Chinthu chofunika kwambiri kukumbukira ndi chakuti holideyi ndi yambiri kwa inu, makolo, osati kwa mwanayo. Zoonadi, munthu wake ayenera kuganiziridwa, koma panthawi yomweyi kuti amvetsetse - kusonkhana phokoso, makampani ochezeka komanso maholide "ozizira" m'mabanja a ana a chaka chimodzi sagwirizana.
Nanga mungaganizire chiyani? Onetsetsani kuti mupange chikhalidwe cha chinachake chamatsenga ndi chosangalatsa - musiyeni mwanayo kuyambira ali mwana, Tsiku lobadwa likhudzana ndi holide. Dzukani m'mawa kwambiri ndipo pangani pakhomo la nyumba zamakono, ma garlands ndi zojambulajambula. Lolani mwanayo lero kuti achoke ku malamulowo ndi kukhala owonongeka kuposa momwe nthawizonse zimakhalira. Sankhani nyimbo - ndibwino ngati ndizokonda nyimbo zonse zojambulajambula. Koma panthawi yomweyi, onetsetsani kuti mlingo wa phokoso siudutsa pamtunda wina - ngati mwanayo, akuyesera kukugawanizani maganizo ake, ayenera kulira - akhoza kukhala wamantha komanso osangalatsa.
Ngati n'kotheka, kudabwa kudzuka. Osasangalatsa, ndipo ngati pali nyimbo, nyimbo, masewera okondedwa pa kama - ngati mutabwera kudzathokoza, azikongoletsera chikhomo (ichi chokha muyenera kuchita pasanafike - ngakhale usiku). Yesetsani kukhala pafupi ndi kuyang'ana nthawi yomwe mwanayo akutsegula maso ake - mphatso yabwino kwambiri kuti awonongeke ndi kuyamba tsiku ndi kumwetulira kwa amayi ndikupsompsona.
Lolani woyambitsa waumboni akhale wodziimira. Mpatseni iye ufulu wosankha diresi. Inde, mukhoza kuika zinthu zingapo zomwe zili zabwino kwa inu, koma ngati mwanayo sakonda chilichonse - musamachepetse kusankha. Ngati chochitika cha chikondwererocho chifuna kutenga nawo mbali pazokonzekera - mupatseni ntchito zosavuta, kotero mutsimikiziranso kuti kale ali okalamba mokwanira ndipo ili ndilo tchuthi lake.
Kuphimba tebulo, kumbukirani kumamatira ku mfundo ziwiri - wathanzi ndi wokongola. Zakudya zikhale zathanzi komanso zathanzi, ngati mukufuna soseji kapena chinachake, yesetsani kuika mbale kunja kwa malo obwera kwa mwanayo. Mapemphero a saladi ndi mbale zazikulu zidzathandiza masamba ochepa komanso ophwima, opangidwa mophiphiritsira. Tsopano pa intaneti mungapeze maphikidwe ambiri okondweretsa - saladi monga mapiri, mbatata yosenda ndi nyama monga nyanja ndi ngalawa ya pirate, masangweji monga mawonekedwe a zinyama, zomera ndi zina zambiri.
Chikumbukiro chodabwitsa komanso pa nthawi yomweyo chokongoletsera cha chipinda - mapepala ndi mapepala apanyumba. Chimodzi mwa malingaliro okondweretsa kwambiri akuyenda posachedwapa pakati pa makolo - mtengo wamtundu wa mnyamata wa kubadwa - ndiyekha mphatso yaumwini. Kumeneko pa nthambi iliyonse pali wachibale ndipo chithunzi chimagwiritsidwa ntchito. Ngakhale patapita zaka zambiri, kuchotsa chojambulachi pamakona obisika, mwana wanuyo ndi wokondwa ndipo akhoza kudabwa kuti aphunzire.
Kumbukirani, ndibwino kupanga kuchokera kumanja ndi mapazi a msungwana wamng'ono. Izi zikhoza kuchitika mwa kulankhulana ndi makampani apadera, ndi kugula "kuchita izo nokha" ndikudzipangira nokha.
Makolo ambiri amameta ana mu chaka nalyso, amakhulupirira kuti izi zimathandiza kuti tsitsi likhale lolimba komanso lolimba. Ndipo ngati muli ndi mtsikana, ndipo ali ndi mapepala abwino, ngakhale chaka? Ndiye mutha kungoyang'anila chingwe chimodzi ndikuchibisa mu chikumbutso chapadera.
Mphatso yabwino kwambiri ingakhale mbiri ya chaka choyamba cha moyo. Mulimonse mmene zingakhalire kwa kholo lirilonse lingadzipange yekha. Nyimbo yosavuta ndi albhamu "Ndinabadwira" ndipo "Chaka choyamba". Amatilola kulembetsa mwachangu kusintha komwe kuli kofunika, malinga ndi olemba, ndi mwanayo. Kukula, kulemera, pamene choyamba chinaonekera ndipo mano ena onse anatuluka, mawu oyambirira, amayesa kudzuka ndi kuyenda. Zonsezi zikuphatikiza ndi mawindo a zithunzi ndi mizere yofotokozera. Makolo athu amachitanso zomwezo, koma kenako panalibe mabuku apadera ndipo adalemba zonsezi m'mabuku ndi mabuku.
Mphatso ziyenera kusankhidwa mosamala, ndi bwino kulangiza alendo omwe amakwaniritsa zosowa ndi zofunikira za mwanayo pa msinkhu uwu. Zingakhale zinthu zosavuta zokondweretsa - zikopa za anthu olumala, magalimoto, toyese zofewa. Momwemonso ndikukhazikitsa masewera - makanema a nyimbo, okonza, cubes, mabuku ndi zina zambiri.
Mukamuitana alendo, sankhani anthu omwe amadziwa bwino mwanayo, omwe amamuwona nthawi zambiri, ndipo sadzachita mantha. Chiwerengero cha anthu akuluakulu ndi ocheperapo bwino - anthu asanu kapena asanu ndi amodzi amaposa zokwanira kuti apange chiwongoladzanja cha holide yachilendo.
Poganizira za kukonzekera tsiku lobadwa kwa mwana wa zaka chimodzi, yesetsani kuti phwando likhale phwando lapadera ndipo alendo adakumbukira woyambitsa phwando. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kumaliza mpikisano ndi ntchito. Woweruza, ndithudi, iwe uyenera kusankha mnyamata wa kubadwa. N'zotheka kupanga mapikisano kuti asamangoganizira zokhazokha - kuti amakonda kudya, choti achite, chidole chake chomwe amachikonda, mawu ake okondedwa ndi zina zotero, amene anayambitsa chikondwererochi. Mwachibadwa ndi mayankho, chifukwa palibe amene amadziwa chuma chanu, kuyambira inu. Mpikisano wopanga zojambula bwino, lolani katunduyo atengenso mbali ndikudzimva kuti akugwira nawo ntchito yosangalatsa.
Malingana ndi nyengo, mukhoza kukonza zochitika zazing'ono pamsewu. M'nyengo yozizira - mungathe kuzimitsa moto, kuyatsa magetsi a Bengal ndi kuwaza njoka, ndi masewera akunja mu chisanu amuthandiza mwanayo kuti apulumuke kunyumba kwake. M'nyengo ya chilimwe ndi bwino kumasula zida zapadera kapena mabuloni wamba kumlengalenga.
Panthawi ya tchuthi, nthawi ndi nthawi mulole chikwangwani chizipumula kuchokera kwa anthu - yendani naye ku chipinda china - kotero adzagawana nanu, omwe adapeza zojambula pang'onopang'ono, ndipo sadzatchulidwanso. Kuti asamve kuti adzalangidwa kapena kukhumudwa panthawi yomweyi, mukhoza kumutcha kuti akungokuthandizani ndi chinachake.
Nthawi yojambula ndi yofunika kwambiri. Tonsefe timafuna kutenga tsiku lofunika kwambiri pa moyo wa ana athu, koma choti tichite ngati mwana sakonda kutenga zithunzi ndikuthawa, sanawone kamera. Zikatero, yesetsani kujambula zithunzi osadziwika pamene ali ndi chinthu choyenera kutengedwa. Musayese kukonza dongosolo lalikulu kapena kufunafuna kumwetulira. Ndi bwino kuti zithunzi zisangalale komanso zikhale zosangalatsa kusiyana ndi kuwononga mwanayo ndi phwando lonyansa.
Ndipo potsiriza ndidzanena - chinthu chofunika kwambiri si momwe mumagwiritsira ntchito tsiku lino, zomwe mumaphika, yemwe adzabwere - chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti tsiku lino lidzasangalatsa, losangalala ndi losangalala kwa mwana wanu ndi inu. Ndipo momwe mungachitire izo sizikhalabe kanthu konse.