Ubale pambali, umene nthawi zina umakopeka ndi amuna, ndi gawo laling'ono pa zonse zomwe zimachitika m'moyo wake. Choncho, nthawi zambiri pakusankha "mkazi wodwala kapena mkazi wathanzi" amapambana ndendende mkaziyo.
Banja lovomerezeka ndi lamphamvu kuposa losavomerezeka - izi zimadabwitsa okondedwa nthaŵi zonse. Koma kuchokera kwa akazi ovomerezekawa si ophweka ...
Nthawi zoopsa
Amayi ambiri amazindikira kuti amuna amasintha nthawi. Mosiyana ndi ife, akazi, amatha kupirira "pambali ziwiri." Pomaliza, iwo, mosiyana ndi ife, samasamba amuna awiri, ndipo zosowa zogonana, monga lamulo, ndi zokwanira kwa amayi onsewo.
Amanena kuti amuna amasintha okha ndi thupi, ndi akazi mwa moyo, ndipo kuchokera ku chigwirizanochi chamunthu chimaonedwa kuti ndi chopanda pake. Chiwonongeko choopsa! Amuna ndi mitala, kutanthauza kuti akhoza kukonda moona mtima amai onsewa. Ndipo pano nkofunika kumvetsa kuti chikondi chatsopano, poyamba, osati kwanthawizonse, ndipo kachiwiri, sizikutanthauza kuti mwamunayo wasiya kukonda. Mwinamwake amatha kusiya mkazi wake, ngati akudwala kwa nthawi yaitali komanso mozama. Koma ngati malingalirowo anali owona mtima, "abambo ndi abambo" awa angalimbikitsidwe kuchokera kwa mbuye wake ndipo nthawi yomweyo amathandizira mkazi wake walamulo.
Kawirikawiri, zokondweretsa za amuna zikuwonekera nthawi. Izi ndizoperewera, zoopsya za kupsinjika maganizo ndi kuchoka ku zenizeni, kapena mosiyana-njira yowonetsera, kuwonetsa pamaso pa mkazi wosadziwika. Mkazi amadziwa momwe wapatsidwira bwino ndipo amayesetsa kuti apindule nazo. "Wowonera chipani chachitatu", chomwe chimakhala mbuye - mwayi wabwino kwambiri wosunga chifuwa ndi pokakarekat lonse nkhuku coop.
- Woyamba kubadwa
Zoopsa kwambiri ndi gawo loyambalo, pamene mwamuna adang'ambika pakati pa mkazi "wodwala" kapena mayi wathanzi wathanzi, ali ndi mimba ndi kubala. Kutenthedwa koyamba mmimba, mkazi amakhala wopanda amoeba ... Poyamba amamvetsa kuti sangapite kulikonse, ndiyeno-miyezi yopanda tulo ndi moyo. Bytovuha timitengo, timakhala kumbali zonse. Ndikufuna kubwerera kunyumba ndikupumula - choncho ayi, ndikufuula chilombo chaching'ono, chimene mkaziyo amamvetsera ndi mphamvu zake zonse ...
Koma ziribe kanthu momwe munthu amalota maloto, analawa mtendere ndi chitonthozo, chilakolako ndi zosowa zachilendo mu ubale "wamanzere", iye amamukoka iye kunyumba, wolowa nyumba ...
- Timadziwana ndi mtima
Nthawi yotsatira yovuta, pamene mwamuna sangathe kusankha yemwe angasankhe - mkazi wodwala kapena mzimayi wathanzi, ali ndi zaka zambiri. Nyumba zonsezo ndi zofanana, ndipo apo, "kuthengo" - Iye. Wathanzi, wokongola, wokondwa nthawi zonse kumuwona, ndipo nthawi zonse amalephera kuchita chilakolako cha kugonana (monga zikuwonekera).
Nchiyani chimapangitsa amuna kuzungulira akazi awo odwala, kapena akazi wathanzi - sindizo zonse zimene angafune? Mwina mwatsuka masokosi kapena borscht, ana, olandira kapena "maganizo a anthu"? Ayi ndithu. Makhalidwe? Choncho zizolowezi zimakhala zosavuta kusintha.
Funsani mwamuna - koma osati mwamuna wanu. Lankhulani ndi apaulendo anzanu osakondana kapena abwenzi akale. Iwo adzatha kutenga zithunzithunzi zolondola ndi kufotokoza momwe zimakhalira - amapita "kumanzere", akubwerera ngati boomerang, nthawi zonse kunyumba.
Ubale unayesedwa mphamvu
Ngati muli owona mtima ndi inu nokha, ngakhale mkazi wodwala kwambiri ali bwino kuposa wokonda wathanzi. Maubwenziwa ayesedwa kale ndi nthawi. Iye ndi woyamikira. Iye ndi mayi wa ana ake. Onse pamodzi adakumana ndi mavuto ndi nthawi zovuta. Ndipo kodi mkazi "wina" adzaima, ngakhale mwamphamvu ndi wokonda kwambiri, chimodzimodzi? Kodi simudzamupereka pa nthawi yovuta kwambiri?
Ndipo ngakhale awiriwo atagwirizana kwambiri - iwo, amati, amawerengana ngati buku lotseguka - izi zikhoza kukhala chifukwa chakupita kumanzere. Koma kuti apitilizebe kukhala ndi chibwenzi ndi munthu yemwe adakhulupirira zana limodzi. Ndipo ndi ndani, koma osati mkazi wake? Chifukwa cha iye, adayamba kuchita zoopsa kwambiri - amaika sitampu mu pasipoti yake, adzalumikiza ubale wawo mwalamulo.
Kuyang'ana wina ndi mzake kwamuyaya
Mulirilonse, ngakhale iyeyo ndi mkaziyo akhumudwitsidwa wina ndi mzake "pamaso pa buluu m'maso," anthu amakwaniritsa zofuna zawo. Kwa ambuye mungathe kubwera ndikumenyana kapena mosiyana, nadraennym kuwala. Ndicho muyenera kukhala pang'ono chabe osati nthawi zonse - ndipo ndikutopetsa.
Inde, mkazi wodwala amene nthawi zina amafunika kusamalidwa, amene amamva mawu opatsirana pogonana ali mwana, ndipo amapewa kugwiritsa ntchito makabati opatsa mphamvu ngati moto (zonse ndi zotsika mtengo kumeneko!) Kodi ndizolowera za moyo. Ndikufuna ndakatulo, koma simudya.
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