Konzekerani nokha kuti mukhale ndi ntchito yovuta komanso yovuta, "chikondi" chophweka komanso "kuyang'ana kwachisoni" simudzatha. Taonani malamulo angapo omwe angakuthandizeni kukhalabe ndi ubale wabwino ndi mwamuna wanu.
Njira yopita kumtima kwa munthu imakhala m'mimba mwake.
Nthawi zina amai amakono amaiwala za malamulo otchukawa m'malo mwa nyumba, ophika ndi chikondi, chakudya chamadzulo akudikirira pa tebulo kwa agalu otentha kapena zakudya zowonongeka. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi nthawi yochuluka komanso khama kuti mugwire ntchito, ndipo madzulo mutatopa, khalani ndi nthawi yokonzekera munthu yemwe amamukonda kapena kuphika chakudya chodabwitsa kwambiri. Muloleni amvetse ndikumvetsetsa luso lanu ndi khama lanu.
Ngati simukudziwa kuphika, ndiye nthawi yoyamba kuphunzira. Mwamwayi, pali mabuku ambiri ndi ma webusaiti operekedwa ku zokondweretsa zokondweretsa. Ngati amayi anu kapena chibwenzi amadziwa kuphika mokoma, afunseni. Iwo adzakondwera kukuthandizani inu kukhala mayi wabwino wa nyumba, kugawana "zinsinsi zawo zazing'ono".
Ndinadabwa munthu wanu!
Musaiwale chithunzi cha "mayi" wa "Soviet" atavala chovala chovala chovala chovala chovala chokongoletsera pamutu pake ndikuyendetsa mano. Amapanga ambiri amakono a zovala zazimayi amapanga mndandanda makamaka za masokosi a kunyumba. Zingakhale zokongoletsera, zokongola, zovala ndi zazifupi. Mukhoza kusankha kalembedwe kamene kamakuyenererani, ndi kutaya thukuta lakale lomwe mwakhala mukuyenda zaka zitatu zapitazo!
Ngati simukugwira ntchito ndi kuchita ntchito zapakhomo, izi sizowonjezereka kuti mukhale "gulu", lomwe limangokhalira kukonzekera kudya ndi kumalankhula ndi anansi awo. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi nkhani, fufuzani zokondweretsa zanu, zokondweretsa, lembani "maphunziro ndi kudula" (zina zilizonse zomwe mukufuna).
Khalani okondweretsa nthawi zonse kwa mwamuna wanu. Sinthani chithunzi chanu, pangani maimidwe osadziwika. Ndipo mwamuna wanu sadzayang'ana mbali ina.
Khalani bwenzi lake, mbuye ndi amayi.
Ngakhale zachilendo kuyanjana kwa maudindo amenewa kungawonekere, izi ndizofunikira kwambiri. Mwamuna amafuna bwenzi lomvera yemwe angakambirane naye mpira ndi miseche kuntchito. Mwamuna amafunikira mayi yemwe amuthandiza, nthawi zina amamvetsera, amusamalira, chakudya chokoma ndikutsatira nyumba, amayi, amene adzanong'oneza bondo ndikukuuzani momwe mungachitire. Mwamuna amafunikira mbuye wokonda komanso wosasangalatsa. Pano, ndikuganiza, ndemanga ndizopambana.
Muloleni iye amve ngati mlenje.
Kuchokera ku makolo achikulire omwe anali achikulire analibe mzimu wosadziwika wa "wosaka". Kulimbana kwambiri ndi mayesero, okoma nyama. Mulole kuti amve kuti sangakupezeni mosavuta, kuti ayese kuyesa asanatenge "sitiroberi". Amuna amayamikira akazi omwe amafunika kuti azifunidwa.
Aloleni amathera nthawi ndi anzanu.
Amayi ambiri pambuyo pa mwamuna wina ali ndi udindo: "Muyenera kukhala ndi nthawi yanu yonse yaulere, ndipo mulibe chochita ndi anzanga." Uku ndi kulakwitsa kwakukulu. Lolani kuti mwamuna wanu azikonzekera nthawi yake. Musanavomereze kuitanira makolo kuti azipita kumapeto kwa sabata ku dacha, funsani wokondedwa wanu. Choncho, mumudziwitsa kuti mumalemekeza maganizo ake ndikuyamikira nthawi yake.
Sikoyenera kutenga udindo wonse pa zosankha zofunika, amuna omwe amakonda kusankha ndi kukonza. Apo ayi, akhoza kusamukira kwa munthu wochulukirapo komanso wosagwira ntchito.
Zokwanira kumutcha!
Mukudziwa kuti tsopano ali kuntchito, ndipo mwinamwake, mutanganidwa ndi kukambirana kwakukulu, tsambulani foni pamzere ndipo musaitane kuti mupeze kuphika chakudya, kapena funsani nthawi zikwi zana: "Kodi mumandikonda?". Musayang'ane kuitana kwake pa maminiti asanu ngati atakhala pa ntchito kapena ndi anzanu. Mafunso ovuta amakwiyitsa anthu.
Fufuzani kokha nkhani yofunika. Ndipo mwachidziwikire, msiyeni amve, muli kuti, ndipo muli bwanji! Ndikhulupirire, posachedwa munthuyo mwiniyo ayamba kukuitanani.
Nsanje si malo.
Mwamuna aliyense ndi mwiniwake, ngati mkazi ali pafupi ndi iye, zikutanthauza kuti iyeyo ndiwake, ndipo sangalekerere kukondana ndi ena omwe akuimira abambo. Komabe, iwo okha amachoka pomwepo. Khalani kosavuta kuti aganizire za amayi omwe akupita. Kumbukirani, amuna amakonda maso!
Musamupangitse chifukwa cha nsanje, ndipo musamachite nsanje ndi mnzanu aliyense. Chinthu chachikulu mu chiyanjano ndiko kukhulupilira, komwe kungathenso kutaya chifukwa cha nsanje yanu yopanda nzeru. Kuonjezera apo, mukutentha kwaukali, mungathe kumuuza mwamuna zinthu zambiri zosasangalatsa, zomwe mudzayenera kupepesa. Mukulifuna?
Kunama kwa chipulumutso.
Apanso ine ndikufuna kubwereza kuti chinthu chofunikira kwambiri pazondondomeko ndi chidaliro. Ngakhale bodza laling'ono kwambiri lingathe kuwononga zomwe mwakhala mukuzimanga kwa nthawi yayitali. Ziribe kanthu momwe izo zikumveka mozama, koma choonadi chowawa chiri chabwino kuposa bodza lokoma. Uzani munthuyo za zinsinsi zanu zonse. Musalole kuti mukhale ndi zinthu kapena zochitika zomwe muyenera kubisala. Mwachibadwa, mumafunanso chinthu chomwecho kwa wokondedwa wanu. Masewera sayenera kukhala pakhomo limodzi.
Musasokoneze ubale wanu ndi anthu ena.
Ngakhalenso mikangano yanu yaikulu ndi yoopsya sikuli koyenera kulankhula za mabwenzi awo, makamaka kwa amayi anu. Ubale wanu - ndi ntchito yanu yokha ndipo mumaphatikizapo "disassembly" ya munthu wachitatu - wopusa ndi wolakwika. Kwa amuna, ndikofunikira kuti musalankhule za ubale wanu ndi abwenzi ndi makolo. Choncho, ngati muli ndi "buckwheat", onetsetsani kuti omwe akudziwa mavuto anu "sungani pakamwa panu."
Malamulo onsewa ali oona kwa amuna ambiri. Inde, muyenera kudziwa zizoloŵezi ndi khalidwe la wokondedwa wanu, pa maziko ake, mungathe kuwonjezera mndandandawu. Lolani ubale wanu ukhale wachikondi, kulemekezana, kukhulupirika ndi kukhulupirika!