Zikhulupiriro zokhudzana ndi kusungulumwa kwa amayi

Azimayi, omwe pazifukwa zina sangathe kukhazikitsa miyoyo yawo ndipo akukakamizidwa kuti azikhala moyo okha, sizing'onozing'ono. Anthu samakhala aulesi kwambiri kuti amvetse zomwe zimayambitsa zochitika izi ndipo amayesa kufotokoza. Koma kawirikawiri onse amatsutsa malemba ndizopanda nzeru komanso zongopeka zomwe si zoona. Tiyeni tiyese (mothandizidwa ndi akatswiri a maganizo) kuti tipewe maganizo olakwika okhudzana ndi kusungulumwa kwa amayi. Bodza Lomwe: Akazi amakakamizika kukhala okha chifukwa cha maonekedwe awo osangalatsa
Poyamba, zonse zimakhala zoonekeratu: ngati chilengedwe chimakhala "joked" chifukwa cha maonekedwe a mayi, kapena samamulola kuti azindikire kukongola kwake, kumubisala pansi pa chovala chosasangalatsa, mwayi wokondweretsa anyamata kapena mwamuna sakhala wovuta.

Malinga ndi akatswiri, choonadi m'mawu amenewa chilipo. Komabe, maonekedwe sali ovomerezeka. Ndipo chitsanzo cha izi ndi unyinji wa ovala bwino, okonzeka bwino, amayi omwe akukhalabe osakwatira kapena alibe wokhala naye. Mwamwayi, sakudziwa kapena kuiwala kuti anthu sakufuna zokongola zokha, komanso iwo omwe adzakhale omasuka. Choncho, mayi yemwe ali ndi zizoloŵezi za "chisanu chachisanu" ali ndi mwayi wochepa kuyembekezera, mpaka panthawi yopuma pantchito, kalonga yemwe amatha kusungunula madzi ake.

Mwachizoloŵezi, nthawi zambiri "ambuye" oterewa sasowa luso lophunziranso la kuyankhulana ndi amuna kapena akazi anzawo. Amagwiritsa ntchito chuma chawo chonse (zakuthupi ndi zakuthupi) kuti atsimikizire kuti maonekedwe awo akugwirizana ndi chithunzi chabwino chomwe adzikonzera okha. Choncho, kupanga chiyanjano ndi munthu alibe mphamvu yotsala, koma kuti mukhale nawo, nkofunika kugwira ntchito mwakhama! Nthawi zambiri, monga mnzanu mu moyo, mwamuna amasankha mtsikana ndi mawonekedwe osasintha, koma kuyesera kumupatsa zomwe akufuna, kumupatsa chikondi ndi kutonthoza. Ndipo zokongola zosayandikika, nyenyezi, zikhalebe pa "bwinja".

Bodza Lachiwiri: kusowa kwa luso la zachuma
Amakhulupirira kuti imodzi mwa ntchito zazikulu za amayi ndi kuphunzitsa mwana wawo kuthana ndi ntchito zapakhomo. Kuwopseza mbadwo wachinyamata womwe ukukula chifukwa chakuti ziphuphu ndi kusayendetsa bwino zimawopseza anthu onse omwe angathe kukhala nawo, agogo ndi amayi amachititsa kuti olowa nyumba awo azikwanitsa kuphika, chitsulo, kusunga nyumba yoyera ndi yowonongeka ndizofunika kwambiri kuti amuna azidzawonekera poyandikira akazi pazowonjezereka. Kuonjezerapo, ichi ndi chimodzi mwa njira zosunga munthu pambali panu.

Komabe, akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti chuma cha amai sichiri chinsinsi chokha cha moyo waumwini wokhazikika. Sikuti anthu onse ali ofanana. Milandu pamene "wophika kuchokera kwa Mulungu" kapena wopereka manja m'manja onse akudutsa m'bwato la banja - galimoto ndi ngolo yaing'ono. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti mwamuna sangakwanitse kukhala pafupi naye, mzimayi woteroyo, amamupweteka kwambiri, choncho amamukonda munthu wopanda matalente azachuma, koma osangalatsa ndi makhalidwe ake. Kotero, pafupi ndi kutha kwakuti nyumba yanu ikhale yoyera komanso yosavuta, ndizovuta kwambiri kuti muzigwira ntchito nthawi zonse pazinthu zokhuza ubwino, zomwe siziyenera kumveka osati kuwerenga magazini a amayi okha. Pambuyo pake, palibe amene akufuna kutembenuka kuchokera kwa mkazi wokondedwa kupita mnyumba yophweka, ndipo amuna ambiri sakufuna kuwona zochitika zoterezi ....

Nthano zitatu: khalidwe loipa
Kukhala ntchentche ndi njira ina yopezera kusungulumwa. Pambuyo pake, pali anthu ochepa amene akufuna kumenyana tsiku ndi tsiku ndi munthu wopusa komanso wosayenerera.

Chabwino, koma osati kwenikweni. Ndipotu, kufotokozera nyimbo yodziŵika bwino kamodzi, bitch ndi yosiyana ... Akazi omwe amadziwika ndi zopanda pake, koma ndani amatha kusamalira wokondedwa wawo ndi kukwaniritsa zofunikira zake, akhale ndi mwayi wabwino wosunga munthu pafupi naye zaka zambiri. Ngati, ngakhale zili choncho, malingaliro a mayiyo amangoyendayenda ndi dziko lakwawo, ndipo munthuyo amakhala chida chokha chimene amatsimikizira ndi kulandira phindu lililonse, ndiye wina angaganize bwinobwino kuti maubwenzi amenewa atha posachedwa.

Nthano Zinayi: pabedi - "kukongola kwagona"
Ambiri oimira kugonana mwachilungamo amakhulupirira kuti kwa mwamuna, choyamba, ulemu wa kugonana kwa mkazi ndi wofunikira. Koma akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti kugonana sikuli kofunika pachiyanjano, kotero palibe amuna ambiri. Ndipotu, m'kupita kwa nthawi, moyo wogonana komanso ngakhale mabanja osakonzekera mu ndondomekoyi akusinthidwa, okwatirana akupeza chidziwitso ndikusintha zofuna za wina ndi mzake.Ngati mwamuna yemweyo waletsa chiyanjano chifukwa chakuti amakhumudwa ndi kugonana ndi mnzake, kodi n'zotheka kuyembekezera kuti munthuyo ndi zinthu zofunika kwambiri zidzakhala mzanga woyenera pa moyo?

Nthano zisanu: osadzikonda nokha
Ndithudi anthu ambiri amadziwa mawu akuti, kudzikonda nokha, mudzachititsa ena kudzikonda nokha. Komabe, wina sayenera kulitenga kwenikweni. Inde, muyenera kukonda ndi kudzilemekeza nokha, koma kudutsa mzere ndikukhala wodzikonda, wosasamala za zosowa za ena, komabe sizothandiza, chifukwa kutsatira ndondomekoyi ndi kophweka kwambiri kuti mulekanitse otsogolera. Atakumana ndi munthu wotero, abambo samakonda kumudziana naye, chifukwa ali otsimikiza kuti mkazi, wokonzeka kukhala ndi moyo wabwino, satha kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro ake kwa wina.

Bodza Lachisanu ndi chimodzi: Amuna onse oyenerera ali kale kale
Chimodzi mwa zifukwa za amayi osakwatiwa - amuna onse akuyenerera kuti gulu la "okwatirana" liwonongeke, ndipo onse omwe adatsalira pazifukwa zina sali oyenerera kuvala dzina lodzikuza ...

Zoonadi, izi ndizo zopanda pake, chifukwa pamene anthu onse anali osakwatiwa, ndiye chifukwa chiyani chisankho chawo chinagwera pa amayi ena? Ndipo momwe mungafotokoze ndiye kuti akazi ena ali ndi zaka 50 kuti apeze mwamuna si kovuta, koma kwa wina ndi zaka 25 ndi ntchito yosatheka ... Malangizo a akatswiri a maganizo pa nkhaniyi ndi osavuta: vuto liyenera kufufuzidwa mwa inu nokha, osati mwa amuna , zomwe zikukuzungulira.

Ngati muli nokha, chifukwa chiyanjano chonse ndi amuna pambuyo pake chimathera popanda kanthu, ndiye kulingalira chifukwa chake kukomana kwabwino ndi kokongola nthawi zambiri "mbuzi" sizingatheke kuwathandiza. Musadandaule chifukwa cha karma yanu yoipa, werengani mabuku ofotokoza za "korona wosakayika" ndi ziphunzitso zina. Yesetsani kupeza nokha chifukwa chake, kusintha chinachake mwa inu nokha, ndipo mwina izi zidzakhala kusintha kwa moyo wanu.