Mwina, mwatsoka, zimachitika kuti mtsikanayo, zikuwoneka, ali ndi banja losangalala, koma mwadzidzidzi amapereka mpumulo. Zikuwoneka ngati zonse: ukwati ndi galimoto, ndi kavalidwe ka kukongola kosayenera, ndipo mkwatibwi ali wokongola modabwitsa, koma ... ndiye, patatha nthawi yopanda mtambo (kapena osati wopanda mtambo - kwa aliyense yemwe ali ndi mwayi) moyo, mkaziyo amadziwa kuti mwamuna wake anasintha . Zikhoza kukhala, monga mwa chiwerewere choipa, pamene mkazi abwera kuchokera kuntchito (ulendo wa bizinesi, shopu, mpumulo, etc.) kale ndikupeza mu bedi lake, munthu wina wosadziwika, ndipo, mwinamwake, chigamulo chimatuluka mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Maganizo amene mkazi wonyengedwa amakumana nawo ndi ovuta kufotokoza. Ndi chisakanizo cha mkwiyo, kupsa mtima, mkwiyo, nsanje, ludzu la kubwezera ... Pano pali malo oopsa kwambiri. Kotero pali akazi - okhawo, mwina, omwe amakumana ndi maganizo osiyana. Koma zonyansa kwambiri ndizokhumudwa. Zikuwoneka kuti dziko laima ndipo silikusunthira, koma zikafika, sizili zowala ngati kale. Izi zimatchedwa kuvutika maganizo.
Azimayi ena amasankha kusudzulana atatha kuperekedwa kwa mwamuna wake. Iwo amakhulupirira mwamphamvu kuti iwo adzabweretsa dongosolo la chilekano mpaka mapeto, ndipo iwo sadzakhululukira ubwino wotero mu adiresi yawo. Koma mkaziyo ali ndi maganizo ndipo amayamba kuzizira mofulumira. Ngakhale kuti n'zotheka kuti adzasungira chakukhosi ndipo adzadikira kuti mlanduwu ubwezere. Izi zimachitanso. Koma tsopano tikumana ndi milandu yomwe imakhala yambiri.
Kotero, nthawi ipita ndipo ngati mwamunayo akukamba za chikondi chake choyambirira, ndiye, mwina, mkazi wake adzakhululukira. Izi zikugwiranso ntchito pa kusakhulupirika kamodzi. Achepa peresenti ya akazi akusudzulana pambuyo pa mlandu umodzi. Pafupifupi aliyense amafuna koma sadzathetsa chilekano mpaka mapeto.
Ndiye zinthu zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Amuna, iwo ambiri samasintha, kupita kamodzi kumanzere (makamaka popeza adamumvera kuti adamkhululukira, ndipo kwenikweni, palibe chowopsya chinachitika), mosakayikira adzasankha zotsutsana. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mkazi wake sakonda izo, zikutanthawuza kuti munthu alibe zokondweretsa zokwanira pamoyo, koma kodi inu okondedwa, muyenera kukhala chida chokulitsa adrenaline m'magazi a mwamuna wanu?
Azimayi ambiri amasankha kusudzulana pambuyo poti asinthe. Opsinjika mtima ku chikhalidwe chopsinjika maganizo, amamvetsa kuti sangathe kulekerera kufunika kwa wokondedwayo ndipo asudzulanso atatha kumunyoza mwamuna wake. Izi zikhoza kukhala zopweteka kwambiri ndipo maganizo a mkaziyo akudandaula kwa nthawi yaitali. Iye akuganiza kuti: "Kodi ndachita zabwino pogawanitsa ndi munthu uyu? Koma bwanji ngati zonse zakhala zosiyana? "Sizikanati zichitike. Ndipo amamvetsa bwino chifukwa ichi, koma mtima wa mkazi nthawi zonse ndi wokonzeka kukhululukira. Komabe, kusudzulana pambuyo pochita chigololo, monga lamulo, sikungapeweke, ngati mkazi, ndithudi, ali ndi lingaliro lodzikonda.
Kulankhulana za kusudzulana pambuyo ponyengerera nthawi zonse, kuyambitsidwa ndi mwamuna, koma kusinthika, chotero, mkazi, ndizomveka kokha m'milandu yodzipatula. Chifukwa chakuti anthu ndi osiyana komanso osakhulupirika samakhululukira. Mwamuna akhoza kupitilira kukhala ndi mkazi wake muzochitika zoterozo, koma pansi, sadzamukhululukira konse ndi kusudzulana posachedwa kapena mtsogolo. Mayiyo mwiniwake sangathe kupirira maganizo ake, omwe mwamuna wake angakwaniritse ataperekedwa, ngakhale atamukhululukira. Chodabwitsa kwambiri m'mabanja oterowo, woyambitsa chisudzulo ndi mkazi, sangathe kupirira kupsinjika maganizo.
Kusudzulana pambuyo kusintha nthawi zonse kumachitika pafupifupi nthawi zonse. Chifukwa, ndani sanganene chilichonse, koma zolinga zonse ndi chimodzi: banja lolimba popanda chinyengo. Ndipo pali amuna ndi akazi omwe sasintha wina ndi mzake ndikukhala mosangalala nthawi zonse. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusiya nthawi ndikuzindikira zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri pamoyo ....