Mulimonse mmene zingakhalire, ngakhale mu chibwenzi, ndibwino kuti mukhale osamala. Kuwonetsa chikondi mu mwamuna wachikondi ndi kovuta kusazindikira.
Mfundo yakuti mwamuna wanu ali ndi chikondi ndi inu, adzanena zizindikiro zingapo.
Iye amakopeka kwa inu . Chikoka chogonana ndicho chizindikiro choyamba chomwe chimasonyeza chifundo kwa inu. Ngati akukufunani ndi selo lirilonse, mwayi woti chikondi chidzawatsatira pambuyo pake chifundo chidzawonjezeka.
Mwamuna ndi mwamuna . Monga amai, mwamuna wachikondi amafunika kumverera ubwenzi wapamtima ndi mnzake. Mukawona kuti kuwonjezera pa kukopa kwa chiwerewere, mwamuna wanu amakopeka kuti azikhala ndi inu nthawi zambiri, amasangalala kumvetsera nkhani zanu ndipo sakubisa moyo wanu - ichi ndi chiwonetsero cha chikondi mu mwamuna wachikondi. Mukhoza kukhala otsimikiza kuti ndinu ochuluka kuposa mbuye wake.
Zitseko zonse ndi zotseguka kwa inu . Amuna amateteza kutetezera kunja kwapadera zonse zomwe ziri m'miyoyo yawo. Pamene mwamuna ali mu chikondi, iye akufuna kukuuzani zinsinsi zake, kutsegula chinsalu chachitsulo cha moyo wake ndi malo ake.
Pali njira ina . Kodi ali wokonzeka kusiya makhalidwe omwe simumakhala nawo bwino? Wokonzeka kukana kukumana ndi abwenzi akusamba. Kuti mudye madzulo ndi inu?
Ndiye , mukhoza kukhala wodekha, mukumenyana kulikonse, iye adzakumverani nthawi zonse ndikukumana kuti athe kupeza njira yothetsera mavuto.
Koma, ngati muwona kuti chiyanjano chanu ndi masewera amodzi, ndipo sali okonzeka kupereka nsembe, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kulingalira ngati mukusowa chiyanjano choterocho.
Chiwonetsero chachisomo mwa mwamuna wachikondi ndi chikhumbo chakusamalira iwe . Khalani opanda mantha, chifukwa ichi ndi chikhumbo chabwino chowononga mophweka. Konzekerani chifundo chomwe munalandira komanso chisamalidwe kuti mubwererenso. Ndipo nthawi zonse ganizirani zofunikira za munthu wanu, musakhale ovuta kwambiri.
Ngati munthu amakukondani, sadzakulolani kulira chifukwa cha zochita zake. Iye sadzakhumudwitsa, iye sadzapereka. Inde, sitinena za mikangano yaing'ono yomwe imakhala yachikondi cha anthu okwatirana.
Ngati munthu alola kuchitira nkhanza kwa inu, kupandukira, ndiye izi zikutanthauza, choyamba kuti sakonda inu. Musasocheretsedwe ndi mfundo yakuti pambuyo pake chinthu chokhumudwitsa, iye, ngati mwana wamphongo, amadya usiku usiku.
Ndi bwino kuganizira za tsogolo lanu palimodzi. Pambuyo pa zonse, pitirizani, kuipako kudzakhala.
Ngati mukufuna kusunga chikondi chanu, yesetsani kusagwirizana ndi ena. Amuna amachitapo kanthu misozi ya amayi kokha koyamba, ndiye kuti amanyazi anu amachititsa kuti atope ndi kusankha kuchoka.
Kodi mukufuna kukondedwa? Choyamba, khalani pachikondi ndi inu nokha. Lamulo limeneli ndi lovomerezeka nthawi zonse. Lemekezani ndi kudziyesa nokha, musanyozedwe pamaso pa munthu, pitirizani kudzidalira kwanu. Ndipo, ndiye, mwamuna wako adzakunyamula iwe m'manja mwake. Iwe, monga wogwidwa pa guwa lachikondi, sudzafunikira aliyense.
Ndipo, musaope kukhala ndekha ndikutaya mwamuna uyu, ngati maganizo anu akuwonetsa kuti palibe chikondi kwa inu mumtima mwake.
Inde, pachibwenzi cha chikondi, zimakhala zovuta kuchotsa magalasi odzaza ndi kuyang'ana mnzanuyo moyenera. Koma, kumbukirani kuti nkofunikira. Ngati simukumvetsa mtundu wa munthu wokondedwa wanu, m'tsogolomu, mukhoza kudzigwetsa misonzi ndi kuvutika. Kusiya kugonana popanda zoperewera kudzakhala kophweka muphuphu lawo.