Zifukwa za kubwerera kwa mwamuna kumapeto kungakhale zambiri. Zimadalira nthawi zambiri ngati momwe zizoloŵezi zimakhudzira kusintha kwa moyo. Pali zizoloŵezi zochepazi, ndipo tidzakambirana zofunikira, kuti muthe kusankha njira yabwino kwambiri kwa mwamuna wanu. Malingana ndi zizoloŵezi izi za amuna zingagawidwe mu mitundu yambiri.
Nthiwatiwa
"Nthiwatiwa" imakonda kubisa mutu wake mumchenga ndikudikirira nthawi yosasangalatsa. Udindo watsopano wa abambo a banja lake umamuwopsyeza, amayesetsa kulankhula ndi anzanu aufulu, chifukwa amadziwa kuti "kumangidwa kwa nyumba" pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwanayo. Pankhaniyi, kukambirana kwachinsinsi kungathandize. Uzani mwamuna wanu kuti mwana wanu atabadwa moyo wanu udzakhala wodzala ndi misonkhano komanso zosangalatsa, chifukwa pamene mwana wabadwa, mudzakhala ndi othandizira abwino: agogo, agogo awo, kapena mwina nanny.
Mole
"Mole" sakuona chiyembekezo chabwino mwana atabadwa. Amatsimikiza kuti ndalama zokhazokha zowonjezera zidzathandiza kuti banja likhale losangalala komanso losangalala. Iye amapita kuntchito, akuiwala kuti mkazi wake amafunikira chikhalidwe chake. Ntchito yowonjezera yowonjezera ingachepetse thanzi lake, choncho ndibwino kuti mutenge bajeti ya banja. Musati muyikeni, yesani zofuna zanu. Mukakambirana momasuka ndi mwamuna wake, nenani kuti mwana wanu amafunikira bambo wathanzi. Gwiritsani ntchito mlunguli kuti mutenge nthawi yambiri mu mpweya wabwino, yendani mozungulira dziwe, muzichita masewera olimbitsa thupi awiri, makamaka wothandiza wothandizira. Zochita masewerawa sizithandiza kokha ubale wa banja, komanso kukhazikitsa kubereka.
Umboni
"Tester" amayang'ana mphamvu ya mphamvu zanu ndi mphamvu ya dongosolo la mitsempha. Chizoloŵezichi chikhoza kupangidwa kuyambira ali mwana, pamene adawona ubale wa makolowo: ngati bamboyo atachedwa kuntchito, ndiye kuti banja laima. Afuna kukhala wofunika kwambiri m'banja mwanu. Ngati mumangokhalira kubwerera kumbuyo ndikudzudzula mwamuna, chikumbumtima chake chidzapatsidwa chizindikiro - "Amakonda!" Sindikukulimbikitsani kuti musayanjane, koma ndikupemphani kuti mudzifunse nokha: "Zingachitike bwanji ngati atakhala paulendo?" . Inde, mayankho angakhale osiyana, koma ndikukuuzani kuti mutengepo. Werengani bukhu limene simunakhale nalo kale. Mukafika pakhomo ndikupeza kuti mukutsatira mfundo yosangalatsa, mumamuuza momveka bwino kuti mwamuna wanu sangalandire zomwe akuyembekeza komanso adzamvetsa kuti chikondi chanu sichingakhale chopanda phindu Mwamuna akadzabwerako, nthawi yomweyo achoke kuntchito yanu, muuzeni momwe mumamuphonyera ndikumuwononga madzulo pamodzi.
Avenger
"Wobwezera" amalanga chifukwa cha "khalidwe loipa". Anazindikira kuti mumadalira kwambiri kukhalapo kwake, simungadzikonze nokha ndikuchita bizinesi. Mlungu watha iye sanakonde kuti munayankhula kwa nthawi yaitali pafoni ndi amayi anu. Adzabwezera kusasamala kwa munthu wake pobwerera kwawo mochedwa. Ngati nkhaniyo ili choncho, ndi chizindikiro choopsa - simunathe kukhala munthu wolemekezeka ngakhale m'banja lanu. M'tsogolomu, mutha kukhala ndi ubale wofanana ndi ana, amakukakamizani ndikuwathandiza ngati wophika kapena woyeretsa. Pamene izo zikupitirira, dzipange nokha maphunziro. Werengani mabuku pa kukula kwaumwini, kuyamba kuphunzira chinenero chachilendo kapena kukongoletsa mtanda.
Mosasamala kanthu machitidwe omwe mumasankha, tsatirani lamulo: mwamuna ndi munthu wina. Malo ake mu chikhalidwe amatsimikiziridwa ndi zenizeni za psyche yake. Akazi ena amawoneka kuti moyo wa amuna ndi wosavuta, ayi, ndi wosiyana.
Mwamuna ndiye Mlengi wa umoyo pa maziko auzimu, omwe amamangidwa ndi mkazi. Kotero moyo wathu, akazi okondedwa, unalengedwa kwathunthu. Ngati mumakhala limodzi posachedwapa, ganizirani zomwe zimakhudza mwamuna wanu wokondedwa wa amayi ake, mlongo, chinthu china chofunika kwambiri kwa iye (musamaope!) Akazi, kambiranani nawo kapena funsani za iwo mwatsatanetsatane. Mwinamwake iye anabwezereranso ndi agogo anga aamuna? Tengerani kwa iye kapepala ka pies nthawi zina pamper.
Amanena kuti nthawi zonse mwamuna amakhala wamng'ono kwambiri m'banja. Amayi ambiri amaseka mawu amenewa patatha zaka zambiri asanakhale "choonadi" cha mawu awa. Kutsogozedwa ndi mawu awa, iwe udzakonda mwamuna wako momwe iye akufunira. Zindikirani, osati inu, koma iye!
Pulumutsani chikondi mosavuta, ngati mumvetsetsa kuti palibe amene amafunika kulipira aliyense, koma akhoza kuchita ngati akufuna. Pangani mkhalidwe wokondana m'banja. Pangani nyumba komwe mwamuna wanu abwerere tsiku ndi tsiku.
Khalani okondwa!