Ambiri amakhulupirira kuti n'zosatheka kupulumuka kusudzulana ndi malire ochepa. Sitikukambirana zalamulo za kusudzulana, tiyeni tiyankhule za maganizo a maganizo, omwe nthawi zambiri amatha kutchedwa osowa pambuyo pa chochitika ichi.
Lamulo nambala 1. Musayang'ane mmbuyo.
Chimene chachitidwa chachitika ndipo palibe kubwerera. Inde, ubale uliwonse ukhoza kugwirizanitsidwa palimodzi, padzakhala chilakolako, koma ndani adzatha kudalira zidutswazi? Nthawi yomwe idathera muukwati ikhoza kukhala yoipa komanso yabwino, yosiyana, koma yadutsa. Sikoyenera kukhala yekha ndi zochitika, chifukwa moyo weniweni ukuchitika lerolino, tsopano, ndipo n'kosavuta kuphonya.
Lamulo nambala 2. Musati muzindikire chiyanjanocho.
Wokwatirana aliyense adzakhala ndi chinachake choti akambirane wina ndi mnzake atatha kusudzulana. Zinanenedwa zambiri pamaso pake. Koma, monga momwe akudziwira, atamenyana ndi zibambo zawo sizikuwombera. Pa nthawi ino ndi kofunika kuti mutulukitsane. Inde, simudzakhala alendo mofulumira, koma simunayandikana. Chifukwa chake, muyenera kusiya zovuta zonse, zomwe simunanenerepo kale m'mbuyomo.
Lamulo nambala 3. Musatengere mbali yaufulu.
Sikoyenera kupitiliza maphwando akulira, kufunafuna chitonthozo m'magulu. Zidzasokoneza kanthawi, koma zikhoza kuipiraipira. Chirichonse kuchokera pazinthu zenizeni kuti m'moyo wa banja timaphunzira kukhala a ife tokha, timakonda kukhala ndi diso kwa wina, ndipo ufulu wosayembekezereka wa ufulu ukhoza kutsogolera mitu yathu pamene tisanakonzekere.
Ndi bwino kuyembekezera masabata angapo ndikuyamba kulowa muyeso wa moyo wa abambo okondwa.
Lamulo nambala 4. Musalankhulane molimba mtima za kale.
Zoonadi, aliyense afuna kukambirana ndi abwenzi ake omwe kale anali nawo, kuti awononge mlandu wa kugwa kwa ubale wanu ndi iye. Koma izi ndibwino kuti musachite. Choyamba, abwenzi anu amvapo kale zokwanira za iye pa chisudzulo. Chachiwiri, mwa kuthetsa miseche ndi kugwedeza zochitika zapamtima pa moyo wanu musanadziwe anthu osadziŵa, mumapanikizika kwambiri.
Chifukwa chake - musamayankhepo za kale ndikukhala moyo wanu watsopano.
Lamulo nambala 5. Musayese kubwerera.
Patapita kanthawi, mudzawoneka kuti mukufuna kubwezeretsa chiyanjano, ngakhale kuti ululu umene unapangitsana. Musagonjere chilakolako ichi. Mbiri imadziwa zitsanzo zambiri, pamene banjali linatembenuka ndikufalitsidwa nthawi zambiri, pokhala moyo chifukwa cha moyo wachimwemwe ndi wopusa. Mwinanso banja lanu ndi limodzi mwa iwo. Koma dzipatseni nthawi kuti muzizizira ndi kuganizira mosamala. Ngati chilakolako choyesera sichidutsa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi, yesani. Ngati izo zidzatha mu nthawi ino, ndiye panalibe khama pa gawo lanu.
Lamulo nambala 6. Musayambe chikondi.
Poyamba, pambuyo pa kusudzulana, ubale ndi wina aliyense umangotsutsana. Mungathe kugonjetsedwa ndi kusungulumwa , kuzunzika ndi mantha a kukhala opanda chikondi, zomwe zimayambitsa chikwi. Ndipo palibe imodzi ya iwo yolemetsa kwambiri kuvomereza kutenga zoopsa. Simunakonzekere panobe. Ngakhale mutasowa maubwenzi pa mtengo uliwonse, ganizirani za munthu wina. Sikuti ali ndi mlandu chifukwa chakuti posachedwa mwakumanapo ndi kuvulala ndipo simukuyeneranso zoopsa kuti mutembenuzire moyo wake. Ndipo zidzakhala choncho: Mudzafanizitsa mnzanu watsopano ndi wakale, ndikumufotokozera zomwezo zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito. Kuti ubale watsopano ukhale wosangalatsa, payenera kukhala nthawi ndi ululu.
Lamulo nambala 7. Sewani katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Kupulumuka masautso pambuyo pa chisudzulo chingakhale m'njira zambiri. Bwanji osayesa zitsimikiziridwa? Lembani chisangalalo chaukwati, koma osati chophweka, koma chifukwa cha makhalidwe oipa a anthu omwe mudali nawo pachibwenzi. Mudzapeza chithunzithunzi chomwe chidzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa momwe mungathamangire mkazi woteroyo. Kuonjezerapo, mudzadziwa bwino lomwe makhalidwe omwe sayenera kukhala nawo pakusankhidwa.
Lamulo nambala 8. Pezani mokwanira.
Kugona ndi nthawi ndi mankhwala abwino kwambiri. Yesetsani kugona, ngakhale simukufuna kwenikweni. Kugona usiku si njira yabwino kwambiri kwa iwo amene akufuna kufulumira kupsinjika maganizo. Kusamba, kumwa mkaka wofewa kapena tiyi ndi uchi, usayang'ane ndikuwerenga musanagone chilichonse chomwe chingasokoneze maganizo anu. Mukamagona nthawiyi, mofulumira mudzachira.
Ulamuliro "No. 9. Musatengedwe ndi mowa.
Kusweka kwakukulu kotereku ngati kusudzulana kumakhala chifukwa chomwa, ngakhale musanayambe kumwa mowa. Ichi ndi choopsa. Kuthamanga kwa nthawi yochepa kumathamangitsa kwambiri kuvutika maganizo komwe kumakhala kolimbikitsidwa kwambiri ndi wamangozi. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti iwe udzakhala pamalo ovuta kwambiri. Kusudzulana ndi nthawi yoyenera kuyamba moyo watsopano. Ndi moyo wotani womwe udzakhale wodalira inu nokha.
Muzilamulira nambala 10. Mverani nokha.
Ndi zopusa kuyenda pamtima pako ku nyimbo yanu. Nthawi idzapita, ndipo mudzafunanso kuyang'ana bwino, kusangalala, chikondi ndi kukondedwa. Pamene malingaliro awa abwera, kumasulidwa kwathunthu ku zolephera zakale kudzabwera. Ndibwino kugwiritsa ntchito mphindiyo ndikupeza mwayi ndi mchira. Palibe chowonetsanso chokongola ndi chokongola kuposa phoenix, wobadwanso kuchokera pamphuno. Panthawi ino mumakhala ngati iye ndipo muli ndi ufulu kuyembekezera mphatso kuchokera kumapeto.
Ndipotu, kupulumuka kusudzulana n'kosavuta. Chinthu chachikulu ndikutengera nokha ndi nthawi. Ngati mukulakalaka kuti mukhale ndi zofooka zanu, dziwani kuti zoipa ndi khalidwe loyipa, zidzakhala chizolowezi ndipo sipadzakhalanso kusintha. Ngati, mutatha kukhumudwa moona mtima kwa masabata angapo, mutha kuyesetsa kuti mukhale munthu wokondwa mtsogolomu, zoyesayesa zonsezi zidzakhala zolondola. Mulimonsemo, patapita zaka zingapo, zochitika izi sizidzakhala zofunika, ndipo zomwe zidzakuchitikire nthawiyi zidalira kokha zomwe mukufuna kuchita nokha.