Dzichepetseni nokha.
Nthawi zina njira yolekanitsa imatenga nthawi yaitali, kuchititsa chiyembekezo chosayembekezereka ndikupangitsa kuvutika kosafunikira. Kawirikawiri woyambitsa magawano, wokondana ndi womwalirayo, amabwera naye mwaukali kwambiri kupitiriza njira yothetsera. Musalole kuti izi zichitike kwa inu nokha. Ndi bwino kupulumuka masiku angapo, kapena masabata, kusiyana ndi miyezi yambiri mzere. Kawirikawiri, zifukwa zina zamtendere zingapangitse malingaliro ena a bizinesi losatha. Pankhaniyi, mukusowa - womalizira - kukambirana momveka bwino ndi wokonda kale. Ndikofunika kuyesa kuyika mfundo yachangu mu mgwirizano pazokambirana kotsiriza. Ndiye momwe tingapulumuke kulekana kwa munthu?
"Mwadongosolo" nenani zabwino
Kawirikawiri, kulakwitsa kwa mnzanu amene anakusiyani kungatipangitse kundende yathu, mpaka mutapulumuka kulekanitsidwa ndi munthuyo. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta kukhululukira, ndipo ngakhale zikuwoneka kuti mwakhululukira kale, malingaliro angabwerere kwa inu maminiti asanu, masiku asanu kapena miyezi. Komabe, nthawi imachiza, ndipo nthawi iliyonse yomwe mumakhululukira zonse zidzakhala zosavuta. Monga lamulo, sitepe yophiphiritsira yopatukana imathandiza kuthetsa kulekanitsidwa kwa munthu. Mungathe, mwachitsanzo, kungotenga mwala wolemera, ndikuwutaya ndi ubale wanu wosagwirizana. Kapena nyani kandulo ndikuganiza kuti sera yanu imatuluka. Chinthu chophweka kwambiri, monga kungovula zithunzi zonse palimodzi, kumakhala ndi zotsatira zabwino. Ndipo ndi bwino kuwotcha pamoto kapena, pepani, tsukani kuchimbudzi - zidzakuthandizani kupulumuka kupatukana. Musasowe kudzipatula nokha. Kawirikawiri, akazi amapereka ntchito zawo chifukwa cha chikondi, koma kwenikweni - ndichabechabe, chifukwa amuna amayamba kuzizoloŵera.
Musabwereze zolakwitsa zomwe mwadutsa kale.
Nchifukwa chiyani timakopa anthu ofanana nawo kwa ife eni ndikupanga zolakwika zomwezo poyanjana nawo? Nthawi zambiri, izi zimadalira momwe timalankhulirana ndi anthu. Pamene njira yanu yolankhulana ikugwirizana ndi momwe mungalankhulire ndi mnzanuyo, ndiye kuti mudzakhala ndi ubale wolimba ndi iye. Ndipo ngati sichoncho, ndiye kuti nthawi zina mumayamba kukhala ndi mavuto, ndipo mudzadandaula kuti simukumvetsa. Ngati nthawi zambiri mumakonda ndi "anthu oipa" omwe ali ndi khalidwe lomwelo kwa abale awiri amapasa, kodi muyenera kudabwa kuti chifukwa chake mumaphwanya? Yesetsani kufufuza mozama ndikuyang'anitsitsa maubwenzi akale: kodi munachita chiyani, ndipo cholakwika ndi mnzanuyo ndi chiyani? Yesani kusintha maganizo ndi anthu. Musayende pamalo omwewo. Chitsanzo chabwino cha makolo chimakhudza kwambiri moyo wawo wonse wa ana awo.
Khalani olimba.
N'zochititsa chidwi kuti, monga momwe akatswiri a maganizo amalingalira, kuti athetse khalidwe lililonse loipa kapena zoledzeretsa, kukhala chisudzulo kapena kusuta fodya, kumatenga masiku 21 okha! Nthawiyi ndifunika kuti ubongo ukonzenso ntchito yake. Mukhoza kuthandiza ubongo wanu kumanganso mofulumizitsa, ngati simungalole maganizo oipa monga "Sindidzaonanso munthu woteroyo!" M'malo mwake, tidzidzimva mobwerezabwereza "Posakhalitsa ndidzakumana ndi munthu wamkulu!" Maganizo ali ndi khalidwe lapadera, komanso lapadera, amavala, ndipo ndani amadziwa, mwinamwake chikondi chanu chosakondera chikudikirira pangodya. Chabwino, simungathe nthawi zonse kudandaula za kusiyana ndi mwamuna? Muyenera kukhala otsegulira mwayi uliwonse.