Kunena zovuta "Kusiyanitsa" kumakhala kovuta kwambiri, kuzilemba ndizosavuta. Kalata yolekerera kwa mwamuna wanu wakale iyenera kuchita ntchito zingapo: kufotokoza, kufotokoza ndi kutonthoza. Momwe mungasankhire mawu olondola, amati katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Konzani uthenga wopatsirana kwa wokondedwa wanu
Kalata iyenera kukhala yopanda phokoso, lembani kuposa tsamba limodzi la A4. Muyenera kuyamba ndi chinthu chachikulu chomwe mwasankha kuletsa chiyanjano, lembani pakati pa kalatayi kuti mufotokoze zolinga zanu, ndipo mutsirizitse uthenga ndi zomwe mukufuna kuti muwone ubale wanu mtsogolo. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, kodi mumamuwona munthu wina pafupi ndi inu ngati bwenzi, bwenzi lanu, kapena mumasankha kuchotsa moyo wanu pa zifukwa zina. Musayese kulemba, musagwiritse ntchito mafanizo ndi mafanizo osiyana siyana, amangosintha tanthauzo la uthengawo.
Kodi mungayambe bwanji kalata yotsalira?
Kalata iliyonse iyenera kuyamba ndi pempho, ndipo sayenera kunyalanyazidwa, ndizo zomwe zimapangitsa uthenga wathu kukhala wokha. Musayambe kalata ndi mawu akuti "Moni, Zai" kapena "Moni, wokondedwa!" Kumbukirani kuti mumanena zabwino, musasocheretsedwe ndi mwamuna, chifukwa ali kale kale wanu, chabwino, ndipo poyamba simunatchulidwe. Njira yabwino ndiyokutchula ndi dzina. Musakhale ovomerezeka kwambiri komanso kupewa masampampu, kalatayo ndi yeniyeni.
Kodi mungamuuze bwanji "Goodbye" pa tsiku, werengani pano .
Kodi mungauze bwanji za kupatukana?
Zonse zomwe mungathe kuchita ndizitsuka piritsi lowawa kwambiri, kutchula zinthu ndi mayina awo kudzafunika kuchita izo nthawi yomweyo. Osati mu chiganizo choyamba, ndithudi, koma mu gawo loyambirira la kalata ndilololedwa. Lembani kuti mumayamikila nthawi yomwe mumakhala pamodzi ndi chibwenzi chanu chikhalirebe kwa inu, koma munaganiza zopitiliza. Ndipo kumbukirani kukhulupirika. Muuzeni chifukwa chake anaganiza kuti achoke, mwinamwake izi zidzakuthandizani bwenzi lanu lakale kuthawa zolakwa mtsogolo ngati chifukwa chake chiri mwa iwo. Ngati munayamba kukondana ndi munthu wina, nenani molunjika. Musagwiritse ntchito cliche kuchokera m'mafilimu, ndizotheka kuti mwamuna wanu amawayang'anitsitsa ndipo nthawi yomweyo amazindikira kulemba. Yesani kufotokoza zomwe ziri m'maganizo mwanu. Kodi ndizovuta ndi zowawa kwa inu? Vomerezani! Ngati, mmalo mosiyana, mumamva ngati mwakula mapiko, mukufuna kuti munthu wakale akhale yemweyo.
Kodi ndikuti chiyani?
Lembani kalata, monga momwe mudayambira - mu mawu achinsinsi. Musamanenere mawu oti "Zirizonse, zanu kwamuyaya ..." kapena "Ndidzakukondani kwamuyaya", kotero kuti muwononge, zonse zomwe zinalembedwa kale. Mapeto abwino kwambiri adzakhala chopempha kuti musakhumudwitse ndikuyesani kumvetsa.
Bwanji osalemba kalatayi?
Amayi ambiri amapanga kulakwitsa komweko, kusiya amuna - kutsegula chitseko. Musapereke munthu chiyembekezo cholakwika. Ngati mwaganiza kunena "Goodbye," motsimikiza. M'kalata yochezera, palibe malo oti "Popanda iwe ndidzadwala", "Mwina ndikudandaula ndi chisankho changa" kapena "Momwe tingadziwire ngati zolinga zathu zidzagwirizananso." Inde, kupatukana kuli kovuta, makamaka ngati mutapanga chisankho chotere pambuyo pa ubale wautali, koma kalata yopita kwa mnyamatayo, yomwe chikondi chake chadutsa, ayenera kunena, osati ellipsis.