Mwadzionetsera nokha kuti ndi zopanda phindu komanso zopanda chilungamo kuti mupitirizebe kuyanjana, koma mukuzindikira kuti mwa kumuuza kuti maubwenzi anu onse atha, mumubweretsa mavuto aakulu. Kodi mungayankhe bwanji? Tiyeni tiyang'ane pa zovuta izi.
Choyamba, muyenera kuganizira zinthu zonse bwino. Valani masikelo onse opindulitsa ndi opondereza. Ganizirani zomwe zinapangitsa kuti chisankho chomwecho chikhalepo. Ngati nonse mukuganiziridwa bwino, zonse zimayesedwa ndikukhulupirira kuti musapitirize kupitiriza chiyanjano, khalani olimba pazomwe mumasankha. Koma mungamuuze bwanji kuti ubale watha? Muyenera kukhala okonzekera kuti njirayi idzakhala yopweteka kwa onse, koma muyenera kupeza kulimba mtima ndi mphamvu kuti mukhale ndi moyo wonse.
Uzani munthuyo kuti ubalewu ukusowa kwambiri payekha. Musamuyitane ndi kutumiza ma SMS. Njira iyi sinagwire ntchitoyi. Musagwiritse ntchito mawu okhumudwitsa ndi okhumudwitsa. Ndikofunika kufotokoza momveka bwino komanso moyenera chifukwa cholepheretsa kugonana. Tiyenera kuyesa, ngakhale kuti izi sizingapewe, kotero kuti zosakondweretsa zolemba zingakhale zochepa kwambiri. Musayese kungotenga ndi kuchoka pa moyo wake popanda kufotokoza poletsa foni. Mbali yanu idzawoneka yoipa, nkhanza komanso yowawa kwambiri. Khalidwe limeneli lidzakhala lolemetsa komanso chikumbumtima chanu.
Yesani kuchoka mwamtendere, popanda misonzi ndi kunyoza. Ngakhale pali zifukwa za izi, nthawi ya milandu yadutsa ndipo palibe chofunikira kuti tisiye kugawanika pofotokozera chiyanjano ndi chisokonezo. Kuwidwa mtima ndi mkwiyo kumakhala ndi zotsatira zolakwika pamalingaliro anu.
Kupatukana nthawi zonse kumakhala kovuta kwambiri.
Ngati mgwirizano watha, zikutanthauza kuti mphindi yeniyeni yayamba kale. Chitani pa mfundoyi "bwino msanga".
Ndikofunika kuwuza munthuyo moona mtima zomwe zikukukhudzani pa kupanga chisankho chosiyana. Musakhale chete, musayese kudutsa "ngodya zakuthwa" - bwino kunena chirichonse molunjika, koma kuyesera kukwiyitsa munthu pang'ono momwe zingathere.
Njira yosavuta ndiyo kusonkhanitsa zinthu zanu ndi kuchoka, koma muyenera kufotokoza maganizo anu ndipo onetsetsani kuti mumvetsere kumbali ina. Mwamuna amakhalanso ndi chinachake choti anene kwa iwe, ndipo amafuna kuti amve mayankho onse ku mafunso ake onse.
Osasokoneza ubale ndi munthu pagulu.
Ngakhale ngati ali wodolola ndi wachibwibwi, dziyese nokha woyenera. Ena sangakumvetsereni.
Lembani kwa iye. Awa ndi malangizo kwa omwe sangathe kufotokoza maganizo awo ndi mawu, omwe alibe mzimu, akunena kuti maubwenzi onse atha, ndikulembereni za chirichonse, ndiuzeni chifukwa chake mwaganiza kuthetsa ubale ndi iye.
Zidzakhala zoona komanso zokongola ngati mutapereka kalatayi m'manja mwanu, pamene aliyense alemba za momwe amamvera.
Kuti tisadzimve kuti ndife olakwa, makamaka ngati ndife otsogolera, nthawi zambiri timakhumudwa. Koma sitidzawathandiza, koma tidzasokoneza mitsempha yathu. Kusiyanitsa nthawi zonse kuli kovuta. Musapangitse zopweteka ndikuwononga thanzi lanu.
Ngati simukudziwa kuti ndi bwino kunena kuti chibwenzicho chatatha, ndiye kuti mukuyenera kutembenuza mkhalidwe mwanjira ina ndi kulingalira zomwe mukufuna kuti mumve pamene akusiyani. Zaperekedwa? Ndiye zidzakhala zosavuta kuti muyambe kukambirana ndi zochita zanu. Ngati munthu sakufuna kukumvetsetsani, ndipo simungathe kusamalira zinthu zonse ndi dziko, ndiye kuti mumatsimikiza kuti mwachita zonse zomwe munkachita komanso mphamvu zanu.
Kuleka maubwenzi onse, tikuopa kuti tidzakhala okha. Koma moyo ndi wokongola ndipo nthawi zonse amapereka mwayi wokomana ndi theka lake ndikukhala wosangalala. Khalani okondwa