Musanayambe kuchita zinthu zowonongeka, muyenera kumvetsa nokha. Kodi ndi zoona kuti chikondi chadutsa? Kodi simudandaula pambuyo pake? Ngati mwasankha kuchita zonse molondola ndikupeza mfundo zomveka bwino zidzakhala zosavuta. Mulimonsemo, simungapange njirayi mopanda phindu, koma osachepera mudzatha kufotokoza chifukwa chake munthu samadzizunza yekha ndi "chifukwa" chosatha.
Mnyamata akuti bwanji "Goodbye"?
Tasonkhanitsa malingaliro angapo omwe angakuthandizeni kupanga magawano ofewa komanso opanda zopweteka, ndendende momwe mungathere.
Momwe mungalembere kalata yopita kwa mnyamata, werengani apa .
Musanyengedwe
Ngati mukulephera chifukwa cha chikondi, simuyenera kukhala pafupi ndi munthu amene amakukondani chifukwa cha chifundo kapena chiyembekezo chakuti mutha kumukankhira pa nthawi yopuma. Khalidwe limeneli lidzapweteka kwambiri kusiyana ndi njira yopatukana. Komanso, musayambe nkhani zosiyanasiyana: chiwembu, chinyengo, ndi zina zotero. Kotero, mumangokhala mdani, pambali pake, zidzakhala zovuta kuti aphunzire kudalira anthu kachiwiri. Ngati mumangokonda chikondi musapangitse zinthu ndi kumangonena, monga: "sindimakonda". Maganizo amatha, zimachitika, ndipo sichimanena kuti mnzanuyo ndi munthu woyipa.
Musati mupereke
Ngakhalenso ngati malingalirowo achoka, ndipo mukukonzekera kugawana ndi munthuyo, musaupereke kwa anthu onse, makamaka ngati mnzanu sakudziwa. Mwinamwake mukusowa uphungu wa mnzanu, koma yesetsani kutsimikizira kuti munthu uyu ndi munthu wodalirika yemwe sangakulolereni. Musatenge nsalu zodetsedwa m'nyumba yanu ndikuyesera kuthetsa mavuto anu palimodzi, popanda kuphatikizapo magawo atatu.
Sankhani malo abwino
Ndi bwino kufotokozera nkhaniyi pamalo amodzi kuti munthu wanu azitha kudziletsa, panthawi imodzimodzi, malowa ayenera kukhala ochezeka kwambiri pazokambirana. Mukufunabe kulankhula, makamaka, kuti palibe wina akukuvutitsani. Ndibwino kuti mupange paki kapena cafe wokondweretsa. Chowonadi chiri, yesetsani kusokoneza malo, ndiko kuti, sikunali okonda kwambiri.
Musapite mwatsatanetsatane
Zoonadi, muyenera kufotokoza zomwe mwasankha, koma musati muziika zonse bwinobwino. Ikhoza kuvulaza kapena kuyambitsa mkwiyo, kutsutsana. Mukufuna chiyani? Chikondi chadutsa ndi chirichonse, sikofunika kuti tipite mwatsatanetsatane. Chilichonse chasankhidwa kale, chimangokhala kuti chifalitsidwe pamisewu yosiyanasiyana. Yesani kuti musaimbe. Zoposa zonse zikugwirizana ndi mawu akuti: "Ndasintha," "Ndinazindikira kuti ndikufuna chinachake." Musanene kuti zimakukwiyitsani, ndi bwino kunena kuti mumadandaula, koma simungathe kuchita mwanjira ina iliyonse.
Inde, ngakhale mutachita zonse momwe timalangizira, sizidzakhala zophweka. Koma ngati muli otsimikiza kuti mwamvetsa bwino mmene mumamvera, musazengereze, choncho mumangowonjezera mavuto. Kuwuza mnyamata kuti "tulukani" kudzakhala kophweka ngati muli, poyamba, owona nokha ndi kutseguka naye.