lekani kudziwerengera nokha! Chifukwa chakuti simungathe kusunga banja, kawirikawiri onse awiri ndi olakwa. Mapeto, pali zochitika ndi zochitika zomwe simungathe kuziwona, kusintha, kapena kupewa. Tenga mpata wochepa. Ndipo kumbukirani chinthu chofunika: palibe amene ali ndi ufulu wakudzudzula ndikukudzudzulani chifukwa chokhala mkazi woipa kapena mnzanu wosasamala, kuthamanga nyumba, osakhudzidwa ndi nkhani za mwamuna, ndi zina zotero. Pachifukwa ichi, ndibwino kuti mukhale mwamtendere komanso mwaulemu kuti simukufuna kulankhula pa mutu umenewu, kapena ndi munthu uyu makamaka.
Limbani ndi kupanikizika! Choyamba, komanso chofunika kwambiri, belu kuchokera ku kupsinjika maganizo: zikachitika zoipa kwambiri kuti simukufuna kuchoka panyumba, penyani nokha, pangani, mudye, muzimeta tsitsi lanu ndi kumwetulira kungakhale vuto. Choncho, tiyenera kudzikakamiza kuti tiimirire, kutsuka, kuvala, kutsuka tsitsi lathu, kukonzekera ndi kupita kwa anthu: kukacheza, kumalo owonetserako masewero, kupita ku filimu. Ngati n'kotheka, yesetsani kugula zinthu zosavuta: kugula kavalidwe kamene simunayesetse kugula paukwati, chonde dziwani nokha ndi fungo latsopano la madzi a chimbudzi. Ngati simukufuna kuwona wina, pitani ku paki. Chinthu chachikulu ndikukhala ndi chinachake, osati kuganizira za vuto lanu komanso kuti musamazunze mtolo ndi misonzi.
Musaope kukambirana za mavuto anu! Sikofunika kuti tiyankhule za mavuto ndi anzathu onse. Ndikwanira kwa anthu awiri kapena atatu, monga amayi kapena abwenzi abwino. Yesetsani kuyankhula ndikuwona kuti mwangomva bwino.
Landirani chithandizo cha anthu okuzungulirani: anzanu kuntchito, abwenzi, achibale. Sizingakhale kuti aliyense amakutsutsani, anaseka kapena akusangalala ndi ululu wanu. Ndithudi pali anthu omwe mu nthawi yovuta ya moyo wanu akufuna kuthandizira. Winawake akukuitanani kuti mupite, pa tsiku lakubadwa kwake, mupereke ulendo kunja kwa mzinda, kudziko. Ndi chisangalalo, landirani maitanidwe awa, monga malingaliro atsopano abwino ndi omwe mukusowa tsopano.
Chotsani chirichonse chomwe chimakukumbutsani inu zapitazo! Bisani Albums ndi zithunzi, zochitika kuchokera kwa mwamuna wanu wakale ndi zinthu zina zomwe zingakukumbutseni. Musangotaya! Patatha zaka zingapo, pamene ululu wanu umatha, mudzasangalala kuyang'ananso zithunzi, kuti mukumbukire zakale.
Musamvetsere kwa osokoneza omwe akufuna kukudziwitsani za zochitika zatsopano mu moyo wa wina yemwe ali kale mlendo kwa inu. Osayenerera kuwafotokozera kuti simukufuna.
Musafulumire kulowa mu ubale watsopano! Inde, ine ndikufuna kubwezera pa nthawi yanga yakale, ndikuwonetsa kuti siye yekhayo pa dziko ndipo amuna ena amakuganizirani. Koma pambuyo pa chisudzulo, nthawi iyenera kudutsa. Ngati mukungoyamba kukondana, ndiye kuti mumasankha munthu wamaganizo omwe mwamuna wanu wakale anali nawo, chifukwa mwadzidzidzi simunakonzekere ubale watsopano.
Musachite chilichonse choipa ndi kuvulaza anu akale, makamaka, chilakolako chake chatsopano! Kuchita zolakwitsa m'nthawiyi ndi kophweka, koma sikudzakhala kosavuta kwa inu. Pitilirani ndi mutu wanu wokhala pamwamba ndipo musawamvere.
Muli ndi siteji yatsopano m'moyo wanu. Zidzakhala bwino ngati zikhudzana ndi zizolowezi zatsopano komanso zothandiza komanso miyambo yabwino. Yambani kupita ku dziwe kapena kuthupi, lembani maphunziro ena. Nthaŵi zambiri, kambiranani ndi anzanu. Kukambirana kosangalatsa kumalepheretsa mavuto, osakumbukira za izo. Nkhaniyi yatsekedwa! Dziwani kuti mumatchula mawu akuti: "Chaka chatha panthawi ino anapita ku chilengedwe, anakonzekera tchuthi," "Chovala ichi, tsitsi lake ankakondwera naye kwambiri," "Ndimakonda kuphika izi ndikuti, ndizo zomwe amakonda kwambiri." Khalani ndi tsogolo komanso tsogolo, osati kale.
Ngati muli ndi ana wamba, musamayang'ane ndi bambo anu. N'zosatheka kutsutsa ana pokambirana ndi mnzanu, kuti aziimba mlandu wina. Tiyenera kuwafotokozera momasuka chilichonse, kuti atate wathu amawakonda ndipo sadzaleka. Simukusowa kupweteka psyche ya ana, iwo sali olakwa pa kupuma kwanu.
Kuti mutha kusudzulana, chitani ngati mwayi wofufuza maubwenzi anu ndi anthu, ganizirani zolakwa zanu komanso mtsogolo kuti musavomereze.