Koma ngati mwatchulidwa ndi lingaliro kuti ndi mwamuna wanu wakale, mungapulumutsidwe ku kusungulumwa, ndipo zikuwoneka kuti chirichonse sichinali choipa, kapena mwinamwake munali opanda pake kuti musudzulane nawo pachabe. Pano iwe uyenera kuima, chifukwa nthawi yomweyo udzaphimba mazunzo atatu: kwa zomwe zinachitika, zomwe zinakuchitikirani.
Tiyeni tidandaule zomwe zinachitika. Pambuyo pake, zonsezi zachitika kale. Ndiwe mkazi wanzeru, ndipo ndithudi unali ndi zifukwa zenizeni zosudzulana. Amayi ambiri sakhala osudzulana chifukwa ndi "osapirira", koma chirichonse, chifukwa amayi amaikidwa muzochitika zoterezi. Mukatha kuthetsa banja, ndiye kuti mwakhala wopambana.
Lekani kudandaula kuti mudakhalapo kale. Tiyeni tilota za zomwe zidzakhala zanu. Ndiye ife tidzamasulira maloto mu ndege ya zolinga, ndipo ife tidzasuntha kutsogolo kwa zolinga. Chirichonse chinali. Amayi ambiri amalingalira kuti apambana patatha chisudzulo. Ngati chirichonse chinali chachikulu, ndiye chifukwa chiyani banja linagwa?
Musadzimvere nokha chisoni, ngakhale kuti n'zosavuta kunena momwe mungachitire. Inde, mwakhumudwa, mwasiya, ndipo mwinamwake mudzadutsa pazomwe mukudzichitira nokha. Musatambasule ndipo musasangalale ndi kuzindikira kuti mwasiyidwa. Ngati muli ndi ana, ndiye kuti padzakhala chipulumutso chanu, chifukwa pamene mukudzidandaula, zimakhala zovuta kwa iwo. Muli ndi chitetezo chochepa chachinyengo, zomwe achibale anu nthawi zina amakuchitirani inu, komanso kwa ana kuchokera ku zovuta za imfa - imfa ya chimbalangondo chanu chomwe mumakonda pamasamba ochapira kapena imfa ya nsomba zomwe mumakonda.
Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani pamene nthawi ikuchiritsa mabala anu? Kupambana kwa chithandizochi kudzakhala mu njira yoyenera ya khalidwe la wodwalayo. Palibe mankhwala onse, chifukwa palibe malangizo onse. Chilichonse chimakhala mosiyana, nthawi izi. Kodi mkazi nthawi zambiri amachita chiyani?
- Mzimayi akulira. Izi ndi zabwino, koma chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kutengedwa. Kulira kumathandiza, koma chirichonse chikusowa muyeso. Ngati simukulowa mumasewera, zonsezi zidzakhala ndi zotsatira zabwino pa mahomoni. Zifukwa za misozi, mwinamwake zambiri.
- Ali ndi mkazi wina, wandiponyera, ali bwino kuposa ine, ndipo ndikuipiraipira, ndine wochenjera kwambiri, chifuwa chachikulu, chochepa, mafuta ndi zina zotero.
- Ndine ndekha, sindikusowa aliyense, ndine cholengedwa chopanda pake, palibe yemwe amandikonda ...
"Ndilibenso wina woti ndizidalira, ndine ndekha, ndilibe kanthu koti ndikhale ndi moyo, ndilibe malo okhala, ndilibe munthu wotsamira ..."
Tiyeni titenge zonsezi ndi:
- Zowopsya! Ndakhala zaka zambiri pa cholengedwa chopanda phindu, yemwe adawerengedwa ndi karoti ndipo atengedwa kuchokera ku stall ...
Ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo, mukhoza kusangalala kuti mudatuluka ndi malipiro ochepa ndipo mumamuchotsa nthawi. Mutha kukumbukira m'malingaliro a mkazi wolimba mtima amene adadzipereka yekha ku moyo ndi munthu wolemekezeka, kotero iye anamasula iwe.
- Kubwezera. Pomwepo payenera kukhala kulingalira. Tonse ndife anthu okalamba, ndipo palibe chifukwa choyenera kukumbutsidwa za kupewa ndi kuteteza matenda opatsirana pogonana. Zonsezi zimathandiza mkazi kuti athawe kusungulumwa ndipo amachititsa kuti azidziona kuti ndi wodalirika. Musatsikire kumtunda ndipo chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kupezeka pamene mukudzipereka nokha. Aloleni iwo agonjetse. Pambuyo pake, ndiye ukhoza kubweretsa ma bouquets kuchokera kwa amuna okongola.
- Amamwa. Zikuwoneka kuti siledzera, ngakhale zilipo zoterezi. Zikuwoneka kuti Martini adzakuthandizani. Koma si vinyo, osati mowa, osati Martini yomwe imathandiza. Mlengalenga ndi kampani ikuthandizani. Njira zowonjezereka zowonetsera chinyengo cha "Sindiri ndekha" ndikudzidalira, ndizochita masewera olimbitsa thupi, kutuluka ndi anzanu "mu kuwala", khalani olimba mtima. Anzanga, akuyesera kukopera kanema, ku funso langa, "Ndi filimu yanji?", Iye anandiyankha "Ziri bwanji filimu, ngati pali chifukwa chokhalira!".
Akupeza zolaula. Pali zinthu ziwiri zomwe mwasankha kale, mwazikonda, mudazichita, koma mutakwatirana, munali chabe nthawi kapena chinachake chimene mumafuna kuchita, koma pazifukwa zingapo simungathe. Tsopano mukhoza kuchita zinthu zomwe mumazikonda, monga momwe mtima wanu umafunira. Izi zidzakhala njira zabwino zowonjezera. Ndibwino kuti ana athe kutenga nawo mbali.
Akupitirizabe kukhala. Tangoganizirani zimene mungayembekezere. Nonse inu mukhoza, ingokhala oleza mtima, musakhale wamanyazi, kubwezeretsanso zabwino. Mukhoza kukondana ndi mlendo, kulira pa filimuyo, mukhoza, kuyambitsa kite ndi ana.
Tsopano ife tikudziwa momwe tingayambire moyo watsopano pambuyo pa chisudzulo. Moyo ukuyamba. Tenga wekha, ndipo iwe udzakhala wopambana, ndipo chirichonse chikhala chabwino mu moyo wako.