Pambuyo pa kukumbukira nthawi zosangalatsa, kukhala ndi mavuto, kubadwa kwa ana, chimwemwe ndi chisoni. Inu munali okondana kwambiri ndi mbadwa. Kumbuyo kwa zaka zambiri za moyo wapabanja.
Koma, chinachake chasintha. Pakati pa inu chinachake chinachitika - ngati kuti wakuda wakuda akuthamanga. Maganizo achoka, athazikika pansi.
Kukambirana kotsiriza ... ndipo inu ndi mwamuna wanu mukupita ku ofesi ya registry kachiwiri, koma kale kuti muthe kusokoneza ubale wanu. Mumasudzulana. Inu ndi mnzanuyo mukuyembekezera nthawi yowonetsera. Ndipo, tidzayesa kukuthandizani kuti mupulumuke kusudzulana popanda nkhawa.
Kodi mumamva bwanji panthawiyi? Inu mukufuna kudzibisa nokha kwa aliyense, pafupi ndi dziko lanu lomwelo, dzipangire nokha mu bulangeti ndipo musamawone kapena kumva wina. Posachedwapa, mudakondwa. Ndipo tsopano muli nokha. Zikuwoneka kuti iwe waperekedwa, wasiya, ndipo sudzadalira wina aliyense kachiwiri. Kusakhulupirika sikungowonongeka chabe, munthu wapamtima ndi wokondedwa wanu anangoti akutseni. Anaganiza kuti adzakhala wosangalala popanda inu.
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti nthawi ya kuvutika kwa munthu amene wapulumuka chilekano amatha pafupifupi miyezi isanu ndi umodzi. Mwatsoka, amayi ambiri amatha kudzidalira - kudzidalira kwawo. Ndipo, monga mukudziwa, kudzidalira pa msinkhu wabwino kumapangitsa mkazi - mkazi weniweni.
Kusudzulana popanda nkhawa - kodi ndizoona kapena ndi nthano chabe, kumene amayi okhawo omwe amasungulumwa amakhulupirira? Tiyeni tiwone.
Chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsa kuti maganizo omwe mukukumana nawo tsopano ndi omwe amachitira mkazi aliyense atatha kusudzulana. Misozi, chisoni, chilakolako chothawa - momwe thupi lanu limayendera ku mavuto omwe amabwera chifukwa cha kusudzulana kwa anthu awiri omwe kale-mu-chikondi.
Chinthu chovuta kwambiri chomwe muyenera kupirira ndikumverera kopanda pake m'moyo wanu. Ngati muli ndi ana, zimakhala zovuta kale - simuli nokha, ana anu amafunikira inu, kotero pali wina woti apereke chikondi ndi chisamaliro.
Anthu akamachoka, banal yomwe munthu angathe kulangiza ndi "zonse zidzatha," "zonse zomwe sizinachitidwe - chirichonse chikhale chabwino." Inde, ndithudi, izi ndi zoona. Koma kuzindikira kwa choonadi ichi kumadza ndi nthawi, ndipo pa nthawi yomwe mukukumana ndi "nkhawa pambuyo pa chisudzulo," kuchokera m'mawu otero, amangotuluka misozi, ngati beluga. Komabe, pali njira imodzi - kupeza munthu watsopano. Koma, monga lamulo, pamene kudzidalira kwa mkazi kuli kocheperapo kuposa khumi, izi ndizovuta kwambiri kuchita. Ngakhale, zimathandiza kusokoneza.
Pambuyo pa kusudzulana, nthawi zonse mumafuna kulira ndi kulira. Choncho, lirani, muyenera kulira mtima wonse. Malingana ndi akatswiri a maganizo, nthawi imeneyi imatha pafupifupi mwezi. Komanso, kuthetsa banja si chinthu choipitsitsa chimene chingachitike m'moyo wathu. Kusintha kokha, yesetsani kuchotsa zinthu, zithunzi zomwe zingakukumbutseni zaukwati. Zomwe simukuzikweza.
Mukangopitilira kudutsa nthawiyi - kukhumudwa ndi kukhumba - inu nokha simudzazindikira momwe mungayesere kukhala ndi chilakolako chokhala ndi moyo. Maganizo adzasintha, mudzakhala ndi chiyembekezo chokhudzana ndi zomwe mukukumana nazo. Ndi panthawi ino, ndikukulangizani kuti mudzipange nokha ndikusintha nokha. Iwe ndiwe wokongola ndipo umayenera kukhala wachimwemwe chenicheni cha mkazi. Sinthani fanolo, yambani kavalidwe katsopano katsopano. Njira ina yabwino, tipezerani nokha zosangalatsa - mukhoza kuchita zomwe zingakondweretseni ndi kupeza anzanu atsopano.
Imodzi mwa ubwino wosudzulana - simukusowa kusamba masokosi a mwamuna wanu, chitsulo malaya ake ndi kuphika borscht. Yambani kudzikonda nokha ndikuzisamalira nokha. Yang'anani mosamala m'tsogolo mwanu ndipo kumbukirani kuti "zonse zomwe sizinachite - zonse zabwino".