Matendawa.
Moyo, ngati wolembedwa m'buku lodziwika "Oblomov" sakonda aliyense, koma ndendende mpaka munthuyo ali chimodzimodzi mkhalidwe womwewo. Nthawi yomweyo pali zifukwa zomveka zosachita ndi kusakhutira kusintha chirichonse. Ganizirani za mapiri a zitsulo muzozama kapena zoiwalika kumbuyo kwa tebulo la tebulo! Timayendetsa zinthu zonse mofulumira, ndipo ulesi umakwera mwakachetechete komanso mosamvetseka. Choncho, pachigawo choyamba ndikofunikira kwambiri kuvomera moona mtima - inde, ndine waulesi. Tikazindikira izi kapena zofooka zathu, timadziŵa za malo omwe zimatengera miyoyo yathu, timatha kudziyang'ana tokha kuchokera kunja ndikuwona chithunzi chenicheni cha zochitika.
Mukhoza kukhala tsiku, awiri, mwezi kapena zaka pabedi, mutakhala pafupi ndi inu mapiri a fumbi, komanso mapiri a mavuto. Mmene mungamvere ulesi ngati chizoloŵezi? Njira yokha yogonjetsera ulesi ndi kuvomereza kugonjetsedwa kwa kanthawi kochepa ndikusankha kuchita. Ndi kosavuta kuzindikira ulesi - ndi ife mwa mawu amtendere, tikuwonetsa kuti ndibwino kuti tizinama ndi TV m'malo mokonza chakudya, kukambirana kokondweretsa ku "ICQ" kuyambira m'mawa mpaka madzulo, muzipangizo zamakompyuta ndi mabuku okondweretsa - muzonse kupatulapo ntchito. Ngati mutha kugonjetsa mayesero, patapita masiku angapo munthu akhoza kumva wofooka, kukhala wopanda pake komanso wokhumudwa chifukwa chosadziwika. Ngakhale, chifukwa chake chiri chowonekera - mavuto onsewa kuchokera ku ulesi omwe ayenera kugonjetsedwa.
Njira zoyamba.
Aliyense amene adayesedwa kuti akhale waulesi pakakhala koyenera kuti achite amadziwa kuti vuto silofunikira pakuchita chinachake, koma muyeso loyamba lomwe limakulekanitsani ndi moyo waulesi ndi moyo wamoyo. Ndili sitepe yoyamba yomwe anthu amawona mantha aakulu, chifukwa pali zochitika zambiri zomwe zili patsogolo, zambiri zomwe ziyenera kuyimitsidwa pamtunda, zambiri zatayika.
Muyenera kuyamba pang'ono, ngati mutapita nthawi yaitali kuti mufike ku bizinesi mofanana ndi onse omwe akuzungulirani, pangakhale kusokonezeka. Palibe wothamanga yemwe adzaphunzitse mofulumira chimodzimodzi pambuyo pa kupweteka kapena kupumula kwautali, ndipo palibe sloth yomwe iyenera kuyamba kusintha kuchokera kuthetsa mavuto apadziko lonse. Pali njira yakale ya anthu, momwe mungagonjetse ulesi popanda kuwonongeka kwakukulu nokha - muyenera kuyamba mwayeretsa nyumba ndi malo ogwira ntchito. Agogo athu aakazi adanena - chisokonezo m'nyumba - chisokonezo pamutu mwanga, ndipo ndi zoona. Koma ndi bwino kutaya phukusi lopanda kanthu, kutulutsa zinyalala, kukonza zinthu m'malo, kupukuta fumbi ndi kuchotsa malo odyera pansi ndi patebulo, chifukwa zimakhala zosavuta kupuma ndipo zimakhala zosavuta kuyambitsa china chatsopano. Aliyense amadziwa kuti ndizosangalatsa kukhala ndi chiyero kusiyana ndi pakati pa fumbi ndi mapiri a zinthu zobalalika. Ndipo ngati kuyeretsa tsiku ndi tsiku kumakhala chizoloŵezi, sikudzatenga nthawi yambiri, ndipo simudzapeza nokha pakati pa mulu wa zinyalala.
Nthawi.
Chimodzi mwa zifukwa zazikulu zomwe anthu ayambira bizinesi yawo ndizolephera kuthera nthawi yawo. Mfundo yakuti ndi zofunika kukonzekera tsiku lanu, kuti nthawi zina ndondomeko ndi ndondomeko zowonongeka zomwe zimathandiza kuti musaiwale chofunikira ndi kuti musatulukemo, amanenedwa zambiri. Koma pa chifukwa china ife timanyalanyaza izi nthawi zambiri.
Pa chilichonse chimene timachita, pali nthawi - komanso kugona, ndi chakudya, ndi ntchito komanso zosangalatsa. Ngati zinthu zina zimayamba kusintha malo, ngati timayamba kupereka tulo tontchito kapena kugwira ntchito kuti tipumule, ndiye kuti sitidzakhalapo. Sizinthu zonse zomwe timayenera kuchita tsiku ndi tsiku, timakonda chimodzimodzi. Ngati mutayika khungu lachifuwa ndi labwino kwambiri, ndiye yeretsani chimbudzi pambuyo pake - ayi. Koma ife tonse tikudziwa chomwe chiti chichitike ngati ife tisiye kuchita izi zosasangalatsa koma zofunikira. Ndikofunika kufalitsa ntchito zanu kuti zovuta zina zovuta kapena zosautsa zikhale zosiyana ndi zosavuta, ndiye sipadzakhala nkhawa.
Zizolowezi.
Zonsezi zikuthandizani kuthetsa chikoka chaukhondo mwapang'onopang'ono kuchokera ku moyo wanu, koma izi sizikupatsani chitsimikizo kuti tsiku lina mudzatha kulimbana ndi chiyeso chobwezeretsa bizinesi yofunikira, kupita ku msonkhano, kuyeretsa kunyumba. Mmene mungamvere ulesi ngati zikuwoneka zosagonjetsedwa? Chinsinsi ndicho kukhala ndi zizolowezi zabwino. Uwu ndiwo boma la tsikuli, lomwe silikutayika ngakhale kumapeto kwa sabata, ndilo kuyendetsa ntchito zonse zomwe zimagwira ntchito komanso kulamulira nthawi yomwe ilipo pazinthu izi. Munthu yemwe amazoloŵera kupita kusamba ndi kudya chakudya cham'mawa atadzuka, sadzaiŵala mpaka madzulo, kukambirana ndi abwenzi pafoni kapena ICQ. Munthu yemwe wasiya kuchoka ntchito popanda kusiya zinthu zofunika za mawa sakhala mu mphindi inayake yokhala ndi nthawi yochepa komanso nkhani khumi ndi ziwiri zomwe ziyenera kuthetsedwa mofulumira. Munthu yemwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito kukhala m'nyumba yoyera ndikuyang'ana bwino, ngakhale sakukonzekera, sangapezeke atazunguliridwa ndi zitsamba ndi tsitsi lopunduka.
Zimadziwika kuti zizolowezi zimapangidwira kwa kanthawi. Kawirikawiri zimatenga masabata angapo kupita miyezi ingapo. Koma ngati muchita zinthu nthawi zonse, mosakayikira adzakhala chizoloŵezi. Zikatero, kodi sikuli bwino kudzizoloŵera zinthu zothandiza, m'malo mochita zinthu zosiyana ndi kuzichita?
Ngati tikulankhula za momwe tingagonjetse ulesi nthawi zonse, sitingalephere kunena za zosowa za zosangalatsa. Munthu sangagwiritse ntchito kokha, mwinamwake moyo udzakhala wosasangalatsa komanso wosasangalatsa, umene umadzetsa chidwi ndi kusasamala ndi kupsinjika maganizo. Mpumulo ndi wofunikira kwa ife, tikusowa zosangalatsa ndi zofunikirako, ndikofunikira kuti tiphunzire kuti tisayende pakati pa tchuthi ndi ulesi. Munthu amakhaladi weniweni, akakhala wolimbika, ulesi umakhudza thanzi la moyo wamba, kuchepetsa thanzi, ubale ndi okondedwa ndi kuchepetsa chiyembekezo cha kupambana. Chinthu chimodzi chokha chingakhale chiyambi kuyambira masiku osakanikirana mpaka zochitika zowala. Chitani - chisankho chilipo kwa aliyense wa ife.